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Female Performer Chat: HOW DO I GET MY GIRL TO DO THAT?!
Wow...I spent so much time reading all those good posts that I want to get crazy with the gf tomorrow night.
Here's my delemma.....
How do I tell my gf that I get guys and the occasional girl off on the net?
I have her heart and she will at least try things with me, so thats a start. I'm working on the swallowing, and anal....she did agree to let me pee on her as long as it was in the shower and I would do something that she wants to try (which of course I would !!!) but I'm not sure how I can say listen baby, guys cum while I get them off.
Although I am as straight as they come, I'm open minded and don't mind doing the performance because thats what it is. I don't get off thinking of the other person...I get off thinking of getting off. (helps to be a nympho)
I wish more girls came in to the site to see me...but what girl needs a fantasy guy on the net?
I won't lie and say I never experimented, but I def LOVE women.
Advice?
Oh, side note... reg candle wax hurts, swallowing is great, anal is awesome, and kink is kink.
Much love to everyone in this thread.
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Here's my delemma.....
How do I tell my gf that I get guys and the occasional girl off on the net?
I have her heart and she will at least try things with me, so thats a start. I'm working on the swallowing, and anal....she did agree to let me pee on her as long as it was in the shower and I would do something that she wants to try (which of course I would !!!) but I'm not sure how I can say listen baby, guys cum while I get them off.
Although I am as straight as they come, I'm open minded and don't mind doing the performance because thats what it is. I don't get off thinking of the other person...I get off thinking of getting off. (helps to be a nympho)
I wish more girls came in to the site to see me...but what girl needs a fantasy guy on the net?
I won't lie and say I never experimented, but I def LOVE women.
Advice?
Oh, side note... reg candle wax hurts, swallowing is great, anal is awesome, and kink is kink.
Much love to everyone in this thread.
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heh heh I can't resist adding a couple that you may think are not serious, or are they?
1) Experiment with hypnosis. What better way than sex to let you decide whether there is something to it for you. And why not for removing some inhibitions or increasing the pleasure?
2) Regarding the swallowing business. A great leader leads by example. Prove that you taste so great, my brothers, by swallowing some of your own yourself. heh heh. A winning tactic I assure you. (and reassuring)
Holy shit! that is so fuckin hott! mmmmm mmmm mmm It would turn me on so much to see that! Quote
1) Experiment with hypnosis. What better way than sex to let you decide whether there is something to it for you. And why not for removing some inhibitions or increasing the pleasure?
2) Regarding the swallowing business. A great leader leads by example. Prove that you taste so great, my brothers, by swallowing some of your own yourself. heh heh. A winning tactic I assure you. (and reassuring)
Holy shit! that is so fuckin hott! mmmmm mmmm mmm It would turn me on so much to see that! Quote
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7/10/09 @ 11:40am
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ok, so far we've covered anal and swallowing. but how do i get my girl to be more active during sex? seems like she's got her positions (missionary and doggy) and won't really venture into anything else.. i want to be adventurous, ya know? different positions, different places - not necessarily in public, but the bedroom gets old after a while. what are thoughts on getting my girl to loosen up and enjoy sex for a change?!
Buy her the BEST Champagne and 2 carat Diamond to get her in the mood for almost anything
Get her the Sports Car of her dreams to take a trip to your favorite destination [Ok to rent]
If this does not work - try roses and chocolates and you being her sex slave 24/7/365 and maybe next year will be better for you
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Buy her the BEST Champagne and 2 carat Diamond to get her in the mood for almost anything
Get her the Sports Car of her dreams to take a trip to your favorite destination [Ok to rent]
If this does not work - try roses and chocolates and you being her sex slave 24/7/365 and maybe next year will be better for you
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ok, so far we've covered anal and swallowing. but how do i get my girl to be more active during sex? seems like she's got her positions (missionary and doggy) and won't really venture into anything else.. i want to be adventurous, ya know? different positions, different places - not necessarily in public, but the bedroom gets old after a while. what are thoughts on getting my girl to loosen up and enjoy sex for a change?!
i loved to have sex in the bedroom but it gets old quick! laundry room kitchen are lonely. when you two are fighting and say your in the living room. starts kissing her on her neck and dont let her resist. (this is some of the the best sex i ever had) or simply tell her how u feeel. next time she is watching a movie turn it off and put in porn and ask her if she will watch it with u.
