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Created by: gofish

3/6/17 @ 3:01pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Often find chat room void of chat for some reason. Not sure what is wrong with some of the members out there as the whole idea is to engage with the performer. Yes I know it can get a bit tricky when the performer jumps on you as he sees you as his sugar daddy, but geez there are so many performers on the site who are just not like that.
Merely to say HELLO will surely get the ball rolling.
I know there are some big spenders out there and it is great with the support they give to their special performers. I sure most performers would love to see a member come int the room and hit him up with a 100 credit tip. Something that perhaps many might not be able to do. However think of the WOOW factor if TEN members manage to hit that same performer up with 10 credits each. The fact is it is not necessarily how much you give but the fact that you are willing to give something be it credits or boost points. Merely as a jester of appreciation that the performer actually took the time to get online.
I am pretty sure this posting will b hit up with a few negative comments, but perhaps it might encourage some members that smalling things often come from big locations.

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Created by: Chuck Jey

3/6/17 @ 3:33pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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You wrote correctly! I agree with u. A lot of member sit in room and keep silence for 1-2 hours. And I dont know what them need! :thumbsup

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Created by: gofish

3/6/17 @ 3:46pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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You wrote correctly! I agree with u. A lot of member sit in room and keep silence for 1-2 hours. And I dont know what them need! :thumbsup

Chuck Jey thanks for the reply. Was beginning think I was that lonely fish swimming out there is a pool empty room bar one crazy fish.

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Created by: Kevin Stephens

3/6/17 @ 4:11pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Some guys keep silence for months

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Created by: gofish

3/6/17 @ 4:20pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Some guys keep silence for months

I am of the opinion that the performers on the site need to band together to address this silence issue. One can see the despair on the faces of so many performers. Guys these are real people with real emotions. If you don't get a kick out of being in their room please just move on. Sorry for being harsh, but totally frustrated.
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Created by: xpertsucker

3/6/17 @ 5:45pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Yeah, that's just what we need .. a non-tipper who contributes nothing to the site telling the rest of us how to behave. Pfff

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Created by: gofish

3/6/17 @ 6:26pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Yeah, that's just what we need .. a non-tipper who contributes nothing to the site telling the rest of us how to behave. Pfff

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xpertsucker just want to let you know you just made my day. Could blow off a little steam with the comment you made, but not going that route. Just one warning don't go in the water the Sharks are keen for BAIT like you .....
:winkwink

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Created by: xpertsucker

3/6/17 @ 7:02pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Pfff ...

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Created by: ronnie-uk

3/6/17 @ 10:11pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Yeah, that's just what we need .. a non-tipper who contributes nothing to the site telling the rest of us how to behave. Pfff :orglaugh

I have a similar reaction, xpertsucker. Gofish knows that already. However, why don't you and other members contribute your own topics to the forum? :winkwink

Gofish is at least contributing topics to the forum (over 100). It is a pity that so many are on the same theme: "Performers don't need credits. They just need nice words of encouragement". It is one person's view, but it doesn't need to be constantly repeated. Making the same point over and over again can spoil the forum for everyone, just like performer spam.

I have contributed more than my share of forum topics, but I have tried to make them varied and interesting: best VOD cum shots, party tricks, tattoos, group shows, soft cocks, performer announcements, Flirt4Free top 5, double penetration, full body poses, what members like to see, duo shows, lists, outdoor shows, adult stars, best pics and poses etc ....

So come on guys: show gofish how things should be done, and make the forum interesting and entertaining

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Created by: zyxwv098

3/7/17 @ 12:16am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I have a similar reaction, xpertsucker. Gofish knows that already. However, why don't you and other members contribute your own topics to the forum?

Not all of us are gifted with the ability to generate conversation and dialogue. Some of us are better able to respond to a topic than originate it. Others may have tried posting and gotten little to no response to what might otherwise have been an interesting topic. And there's another reason that I'm tempted to mention but won't, as it might cause offense...but it's why I hesitate to reply to most threads unless to provide informational assistance.

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Created by: yorkie41

3/7/17 @ 1:35am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Hi People. There are plenty of gorgeous young men, and not so young, on this site. Surely if you visit their rooms a chat is a part of the ritual. It is good to talk and it is the model who is giving his time to show you his body. :guitar

Leaving a small tip or boost is part of the show.

