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Female Performer Chat: A question for customers
Okay, so VIP members are obviously less common than the regular members or premium ones, but occasionally a few float through my room. A lot of the time, they stop in for a few seconds and then leave. I understand it could just be that I'm not their type, but sometimes I wonder. I'll usually leave them be and they stay for a while, but as soon as I whisper them or say hello, they leave. Do you prefer to be left alone or do you like it when we say hello? It's very confusing. I've had a few gold members who are really nice and they stick around with me through my whole performance and I love that! But sometimes I feel like I'm scaring people away somehow. Is there anything that you guys see or hear that makes you leave immediately? Does seeing a girl completely naked already just bore you, or does seeing a girl clothed bore you? I get mixed signals and obviously everyone's different, but it would be cool to get different opinions!
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dan_in_florida
6/1/15 @ 10:58pm
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Location: Sunny South Florida - with a REALLY cool car :-)
Posts: 1,501
Everyone is indeed different, and try as you might, you can never please all of them. My best advice is to be yourself, and do what feels best for you, and those who see you enjoying yourself and who "get you" will hang around and feel the fun vibe too.
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Okay, so VIP members are obviously less common than the regular members or premium ones, but occasionally a few float through my room. A lot of the time, they stop in for a few seconds and then leave. I understand it could just be that I'm not their type, but sometimes I wonder. I'll usually leave them be and they stay for a while, but as soon as I whisper them or say hello, they leave. Do you prefer to be left alone or do you like it when we say hello? It's very confusing. I've had a few gold members who are really nice and they stick around with me through my whole performance and I love that! But sometimes I feel like I'm scaring people away somehow. Is there anything that you guys see or hear that makes you leave immediately? Does seeing a girl completely naked already just bore you, or does seeing a girl clothed bore you? I get mixed signals and obviously everyone's different, but it would be cool to get different opinions!
wow tough questions! gonna take a crack at answering one or two of them ...
...guys r generally window shoppers, when they see summin' that tickles their fancy they r likely ta stop and shove there noses against the window. Then it all gets a whole lot harder coz chaps also have the attention span of a flea amongst a forest of varicose veins so u gotta b supa dupa skilful at this stage, skilful often means workin' out which fellas matter and which don't ... the ones that matter r ones that bring a good vibe with them, the ones that don't matter bring shit. Havin' a good feeling in ur room will keep them hangin' around ... u don't want chaps willy wackin' each other its a downer. When theres peace and happiness in ur room its easier for u to be u and thats always the best, and most interesting ... nakedness is the destination for most, so its prolly wise not to make it the intro point, also sexiness is seldom borne outta nakedness, rather its an attitude. I have an 'auto answer' allergy ... sends me running ... always. Most the time I think fellas like to do the work so let 'em whisper to u ..gold or not. Thats my take on it, I am sure u'll get lots of more educated answers but there u go.
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wow tough questions! gonna take a crack at answering one or two of them ...
...guys r generally window shoppers, when they see summin' that tickles their fancy they r likely ta stop and shove there noses against the window. Then it all gets a whole lot harder coz chaps also have the attention span of a flea amongst a forest of varicose veins so u gotta b supa dupa skilful at this stage, skilful often means workin' out which fellas matter and which don't ... the ones that matter r ones that bring a good vibe with them, the ones that don't matter bring shit. Havin' a good feeling in ur room will keep them hangin' around ... u don't want chaps willy wackin' each other its a downer. When theres peace and happiness in ur room its easier for u to be u and thats always the best, and most interesting ... nakedness is the destination for most, so its prolly wise not to make it the intro point, also sexiness is seldom borne outta nakedness, rather its an attitude. I have an 'auto answer' allergy ... sends me running ... always. Most the time I think fellas like to do the work so let 'em whisper to u ..gold or not. Thats my take on it, I am sure u'll get lots of more educated answers but there u go.
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ohiodude45210
6/1/15 @ 11:55pm
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Location: cincinnati, ohio
Posts: 45
Welcome to Flirt Athena. Congratulations on receiving responses from Dan in Florida and Kertzum. Dan is one of the wisest men on Forums and Kertzum is an enthusiastic newcomer. Dan said straight to the point, be yourself. Kert gave good advice. I myself have been visiting Flirt for less than a year. A thread Open Chat Etiquette Redux by Suggs should be read by all users and is helpful to models.
I stopped because you are named Athena, I took Latin. Also I liked how you said "my whole performance", I may stop for the show.
