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Open chat etiquette REDUX
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Female Performer Chat: Open chat etiquette REDUX
rebel1068
Created by: rebel1068

12/22/10 @ 3:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Fantasyland
Posts: 47

This is great stuff and should be required reading. I think respect is key whenever you speak in the chat rooms. It seems a lot of people lose there manners and revert to twelve year old boys when they get into a room with a model.
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Sarasa
Created by: Sarasa

1/10/11 @ 8:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Created by: suggs

4/20/11 @ 12:07pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

Bump.
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Created by: ophelias_rue

4/20/11 @ 1:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: floating just beneath the surfaces
Posts: 5,122

*peers at Suggs* (abashed)
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MsLucy15
Created by: mslucy15

4/20/11 @ 8:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 3

This is great stuff and should be required reading. I think respect is key whenever you speak in the chat rooms. It seems a lot of people lose there manners and revert to twelve year old boys when they get into a room with a model.



I knew there was a reason I loved you ;) Oh rebel I miss you so in my room. Hopefully you return soon ;) xoxoxoxo
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Created by: suggs

4/13/12 @ 3:11am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

Bumps
Basic unofficial chat guidelines created by customers / models

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performers bio.

Any more ideas will be added in time
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Ashe Maree
Created by: Ashe Maree

4/13/12 @ 3:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

oooh! Glad this got bumped! I think this generally covered my two biggest pet peeves. 1. Don't dirty talk in open chat (or make a vulgar and insulting joke towards a model when its your first or second time in her room...everyone will be entirely uncomfortable and wonder why you're there. A simple 'jk' doesn't even cut it on that one). 2. Always say something, even just a simple thank you, before leaving private.
:)
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Created by: suggs

4/13/12 @ 5:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

Yw Miss M

Thought these needed a bump from the lower pages as recently I have seen people come into rooms to either A - promote themselves in a models room (both male and female models doing the promoting ) and B - a person coming into a room to trash talk a model then saying 'go visit *insert models name* instead - this 2nd method was totally unbeknown st to the model in question as I spoke to her and she was p!ssed that some1 was doing it

I have even posted these in male performers forum as I feel the pointers are relevant to all sides of the site
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Ashe Maree
Created by: Ashe Maree

4/13/12 @ 5:11am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Unfortunately, I find that most guilty of this don't even peak at the forums. I mean, for some its a lost cause and its up to the model on how to deal with the ill-mannered fellows, but this will definitely help. Thanks again! :)
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Willow J
Created by: Willow J

4/13/12 @ 1:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Suggs, thanks for this thread. :)

In the world of begging, no definitely means NO.



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Created by: mikeshot1

4/13/12 @ 5:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: near the edge of reality
Posts: 1,281

Thank you suggs - excellent timing!

This should be permanently located at the top of the forum!

:thumbsup
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Ashe Maree
Created by: Ashe Maree

4/16/12 @ 11:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

bumping this because I keep mentioning it to my members and they can't find it :P
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Created by: lickau

5/14/12 @ 7:35am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
Posts: 29,285

Basic unofficial chat guidelines created by customers / models

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performers bio.



BUMP
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grumpnose
Created by: grumpnose

5/14/12 @ 1:37pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: where prince charming ruined all the fun
Posts: 691

The performers have bios??? :winkwink
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Evi V
Created by: Evi V

5/15/12 @ 4:40am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

Here we go again LOL
split these out of the pvt etiquette thread - thx LickaU for keeping a copy this is my original 10 points and 2 additionals 1 of which was by Saphira and the other I cant remember who added it.

1 -- No repetative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.
2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome
3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?
4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.
5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.
6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.
7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes
8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.
9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.
10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blance to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,
If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemongly ran amok.
*** If anyone else has any more guieslines for chat netiquette please dont hesitate to post ***

11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"
12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defence; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fuelled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond


just don't behave like a shit.
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Created by: suggs

7/24/12 @ 2:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768

Bumps to go along with the douchebas thread :thumbsup
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Created by: vinyage76guy

7/24/12 @ 3:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Centurion, South Africa or lensflair.info

**chestbump suggs**

Great thread.. don't know why I didn't see it before.. isn't there anyway to get this thread as a sticky so it stays on top of the list?

and thanx for added the cliffnotes to the douchebags thread as well.
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Created by: vinyage76guy

7/29/12 @ 1:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Centurion, South Africa or lensflair.info

Shameless Bump .. this needs to be on top at all times
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Created by: mikeshot1

8/6/12 @ 5:35am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: near the edge of reality
Posts: 1,281

An Idea ?

When a model bans a client from the room, they should be auto routed to this thread, then they may have at least an opportunity to understand why they were "booted"

Great post thread!

:thumbsup
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Created by: vinyage76guy

8/19/12 @ 4:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Centurion, South Africa or lensflair.info

One thing I can add. If you are a regular in a room, the conversation may wary from sport to politics to whatever.. if someone else enters the room and you have not seen him/her there before he/she might be looking for a pvt. Keep quiet for a while and don't interfere.. this should be common sense really..
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