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Female Performer Chat: Can you fall "in love" with a performer?
Hello everyone,
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;) Quote
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
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amanda_fucking_palmer
10/22/14 @ 7:51pm
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: yeah baby ... i'm faking it again
Posts: 1,793
bah
another one of these silly threads
*sprouts my Valkyrien wings* *goes pale and black eyed*
when will one of you indolent 'knowing' elders of this site take these poodles into a corner and explain 'life' to them? always leaving it to me to expose them to the Omniverse and how it truely operates.
You do NOT get into Valhalla with your dick as the only thing in your hand. To cope with what surrounds you takes more than a boner and a long credit line. "It takes more than love" and she was right; it takes a warrior. Pffttt the love is easy enough, you're lightyears of electrons away ... how could love be any easier? Wax your romance your steamy fantasies, throw your heart ALL about; some semblance of shimmy shimmy co co pah chanted in broadband ecstasy spurting hope and everything painted plums and roses imaginary.
The realities are stated over and over by myself and a few others. This place is designed to eat your hearts, unintentionally at times, and like the maw of a meat grinder at others. Beware.
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another one of these silly threads
*sprouts my Valkyrien wings* *goes pale and black eyed*
when will one of you indolent 'knowing' elders of this site take these poodles into a corner and explain 'life' to them? always leaving it to me to expose them to the Omniverse and how it truely operates.
You do NOT get into Valhalla with your dick as the only thing in your hand. To cope with what surrounds you takes more than a boner and a long credit line. "It takes more than love" and she was right; it takes a warrior. Pffttt the love is easy enough, you're lightyears of electrons away ... how could love be any easier? Wax your romance your steamy fantasies, throw your heart ALL about; some semblance of shimmy shimmy co co pah chanted in broadband ecstasy spurting hope and everything painted plums and roses imaginary.
The realities are stated over and over by myself and a few others. This place is designed to eat your hearts, unintentionally at times, and like the maw of a meat grinder at others. Beware.
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dan_in_florida
10/23/14 @ 3:39am
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Location: Sunny South Florida - with a REALLY cool car :-)
Posts: 1,501
Ummm, ahhh, "no comment" from me & The Missus... 
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amanda_fucking_palmer
10/23/14 @ 5:57am
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Location: yeah baby ... i'm faking it again
Posts: 1,793
Hello everyone,
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
Hello!!!! I am a performer and I certainly think it is possible for a customer and performer to fall in love. But then again, I'm a romantic! javascript:insertEmoticon('
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Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
Hello!!!! I am a performer and I certainly think it is possible for a customer and performer to fall in love. But then again, I'm a romantic! javascript:insertEmoticon('
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dudley_do_ride
10/26/14 @ 7:14pm
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Location: hain't Pochipsie son
Posts: 3,264
Emoticon leader 
does not "fall in love"...
He carries off all the
He makes the ground crunchy from all the dried
You won't need love either when he introduces the state nursery system for your own good. All your k1ds will be taught is
If you need to forget... join the
today... Now recruiting for the Empty Quarter and Eastern Outer Paonia
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does not "fall in love"...He carries off all the
He makes the ground crunchy from all the dried
You won't need love either when he introduces the state nursery system for your own good. All your k1ds will be taught is
If you need to forget... join the
today... Now recruiting for the Empty Quarter and Eastern Outer PaoniaQuote
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kubota3600
10/28/14 @ 3:09pm
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Location: louisianna
Posts: 46
Yes! It is very possible. It happened to me.
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good4boners
8/2/21 @ 11:28pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 2
Yes it is possible. I am in love with a performer. We have had a lot of fun together and it is not just sexual. I have no interest in any other performers now. In fact, this performer is leaving the site and when he goes, I will go as well.
