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Created by: hotpress

7/10/15 @ 10:00am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Experienced members and performers are encouraged to post helpful advice here

[This could be a useful topic to refer to, and could reduce the number of repetitive topics. Worth a try]

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Created by: Samson Hercules

7/10/15 @ 10:18am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Members are encouraged to post helpful advice here

[This could be a helpful to refer to, and reduce the number of repetitive topics. Worth a try]

give advice, it is possible to smoke in general, party or privat chat?

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Created by: ourjeffie

7/10/15 @ 11:35am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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In most workplaces in many countries smoking is not allowed

I understand that Flirt4Free no longer bans smoking in open room or party chat, but that does not mean it is allowed in your workplace. Many studios do not allow it

You should certainly ask the member for permission to smoke in a private show

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Created by: gofish

7/10/15 @ 12:23pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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One piece of advise for new performers is is you wish to have music on it needs to be background music. For some viewers coming into a room with loud music can be a turnoff if there seems to be no purpose for it (such as dancing).
As for the smoking it might be a studio issue more than a site issue. However if not a studio issue then the odd smoke I would think would not be a problem if there are no other models round.

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Helpful advice for the new performers please. Give them some respect :thumbsup

This could be a good topic without the junk :winkwink

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Created by: myelmo

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Helpful advice for the new performers please. Give them some respect :thumbsup

This could be a good topic without the junk :winkwink

just what I need one more member on the forums to tell me how to respect models-I will not post here no more

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7/11/15 @ 10:41am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Some new performers are confused about which forum they should use.

This Male Performer Chat forum is used by members and performers. If you want to raise topics which are only for fellow performers to see, you should use the Studio and Performers forum :bulb

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Great advice!! :thumbsup

but I do
prefer non smokers :angel

and loud music is very annoying... :mad

Especially when I'm trying to relax and suddenly BOOOMMM!!!
The loud music makes me jump.... :orglaugh

It is like a bucket of ice water dumped on my head :orglaugh

(

Besides I don't want to wake up the whole house... :winkwink

I'm
supposed to be studying or reading...)

Just my :twocents

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Created by: ronnie-uk

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A bit of friendly advice for the new performers. Try to be positive rather than negative.

In the forum: it is best not to moan about the members, and to complain that on-one visits you, no-one talks to you, no-one gives you tips and no-one takes you private. That just makes you seem negative and unpopular. Better to post about something of interest that members might like to see

In your room: you will very often find that you don't get the pledges you need for a group show, or tips for a party chat. That can happen to all performers. Even the Hall of Fame legends :winkwink

If you just moan about those who don't pledge or tip you can appear less attractive and less likeable. Much better to thank those who do pledge and tip. Members tend to respond better to performers who show their appreciation.

Hope this is of some help :drinkup

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As ronnie-uk says, a positive outlook is much more appealing and attractive than negativity.

If you are at a loss of what to do, do not hesitate to ask for advice, either in your chat rooms or in the forums, but being polite--even despite your frustration--will elicit better advice and assistance from members and/or other models.

When asking for advice in your chat rooms, please be aware that VIPs are just another color (they pay for it) and that some of them are as obnoxious and as rude as some of the grey guest users are...ask them what to do, and these VIPs are as likely to tell you to "show cock bb" as the greys are. However, do not be afraid to ask any members you are familiar with or who behave well, seem reasonable, and/or are or have been supportive...these are the ones most likely to offer good advice and suggestions on how to improve things (they may still tell you to "show cock bb" but they will at least also include a good and logical explanation for why you should).

I offer one other bit of advice: know your limits. If you have to, write down what you are willing to do in open chat, in multi-user, in party, or in private, and what you are absolutely not willing to do. Write it down and stick to it, despite all offers. Others may feel differently, but I respect models who do not succumb to the temptation of the big tips, or at least do so on their own terms, not on the members' terms. For example, if a member offers 500 to a model to show something in open chat (e.g. "hole") and the model asks for a substantially larger tip (say, 10,000) to fend-off the insistent member and then RECEIVES that tip and follows through with the agreement, I find I can respect that more than I can respect the model who has always maintained they will not show (hole) then suddenly does it just because it's a slow shift and a member tips 500 and tells them to show.

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