What I want is never going to happen. she made that very clear. It is what it is.
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What I want is never going to happen. she made that very clear. It is what it is.
What is it that you want?
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I have to agree that she is playing with your head. I just went through this with a different model. She shared lots of private and personal things with me, introduced me to her family, and convinced me to come visit her in Colombia. She always swore I was the only one she did anything with away from this site and that she was committed to me. On my way home from our trip together, I found out she did the exact same thing with another user a few weeks ago. She, she got to buy a lot of things for herself with my money, but a real relationship? Apparently not. Enjoy the show, but don't believe that they aren't having the same relationships with lots of other guys.
Is she still on the site ?
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I have to agree that she is playing with your head. I just went through this with a different model. She shared lots of private and personal things with me, introduced me to her family, and convinced me to come visit her in Colombia. She always swore I was the only one she did anything with away from this site and that she was committed to me. On my way home from our trip together, I found out she did the exact same thing with another user a few weeks ago. She, she got to buy a lot of things for herself with my money, but a real relationship? Apparently not. Enjoy the show, but don't believe that they aren't having the same relationships with lots of other guys.
There's an online camsite forum that's non-specific to any particular site which models regularly participate in. I'm not sure if I can share the name of it here, as the owner for whom it's named is a model herself.
There are always posts from guys who are in love with models, are told by them that they're special, and think that their situation is unique and that they have a romantic future with the girl. Other models are always quick to point out to them that it's simply not the case, and that they're getting hustled.
We really need to think in these cases about how a neutral observer would view the situation. Yes, on extremely rare occasions, happily ever after can occur. But 99.999% of the time it doesn't. We would probably have a better chance of finding a partner who's equally attractive and actually lives near us.
Also, we need to keep in mind that using this site to "share personal contact details or arrange face-to-face meetings" is prohibited. This protects everyone involved, including us. Quote
Is she still on the site ?
Interested in being one of the guys she has a special relationship with?
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Interested in being one of the guys she has a special relationship with?
Maybe he wants to avoid getting in that situation with her. Quote
What I want is for her to know that she can trust me. I would like a lifetime relationship, but I do not have the money needed to attempt that. As long as she is happy, I will be happy for her. How I feel for her will not change. She is a special woman that deserves the best.
The models on the site obviously can only provide a "relationship" in exchange for money, that is the nature of the site. For a lifetime cannot be expected. Enjoy the shows you can within a healthy financial limit for as long as the model stays active is all you can expect.
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Maybe he wants to avoid getting in that situation with her.
If he stays away from invites to Colombia he will do fine.
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If he stays away from invites to Colombia he will do fine.
I know I won't be going. I know nothing will happen with her, so i am moving on. I enjoy being alone anyway. No more gifts from me. No more financial support. She wants me gone. I am gone. I can live with that. Quote
Actually that isn't completely true. I am expecting a big payday very soon and I will send her a large chunk of it with no strings attached. I am not even going to attempt to contact her. When I get the money, I will just send the money.
Why send her money at all? Buy her content, do shows, so you at least get something in return. That is how this site works.
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Why send her money at all? Buy her content, do shows, so you at least get something in return. That is how this site works.
I have to agree with YellowClaw. If you're moving on, I don't see the point in sending more credits/money. You've already paid for the shows you experienced with her and don't owe her anything more. You mentioned that you lost your job, I'm concerned that you could continue losing money by trying to make things right when the relationship is well past it's best.
If she "wants you gone" (in your words), it sounds harsh but it's best to start moving on immediately. A popular model on this site says that once you've been banned from a room, you shouldn't return, as your chemistry with the model will never be right again. Just something to consider. Quote
Why send her money at all? Buy her content, do shows, so you at least get something in return. That is how this site works.
You misunderstand. I will be leaving the site when I get the money.
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You misunderstand. I will be leaving the site when I get the money.
It is you that does not understand.
You should leave the site right now and you should not send her a large chunk of your payday.
When you send a model money, you should get some form of adult entertainment in return, that is the nature of this site.
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It is you that does not understand.
You should leave the site right now and you should not send her a large chunk of your payday.
When you send a model money, you should get some form of adult entertainment in return, that is the nature of this site.
You still don't get it. Just go away and stop harassing me. Quote
You still don't get it. Just go away and stop harassing me.
I get that you are going to give credits to a model that does not want you around and that you get nothing in return.
Indeed I don't get that.
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I am expecting a big payday very soon and I will send her a large chunk of it with no strings attached. When I get the money, I will just send the money.
Nope, you never said anything like it.
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