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i loved to have sex in the bedroom but it gets old quick! laundry room kitchen are lonely. when you two are fighting and say your in the living room. starts kissing her on her neck and dont let her resist. (this is some of the the best sex i ever had) or simply tell her how u feeel. next time she is watching a movie turn it off and put in porn and ask her if she will watch it with u.
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Holy shit! that is so fuckin hott! mmmmm mmmm mmm It would turn me on so much to see that!
I bet you mean #2 heh heh
Yeah and then it makes me flare up to see that reaction. Will do amazing things that result in a face covered with your sweet juices. (and a cock too heh heh)
mmmmmmmm and I love those bio pics hottie : )~~~~~~~ Quote
I bet you mean #2 heh heh
Yeah and then it makes me flare up to see that reaction. Will do amazing things that result in a face covered with your sweet juices. (and a cock too heh heh)
mmmmmmmm and I love those bio pics hottie : )~~~~~~~ Quote
Passion and urgency is the best formula for getting out of the bedroom. If she's washing dishes and you want to bend her over the countertop...go up behind her and VERY passionately kiss the back of her neck like you're not going to even make it to the bedroom. Sometimes it takes a little acting to get you both worked up right there on the spot. Get her to want you right there...right now.
I had that problem with my ex-husband. He never wanted to go anywhere but the bedroom. I agree...that's boring but not because of the location so much...it's the lack of on the spot passion. Quote
I had that problem with my ex-husband. He never wanted to go anywhere but the bedroom. I agree...that's boring but not because of the location so much...it's the lack of on the spot passion. Quote
I agree...that's boring but not because of the location so much...it's the lack of on the spot passion.
that's a great way of putting it! i think on the spot passion is key to keeping things fresh and exciting. while there are a ton of other factors that go into making a relationship work, i think great sex is instrumental in making the relationship more healthy. you see it all the time, the people who are usually really flirtatious in public (in a fun way, not that.. "oh get a fucking room" way) are usually the ones who have the happiest and healthiest relationships and you can probably bet that they are the ones who can't wait to get home so they can rip each others clothes off! i think it's a comfort thing too.. they feel like they won't be any good in a new position, but honestly you never will know until you try, right?! Quote
that's a great way of putting it! i think on the spot passion is key to keeping things fresh and exciting. while there are a ton of other factors that go into making a relationship work, i think great sex is instrumental in making the relationship more healthy. you see it all the time, the people who are usually really flirtatious in public (in a fun way, not that.. "oh get a fucking room" way) are usually the ones who have the happiest and healthiest relationships and you can probably bet that they are the ones who can't wait to get home so they can rip each others clothes off! i think it's a comfort thing too.. they feel like they won't be any good in a new position, but honestly you never will know until you try, right?! Quote
Well just remember that not every woman is an exhibitionist. BUT! It's all about getting her going where ever you are. Here's a fun idea! A wireless remote controlled toy! You and your woman can have tons of fun without anyone knowing what's going on! Also what about the car? A late drive home get her going by rubbing her knee and dropping subtle little hints about what you want to do when you get home. Do things like kiss the palm of her hand, steal glances at her and then pull off on a dark side road and put your move on.
Just want to try a new room at home? Start with a shared shower. Have a date night, watching movies on the couch, nibble her neck a little, rub her thighs, have a high-school styled necking session! And then keep going! If she says that she wants to move to the bedroom tell her you want to worship her there!
No matter where you are she has to be comfortable and able to trust you! Quote
Just want to try a new room at home? Start with a shared shower. Have a date night, watching movies on the couch, nibble her neck a little, rub her thighs, have a high-school styled necking session! And then keep going! If she says that she wants to move to the bedroom tell her you want to worship her there!