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Created by: Justin Shiver

3/7/17 @ 7:36am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Created by: myelmo

3/7/17 @ 9:34am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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for me this is 1 of the 2 best topic i have ever seen on here :thumbsup

the other 1 is (tippers and non tippers alike) :drinkup

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Created by: myelmo

3/7/17 @ 10:02am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I am of the opinion that the performers on the site need to band together to address this silence issue. One can see the despair on the faces of so many performers. Guys these are real people with real emotions. If you don't get a kick out of being in their room please just move on. Sorry for being harsh, but totally frustrated.
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as you well know i love open chat and tipping with other members but i think members have a right to be silence

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Created by: gofish

3/7/17 @ 11:57am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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can i add a performer point of view ?
Well it goes like this, when a performer usually see a big level member/costumer, its normal for the model to jump on him, but the factor that gets me crazy its that usually there are just nice performers who like to say hi, such as me, i usually salute every one that comes in my room, and to be honest, often i dont get a reply, thats the point where i get a little frustrated, i dont usually know what is up with that, i start to think if its something about me, or if i did something wrong, as usually after i say "hi" most of the costumers just leav, and that brings so many question marks in my head. I started to get used to it, but overall is not that nice, at least reply, and give that performer a reason of why you will leav or what you didnt like in his way of engaging you. At least he can improve and maybe become more attentive. Sorry for the long post.

Justin your post might long, but is most welcome as there is a saying that silence is golden where as in this case it has become frustrating. I know that some performers actually take the next step to welcome viewers into the room, and even then get no response. It is fine if a viewer wishes not to speak, but heck a mere Hello would work.
At this point don't think there is a solution since it has been going on far too long which is a shame as this is not the way the site used to be.
In any case glad to see your feedback.

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Created by: gofish

3/7/17 @ 1:50pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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as you well know i love open chat and tipping with other members but i think members have a right to be silence

Yes myelmo members do have the right to be silent, but if you think about it in doing so sort defeats the whole purpose of the site. Can image the excitement for a performer just sitting there with no one talking. The thought that could be going through their heads wondering what is wrong and why is this happening to me.
Fact is it can be pretty scary for some performers know that there are so many just lurking in their room and there is pretty much nothing they can do about it.
In any case I RESPECT your opinion unlike a few other comments, but hey one gets used to negative bashing anyway. Often best not to judge a person unless you know the real FACTS. Always cool to see your potings here myelmo (I was not referring to you with that comment).

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Created by: twixel

3/7/17 @ 3:17pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I used to stop in and say hello to other models, especially if they are new. Always nice to welcome them to the site and leave a few pointers to help them out.

Yet I also meet many that do not say a word, just sit and stare at the screen or their phones, and don't respond or join any conversation. Only thing you get is who will take me private.

I have left a few welcome tips to those that spend a little time chatting and getting to know their room.

Then it starts, "private bb" and other whispers. If I wanted to go private I know how to click the start. Yet it continues, I get frequent emails of invites and other flattering comments to get me to come visit the room.

So I have come to the point of just spending a bit of time with those I know I can visit with, relax, have a cocktail, and perhaps some fun.

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Created by: louisphillippe

3/7/17 @ 3:17pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Not all of us are gifted with the ability to generate conversation and dialogue. Some of us are better able to respond to a topic than originate it. Others may have tried posting and gotten little to no response to what might otherwise have been an interesting topic. And there's another reason that I'm tempted to mention but won't, as it might cause offense...but it's why I hesitate to reply to most threads unless to provide informational assistance.

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Ditto!!!

why voice your
opinion when you are going to be told to shut up and you are wrong by the
know-it-alls???? :orglaugh

Just my

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Created by: louisphillippe

3/7/17 @ 3:38pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Funny one Fish!!...Band together??..make the performers revolt??? :orglaugh

Get rid of the prospective silent clients???
I don't know how would that resonate with VS dear Fish!!!
:evil

Do you know what would it do to the very very very very few members
left if models revolt/retaliate like you said???? :angel

OBLITERATION!!!
:angel

Bad for both sides I'm afraid....

I'm sure you can tell by now there are a lot more models than members... :winkwink

In fact every day there are new faces that come and go ( I have counted around
400 models in just one shift of 2 hours and only 17 models busy.. :evil

)There are
less and less of us members so...thread with care in the way models treat
members because we are few and apart... :angel

...less and less everyday...
:orglaugh

Do you think models will patronize each others???... :orglaugh

BTW....the subject of silent watchers has been going on since the
beginning of this business and will be there until the last cam goes
forever OFF!! :winkwink

This is a SERVICE ORIENTED enterprise, no service no pay!! :winkwink

We all know models are people too...and so are the watchers...everyone has their
own idiosyncrasies so....a model should be prepared for this kind of anomalies.. :winkwink

I also defend the models sides normally but we all need limits. :angel

I was just in a models room paying with his phone while
munching on something and as soon as I went in I was told:
"Show respect the model..TIP!!" :orglaugh

Respect??? and...Tip for what???. I didn't even day HI! :orglaugh

Damn this place has changed a lot!!! :mad

Well...for whatever is worth here goes my :twocents

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Created by: louisphillippe

3/7/17 @ 3:40pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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as you well know i love open chat and tipping with other members but i think members have a right to be silence

Yeap!!!...when you sign up as a memmber they don't
tell you you MUST chat and tip in open rooms... :orglaugh

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