Models have told me they had a lot of WTF moments in the first month or two, be patient. As one old user told me "it's just a wack-off site." That is why some people don't have patience for all the same questions from "newbies" Well, I am oldest in my family and if my siblings DIDN'T ask certain questions I got worried. Including "who put you in charge asshole" that one became a lawyer. LOL
So do your performance, remember it is YOUR room, and have fun. I don't care if you have a puppet show with beanie babies. A sexy lady laughing and making us laugh usually leads to good things. Good Luck
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I stopped because you are named Athena, I took Latin. Also I liked how you said "my whole performance", I may stop for the show.
Models have told me they had a lot of WTF moments in the first month or two, be patient. As one old user told me "it's just a wack-off site." That is why some people don't have patience for all the same questions from "newbies" Well, I am oldest in my family and if my siblings DIDN'T ask certain questions I got worried. Including "who put you in charge asshole" that one became a lawyer. LOL
So do your performance, remember it is YOUR room, and have fun. I don't care if you have a puppet show with beanie babies. A sexy lady laughing and making us laugh usually leads to good things. Good Luck
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hehe newcomer ... i like it!
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amanda_fucking_palmer
6/2/15 @ 1:23am
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Location: yeah baby ... i'm faking it again
Posts: 1,793
Thanks so much for your replies, everyone! I'll keep all that in mind tonight when I get on again! I'm thinking about doing my first group show just to do something new. I suppose I'll just keep doing what I'm doing. I'm having fun and that's all that really matters to me. Again, thank you for your input! It's good to hear from someone who knows their way around the circus.
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I like being talked to, whether you are clothed or not 
Oh yea, there are also those guys who'd leave the moment you greet them as they prefer to silently lurk in the room for a while(for whatever reasons). Don't worry by the action or reaction of us lot 
, just do what you think is mutually nice, really :0)
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Oh yea, there are also those guys who'd leave the moment you greet them as they prefer to silently lurk in the room for a while(for whatever reasons). Don't worry by the action or reaction of us lot , just do what you think is mutually nice, really :0)
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Okay, so VIP members are obviously less common than the regular members or premium ones, but occasionally a few float through my room. A lot of the time, they stop in for a few seconds and then leave. I understand it could just be that I'm not their type, but sometimes I wonder. I'll usually leave them be and they stay for a while, but as soon as I whisper them or say hello, they leave. Do you prefer to be left alone or do you like it when we say hello? It's very confusing. I've had a few gold members who are really nice and they stick around with me through my whole performance and I love that! But sometimes I feel like I'm scaring people away somehow. Is there anything that you guys see or hear that makes you leave immediately? Does seeing a girl completely naked already just bore you, or does seeing a girl clothed bore you? I get mixed signals and obviously everyone's different, but it would be cool to get different opinions!
MY GOD GIRL FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME i have a degree in psychology but there doesnt seem to b many things u can predict in this game- right? i cant work any of it out at all if u get the magic answer let me know lol oh btw hit us @twitter f a followback@foxysakura sometimes good t have a bitch confidential of course i can promote u too good luck babygirl be lucky! Quote
MY GOD GIRL FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME i have a degree in psychology but there doesnt seem to b many things u can predict in this game- right? i cant work any of it out at all if u get the magic answer let me know lol oh btw hit us @twitter f a followback@foxysakura sometimes good t have a bitch confidential of course i can promote u too good luck babygirl be lucky! Quote
Everyone is indeed different, and try as you might, you can never please all of them. My best advice is to be yourself, and do what feels best for you, and those who see you enjoying yourself and who "get you" will hang around and feel the fun vibe too.
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I like being talked to, whether you are clothed or not Oh yea, there are also those guys who'd leave the moment you greet them as they prefer to silently lurk in the room for a while(for whatever reasons). Don't worry by the action or reaction of us lot , just do what you think is mutually nice, really :0)
Thanks! I'll keep that in mind! It's good to know that it might not just be something I'm doing.
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Oh yea, there are also those guys who'd leave the moment you greet them as they prefer to silently lurk in the room for a while(for whatever reasons). Don't worry by the action or reaction of us lot , just do what you think is mutually nice, really :0)Thanks! I'll keep that in mind! It's good to know that it might not just be something I'm doing.
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lol i did to.
*eyeroll of oblivion*
OI! another 'enthusiastic' newcomer!! ... tip ban the bugga!
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