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dan_in_florida
8/3/21 @ 1:39am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Sunny South Florida - with a REALLY cool car :-)
Posts: 1,501
This is a nice blast from the past. Might as well provide an update. A few old timers still here may remember that I met The Future Missus in online chat way back in October of 2008. We dated online through the rest of that year, first met in person in January of 2009, and continued dating on my subsequent visits to Colombia, with me proposing in the summer of 2009. We applied for a K-1 fiancee visa (like on 90 Day Fiancee, but without the TV cameras or the traumas, LOL, and years before the TV show even existed) in the fall of 2009. She came to Florida to marry me about a year after that in October of 2010. We got her green card in early 2011 so she could begin to work & study here, and she studied hard and earned her full USA citizenship in the minimum time after only 3 years here. We stayed together as a couple until the end of 2015, when life took us in different directions into the future, but we separated as friends, and still grab lunch together about twice a year. We are each quite happily & seriously seeing someone very special in our lives currently, and are each thrilled that the other has found someone again, hers here in Florida & mine in Colombia. Career wise, I still do what I've always done working in the environmental field, and after leaving webcamming, she studied several different disciplines in the health & wellness fields before settling in as a licensed massage theripist at a major local hotel. We did lunch together about a month ago to catch up, and she even stopped by daily to feed my cats a couple weeks ago when I was back in Colombia to spend a week by the beach with Mi Amorcita Nueva, who has taken a break from webcamming in recent months to focus more on family. Seriously, this is just about the last place to look for real love, but every once (or even twice!) in a while it can and does actually happen. 
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Hello everyone,
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
Yes! There are too much morons on site but sometimes i meet very special guys on site! They are respectful, they know what they want ! I was bulled too much times in life but f4f first place where guys show me their respect not dicks only!
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Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
Yes! There are too much morons on site but sometimes i meet very special guys on site! They are respectful, they know what they want ! I was bulled too much times in life but f4f first place where guys show me their respect not dicks only!
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beavis_fire
8/9/21 @ 12:59pm
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Holland
Posts: 103
And why not
Everywhere people meet , they can fall in love
Even if you'll never meet in person
Even if the other is nothing but a fantasy
Love can be felt
And , on rare occasions, these feelings can be mutual
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Everywhere people meet , they can fall in love
Even if you'll never meet in person
Even if the other is nothing but a fantasy
Love can be felt
And , on rare occasions, these feelings can be mutual
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Hello everyone,
Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
I think these things happen daily on here ) many beautiful girls and so so many nice viewers!
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Do you think it's possible to "fall in" love with a performer? Performers, have you fallen in love with a customer? I am interested in your answers and anecdotes could be interesting. I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies but is a friendship possible between a performer and a customer. Some customers are attached to a performer and with time, a virtual friendship can be born, why not a real friendship. Imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways. Could you imagine having a performer like boyfriend?
i'm waiting for your comments ;)
I think these things happen daily on here ) many beautiful girls and so so many nice viewers!
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A client falling in love with a performer is asking for trouble. The name "performer" says it already; chances are you are falling in love with a performance.
But strange things happen, people meet in unlikely places... Quote
But strange things happen, people meet in unlikely places... Quote
Nothing is impossible! I think I'm in love w/my model I don't want to call her performer. I think you also can sense if they have the same true feelings for you. 
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ourjeffie
12/20/21 @ 9:43pm
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Location: Brisbane Australia, home of the 2032 Olympic Games
Posts: 44,478
Dan_in_Florida's story above was about a male customer who fell in love with, and subsequently married, a female performer.
I am aware of a female customer who fell in love with, and subsequently married, a male performer.
It does happen.
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I am aware of a female customer who fell in love with, and subsequently married, a male performer.
It does happen.
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All I'll say is that you can, but you probably shouldn't.
As in life, what you THINK is love is really just that, "what YOU think" Quote
As in life, what you THINK is love is really just that, "what YOU think" Quote
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suggs
12/30/21 @ 4:16pm
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Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768
Well if you get on well with a model I can guarantee as soon as you stop coming on the site you might as well stop following them on twitter as you are dropped quicker than a blue wale out the back of a C5 Galaxy
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