No matter where you are she has to be comfortable and able to trust you! Quote
so here's a dilemma my buddy is in: his girl has never given a bj and he wants her to but she said that she thinks it's nasty and won't. i've had this problem with a few different girls as well, and have never been able to get them to do it. so.. how does he get her to suck it?!
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so here's a dilemma my buddy is in: his girl has never given a bj and he wants her to but she said that she thinks it's nasty and won't. i've had this problem with a few different girls as well, and have never been able to get them to do it. so.. how does he get her to suck it?!
Try making a deal, if i go down on you, you go down on me.
If that doesn't work break out the Patron
Good Luck
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Try making a deal, if i go down on you, you go down on me.
If that doesn't work break out the Patron
Good Luck
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so here's a dilemma my buddy is in: his girl has never given a bj and he wants her to but she said that she thinks it's nasty and won't. i've had this problem with a few different girls as well, and have never been able to get them to do it. so.. how does he get her to suck it?!
Well when trying to get a girl to give head for teh first time you need to find why she has a problem with it. Some women have issues withi t for religious reasons (it's not sex for procreation but for pure lust, and yes, yes it is
), some have stereotype issues (it's degrading to women and only slut do it, not true in the least during oral the woman is truly 100% in charge) but in this case it's yucky. Simple solutions, SHOWER TIME! This will reduce the yuck factor, the second yuck fact is the cum, that sticky sweet ambrosia you all produce. You friend has to not only promise not to cum in her mouth but then he has to stick with it. He also has to be SUPER supportive as she's going too feel like she's horrible. When she does give it he has to say things like "i love the way your using your teeth" or even a simple "That feels so good" will make her feel like she's doing it right. If this doesn't work, try getting her toasted like Loona said works too, lol
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Well when trying to get a girl to give head for teh first time you need to find why she has a problem with it. Some women have issues withi t for religious reasons (it's not sex for procreation but for pure lust, and yes, yes it is
), some have stereotype issues (it's degrading to women and only slut do it, not true in the least during oral the woman is truly 100% in charge) but in this case it's yucky. Simple solutions, SHOWER TIME! This will reduce the yuck factor, the second yuck fact is the cum, that sticky sweet ambrosia you all produce. You friend has to not only promise not to cum in her mouth but then he has to stick with it. He also has to be SUPER supportive as she's going too feel like she's horrible. When she does give it he has to say things like "i love the way your using your teeth" or even a simple "That feels so good" will make her feel like she's doing it right. If this doesn't work, try getting her toasted like Loona said works too, lol
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wanted to revive this thread for some of the new models and members. we've got the unique opportunity to ask anything we want with complete anonymity so why not focus on the good that this site can do?
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Trust and comfort are definitely the key I believe. My girlfriend and I were best friends for nearly four years before we first got together. We had been playfully flirting for a couple weeks and then one Friday night we were hanging out with a friend of ours.
That night her and I had gotten extra flirty with each other and so having a friend there was I guess the excuse we finally needed to take that extra step.
He pretty much just sat off to the side because we were only interested in each other. After that, we started experimenting more and more.
So trust, comfort, and the right moment was what we needed.
I hope you find that trust level with that special someone as well
Autumn and September 
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That night her and I had gotten extra flirty with each other and so having a friend there was I guess the excuse we finally needed to take that extra step.
He pretty much just sat off to the side because we were only interested in each other. After that, we started experimenting more and more.
So trust, comfort, and the right moment was what we needed.
I hope you find that trust level with that special someone as well
Autumn and September
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i'll start... so i've been wanting to get my girl to do anal. how do i bring it up or ask her? 
U dont u "do it by mistake" check the reaction and ur in like flynn!!!!
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U dont u "do it by mistake" check the reaction and ur in like flynn!!!!
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U dont u "do it by mistake" check the reaction and ur in like flynn!!!!
LMFAO!
~ and thanks giddy for making the forums fun again, or at least for trying!
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wanted to revive this thread for some of the new models and members. we've got the unique opportunity to ask anything we want with complete anonymity so why not focus on the good that this site can do?
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