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Female Performer Chat: Silence is golden and no white noise
I freely admit to being a lurker. Having admitted it, I give the following reasons, excuses or whatever term you may want to insert:
1. How many times do the models answer the normal questions? How old are you? Where are you from?, are you single? Where do you live? Do you have a boyfriend? Is one more member asking the same questions really going to matter?
2. Being jumped as soon as I enter the room: I'm usually gone as soon as I see my name as usually it is followed up by: wanna have some fun?, Take me pvt, I'm so hooorny can you help me, etc....
3. I've been coming to the site for a loooong time, I've had some awesome privates, some mediocre pvts, and some experiences that still make me cringe when I see the particular models name. Getting an idea of what the model will and won't do, if she understands the language well enough to do the things I ask in pvt, and how she will react has cut down on those unpleasent experiences.
4. As stated above I have visted this site for many years, taken literally hundreds of the models private, (up until a year or so ago I had a written record of who, how many times and unfairly a rating system of the models, so I'm not making a false claim to the numbers) so I'm not some broke, pleading, whiny begger., However at one point soon after joining the site and demonstrating a willingness to take models private they came to expect it almost as soon as I logged into their room. Unfortunately my circumstances changed, as did my income level and as the number of privates dropped, I had the occassion to be called a begger, asked what they had done, why I was being so mean, etc. As a result, I very seldom appear in a room with this nickname, even though a high turnover of the models has occurred, there are still some here that remember the "good times". Using a different nickname I can visit the models rooms without the expection of private, and seem to have become good enough in changing my personality that the model has no idea who I am unless I do take her private and show up in private with my posting nickname. Sometimes I chat the model up, sometimes I just want to admire her in silence.
Maybe other VIP's have similar experiences or use some of the same reasons, excuses, or insert your own term here. It does not mean that we have no respect for the model, sometimes silence is golden.
Excuse my spelling, my lack of eloquence, my lack of social skill, my lack of proper format, use of verbage, etc. But for the time being, I am who I am, if you don't like the lurkers ask them to leave your room if they are making you uncomfortable.
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1. How many times do the models answer the normal questions? How old are you? Where are you from?, are you single? Where do you live? Do you have a boyfriend? Is one more member asking the same questions really going to matter?
2. Being jumped as soon as I enter the room: I'm usually gone as soon as I see my name as usually it is followed up by: wanna have some fun?, Take me pvt, I'm so hooorny can you help me, etc....
3. I've been coming to the site for a loooong time, I've had some awesome privates, some mediocre pvts, and some experiences that still make me cringe when I see the particular models name. Getting an idea of what the model will and won't do, if she understands the language well enough to do the things I ask in pvt, and how she will react has cut down on those unpleasent experiences.
4. As stated above I have visted this site for many years, taken literally hundreds of the models private, (up until a year or so ago I had a written record of who, how many times and unfairly a rating system of the models, so I'm not making a false claim to the numbers) so I'm not some broke, pleading, whiny begger., However at one point soon after joining the site and demonstrating a willingness to take models private they came to expect it almost as soon as I logged into their room. Unfortunately my circumstances changed, as did my income level and as the number of privates dropped, I had the occassion to be called a begger, asked what they had done, why I was being so mean, etc. As a result, I very seldom appear in a room with this nickname, even though a high turnover of the models has occurred, there are still some here that remember the "good times". Using a different nickname I can visit the models rooms without the expection of private, and seem to have become good enough in changing my personality that the model has no idea who I am unless I do take her private and show up in private with my posting nickname. Sometimes I chat the model up, sometimes I just want to admire her in silence.
Maybe other VIP's have similar experiences or use some of the same reasons, excuses, or insert your own term here. It does not mean that we have no respect for the model, sometimes silence is golden.
Excuse my spelling, my lack of eloquence, my lack of social skill, my lack of proper format, use of verbage, etc. But for the time being, I am who I am, if you don't like the lurkers ask them to leave your room if they are making you uncomfortable.
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I freely admit to being a lurker. Having admitted it, I give the following reasons, excuses or whatever term you may want to insert:
1. How many times do the models answer the normal questions? How old are you? Where are you from?, are you single? Where do you live? Do you have a boyfriend? Is one more member asking the same questions really going to matter?
2. Being jumped as soon as I enter the room: I'm usually gone as soon as I see my name as usually it is followed up by: wanna have some fun?, Take me pvt, I'm so hooorny can you help me, etc....
3. I've been coming to the site for a loooong time, I've had some awesome privates, some mediocre pvts, and some experiences that still make me cringe when I see the particular models name. Getting an idea of what the model will and won't do, if she understands the language well enough to do the things I ask in pvt, and how she will react has cut down on those unpleasent experiences.
