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Male Performer Chat: How do you choose a model?
Hello. I have been working in this industry not so long ago and I would like to know your opinion. When you choose a model, what do you most often pay attention to? What do you expect from her in private? What is important to you? Complete obedience and obedience or a strong horakter? I want to know what you think about this.
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Attractiveness is of course key, but, do they have enough self respect to groom themselves, not pick their noses, keep their surroundings neat so we feel comfortable chatting. I hate seeing blankets bunched up, clothes strewn everywhere, trash, loose papers and chain smoking. Smiles, hellos, showing me you can actually be fun and talking is what draws me in first. Next, are you friendly and make good conversation or do you want a PRIVATE right away. If you can talk, show interest in me rather than how many credits you squeeze out of me, then, I may invite you to a private. You notice, I reversed it. We are all paying for this, so it is our private.
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Think of who comes here. What kind of people come to the site? They may be people you wouldn’t even notice if you are with your friends. They want to have an experience with someone attractive like you that they wouldn’t get outside of the site. Be nice and make them feel as if they can have you. Fulfill their fantasy.
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gofish
12/8/19 @ 6:41pm
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A part from having a sexual fantasy I would think a great personality would be at the top of the list. The ability to opening chat with the viewers in the room in a very comfortable way. Basically to treat those members who visit your room as you would if actually meeting them in person. 
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I am far more likely to stop in to a room (favourite or someone new) if the performer in the room is A) Actually in the room and not an empty chair/sofa/bed; B) NOT focused on a smart phone and completely ignoring anyone entering the room and C) Actively engaged in conversations with users in the room, regardless of the user status (member vs grey vs ??). Prime example? Check out Jaden Storm. You will understand what I mean within 5 minutes in his room. He is a first class performer.
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These days I try not to visit the same room on a regular basis to help lessen any sense of attachment and to make the visits in between a little more amusing.
But generally though, I look for guys with good looks, welcoming smile, confidence, (sexual) chemistry, being able to do more than just parrot "So horny, private bb!" and capable of carrying a conversation that keeps my attention beyond the usual small chats (i.e age, location, occupation). Quote
But generally though, I look for guys with good looks, welcoming smile, confidence, (sexual) chemistry, being able to do more than just parrot "So horny, private bb!" and capable of carrying a conversation that keeps my attention beyond the usual small chats (i.e age, location, occupation). Quote
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I am far more likely to stop in to a room (favourite or someone new) if the performer in the room is A) Actually in the room and not an empty chair/sofa/bed; B) NOT focused on a smart phone and completely ignoring anyone entering the room and C) Actively engaged in conversations with users in the room, regardless of the user status (member vs grey vs ??). Prime example? Check out Jaden Storm. You will understand what I mean within 5 minutes in his room. He is a first class performer.
Ditto!!
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Ditto!!
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louisphillippe
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Attractiveness is of course key, but, do they have enough self respect to groom themselves, not pick their noses, keep their surroundings neat so we feel comfortable chatting. I hate seeing blankets bunched up, clothes strewn everywhere, trash, loose papers and chain smoking. Smiles, hellos, showing me you can actually be fun and talking is what draws me in first. Next, are you friendly and make good conversation or do you want a PRIVATE right away. If you can talk, show interest in me rather than how many credits you squeeze out of me, then, I may invite you to a private. You notice, I reversed it. We are all paying for this, so it is our private.
OMG!! you echo most of my feelings... Add to that a beardless face,beautiful eyes,clean cut and more than anything clean skin WITHOUT any tattoos or piercings!! 
Tats are so 2005 
and not fashionable anymore. Some models didn't get the memo yet????!!!!
It is hard to find a man that looks like a man not a walking graffiti wall or a hairy tumbleweed...
A great physique never hurts 
coupled with attractive conversation and lots of patience. 
Just my
and personal liking... 
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OMG!! you echo most of my feelings... Add to that a beardless face,beautiful eyes,clean cut and more than anything clean skin WITHOUT any tattoos or piercings!! Tats are so 2005 and not fashionable anymore. Some models didn't get the memo yet????!!!! It is hard to find a man that looks like a man not a walking graffiti wall or a hairy tumbleweed... A great physique never hurts coupled with attractive conversation and lots of patience. Just my
and personal liking...
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graybearphx
12/15/19 @ 6:02pm
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First impressions/attraction are of course the default answer here. But you have to look beyond that, to find out what the model is all about, why he does what he does, his attitude toward his users, etc.
As an aexample, I found a cover photo of a semi-naked guy holding a guitar in front of him, hiding what was a very foxy, ripped athletic body. My first thougt: Is he THAT clueless, thinking people will be attracted a photo of a GUITAR?? But I decided to check it out ...
In chatting with the young man, I found him to be fascinating, creative, sensitive, HOT as hell on many levels, and one of the most intelligent people I have ever encountered on an online service of any kind. At this point, now almost a year later, he is still #1 to me, and I rarely visit anyone else's chat rooms. Also, he is by far the BEST in Private Chats I have ever imagined, with a creative streak tied to considerable acting skills, making any fettish or fantasy jump alive within seconds. I have recommended him to others as well, and gotten similar feedback. (If you are wondering, it is Nick Wolf.)
Look beyond the cover photo, and get to know the model. Quote
As an aexample, I found a cover photo of a semi-naked guy holding a guitar in front of him, hiding what was a very foxy, ripped athletic body. My first thougt: Is he THAT clueless, thinking people will be attracted a photo of a GUITAR?? But I decided to check it out ...
In chatting with the young man, I found him to be fascinating, creative, sensitive, HOT as hell on many levels, and one of the most intelligent people I have ever encountered on an online service of any kind. At this point, now almost a year later, he is still #1 to me, and I rarely visit anyone else's chat rooms. Also, he is by far the BEST in Private Chats I have ever imagined, with a creative streak tied to considerable acting skills, making any fettish or fantasy jump alive within seconds. I have recommended him to others as well, and gotten similar feedback. (If you are wondering, it is Nick Wolf.)
Look beyond the cover photo, and get to know the model. Quote
I check their butt. If it's round, I pick the owner.
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gofish
12/21/19 @ 8:22pm
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