4. As stated above I have visted this site for many years, taken literally hundreds of the models private, (up until a year or so ago I had a written record of who, how many times and unfairly a rating system of the models, so I'm not making a false claim to the numbers) so I'm not some broke, pleading, whiny begger., However at one point soon after joining the site and demonstrating a willingness to take models private they came to expect it almost as soon as I logged into their room. Unfortunately my circumstances changed, as did my income level and as the number of privates dropped, I had the occassion to be called a begger, asked what they had done, why I was being so mean, etc. As a result, I very seldom appear in a room with this nickname, even though a high turnover of the models has occurred, there are still some here that remember the "good times". Using a different nickname I can visit the models rooms without the expection of private, and seem to have become good enough in changing my personality that the model has no idea who I am unless I do take her private and show up in private with my posting nickname. Sometimes I chat the model up, sometimes I just want to admire her in silence.
Maybe other VIP's have similar experiences or use some of the same reasons, excuses, or insert your own term here. It does not mean that we have no respect for the model, sometimes silence is golden.
Excuse my spelling, my lack of eloquence, my lack of social skill, my lack of proper format, use of verbage, etc. But for the time being, I am who I am, if you don't like the lurkers ask them to leave your room if they are making you uncomfortable.
I agree 100% with you...sometimes im quiet but its not to be rude or anything im just feeling like reading the chat and look at the beautiful girl...and most of the time im lmao reading the chat! Quote
1. How many times do the models answer the normal questions? How old are you? Where are you from?, are you single? Where do you live? Do you have a boyfriend? Is one more member asking the same questions really going to matter?
2. Being jumped as soon as I enter the room: I'm usually gone as soon as I see my name as usually it is followed up by: wanna have some fun?, Take me pvt, I'm so hooorny can you help me, etc....
3. I've been coming to the site for a loooong time, I've had some awesome privates, some mediocre pvts, and some experiences that still make me cringe when I see the particular models name. Getting an idea of what the model will and won't do, if she understands the language well enough to do the things I ask in pvt, and how she will react has cut down on those unpleasent experiences.
4. As stated above I have visted this site for many years, taken literally hundreds of the models private, (up until a year or so ago I had a written record of who, how many times and unfairly a rating system of the models, so I'm not making a false claim to the numbers) so I'm not some broke, pleading, whiny begger., However at one point soon after joining the site and demonstrating a willingness to take models private they came to expect it almost as soon as I logged into their room. Unfortunately my circumstances changed, as did my income level and as the number of privates dropped, I had the occassion to be called a begger, asked what they had done, why I was being so mean, etc. As a result, I very seldom appear in a room with this nickname, even though a high turnover of the models has occurred, there are still some here that remember the "good times". Using a different nickname I can visit the models rooms without the expection of private, and seem to have become good enough in changing my personality that the model has no idea who I am unless I do take her private and show up in private with my posting nickname. Sometimes I chat the model up, sometimes I just want to admire her in silence.
Maybe other VIP's have similar experiences or use some of the same reasons, excuses, or insert your own term here. It does not mean that we have no respect for the model, sometimes silence is golden.
Excuse my spelling, my lack of eloquence, my lack of social skill, my lack of proper format, use of verbage, etc. But for the time being, I am who I am, if you don't like the lurkers ask them to leave your room if they are making you uncomfortable.
I agree 100% with you...sometimes im quiet but its not to be rude or anything im just feeling like reading the chat and look at the beautiful girl...and most of the time im lmao reading the chat! Quote
Great response Fozzzy! I can totally understand where you are coming from.
One thing I can gather from the various responses to my original post, is that this is whole more complicated situation than I first thought. And I wouldn't be surprised if lurker may be considered a harsh term for people not chatting. I'm going to call them silents from now on.
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One thing I can gather from the various responses to my original post, is that this is whole more complicated situation than I first thought. And I wouldn't be surprised if lurker may be considered a harsh term for people not chatting. I'm going to call them silents from now on.
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ozzieboy4u
3/29/09 @ 5:48pm
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One must tread gently around these lurkers, for they are easily startled. Like deer peering through the foliage of a cool leafy forest, a gentle 'Hi' often causes them to bolt, their white tails bobbing into the distance. They are the unseen, the eyes you can feel watching you, you wait in vain for them to acknowledge their presence but alas, often this will never happen. Other times it takes days, weeks, even months of allowing yourself to be observed whilst pretending they're not even there.
To these delicate creatures of the darkness, I say this: do not be afraid, for we are here to please and satisfy, not to harm. Fear not, for the ban function has been removed; we are now more vulnerable than those who stalk us.
Please, dear and reclusive ones, do enlighten us. Why so shy?
Their response?
COZ WE'RE WANKIN', YER BLEEDIN' TART!!!
rofl
so funny great post. 
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To these delicate creatures of the darkness, I say this: do not be afraid, for we are here to please and satisfy, not to harm. Fear not, for the ban function has been removed; we are now more vulnerable than those who stalk us.
Please, dear and reclusive ones, do enlighten us. Why so shy?
Their response?
COZ WE'RE WANKIN', YER BLEEDIN' TART!!!
rofl
so funny great post.
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