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Female Performer Chat: Banning Customers
Is it right for a model to ban you, if another member tipping makes a rude and arrogant comment towards you and you defend yourself (not in a rude way) why you can't tip?
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Is it right for a model to ban you, if another member tipping makes a rude and arrogant comment towards you and you defend yourself (not in a rude way) why you can't tip?
Based solely on the information at hand I'd say it could have been handled in a more professional manor, but I wasn't there so I don't know the details. But if two members were about to argue and I had to ban one to stop it, you guessed it, the non-spender gets the boot every time.
OP this next part is not directed toward you, just some general thoughts. Models are tired of hearing every excuse in the world why a member will not spend credits on them - "I don't have money," "I'll take you pvt when I get paid next week," "I already went pvt with someone else," the list goes on.. and from my experience - if I hear a non-spending excuse before they ever spend a credit, chances are they won't ever spend anything.
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Based solely on the information at hand I'd say it could have been handled in a more professional manor, but I wasn't there so I don't know the details. But if two members were about to argue and I had to ban one to stop it, you guessed it, the non-spender gets the boot every time.
OP this next part is not directed toward you, just some general thoughts. Models are tired of hearing every excuse in the world why a member will not spend credits on them - "I don't have money," "I'll take you pvt when I get paid next week," "I already went pvt with someone else," the list goes on.. and from my experience - if I hear a non-spending excuse before they ever spend a credit, chances are they won't ever spend anything.
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ourjeffie
10/2/14 @ 9:00pm
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"Mommy! Mommy! The nasty model banned me, and I didn't to anything wrong!"
"There, there, dear, never mind. Here are some cookies and milk to make you feel better. There are plenty of other nice models for you to play with" Quote
Yes, I totally agree with you. It is a business and customers who spend tokens come first. )) I was just talking with the model and the guy tipping says to the room that if you dont tip you are cheap and freeloaders. She was never getting naked or doing anything. It was basically just a gift to make her smile. His comments towards everyone who was not tipping was making guys uncomfortable and making them leave...even the guys who did tip earlier before he entered the room. I guess I am just upset that some guys can get away with more because they are "spenders".
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IS IT RIGHT!?!?!?!?how did the model dared to do that ?
shame shame shame...(inserts a ''facepalm''emoticon')
My dear ..there is a ''Tip/Ban'' thing,.that Mandy created long time ago...and that helps moodles.Some guys never heard of manners and when a member care ,i doing a tip/ban thing.Because that why the guys are in a room to help ,right and have a nice convo ?or are they there for the freebies?!?!?!Mistery ..shock!!!..Anyway...if u been dealing with that type of tiip,mean u need to see what is wrong with your attitude as a member because I don't know if u could deal a 6 hours shift with a guy or 20 that ask the same''show bobs..open pussy bb''thing...
and the ban button was invented to be used!!
my sincerely regards...*bows*and throws some water balooons on her way out
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shame shame shame...(inserts a ''facepalm''emoticon')
My dear ..there is a ''Tip/Ban'' thing,.that Mandy created long time ago...and that helps moodles.Some guys never heard of manners and when a member care ,i doing a tip/ban thing.Because that why the guys are in a room to help ,right and have a nice convo ?or are they there for the freebies?!?!?!Mistery ..shock!!!..Anyway...if u been dealing with that type of tiip,mean u need to see what is wrong with your attitude as a member because I don't know if u could deal a 6 hours shift with a guy or 20 that ask the same''show bobs..open pussy bb''thing...
and the ban button was invented to be used!!
my sincerely regards...*bows*and throws some water balooons on her way out
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calibaddboy
10/2/14 @ 9:12pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 370
IS IT RIGHT!?!?!?!?how did the model dared to do that ?
shame shame shame...(inserts a ''facepalm''emoticon')
My dear ..there is a ''Tip/Ban'' thing,.that Mandy created long time ago...and that helps moodles.Some guys never heard of manners and when a member care ,i doing a tip/ban thing.Because that why the guys are in a room to help ,right?or are they for the freebies?!?!?!Mistery ..shock!!!..Anyway...if u been dealing with that type of tiip,mean u need to see what is wrong with your attitude as a member because I don't know if u could deal a 6 hours shift with a guy or 20 that ask the same''show bobs..open pussy bb''thing...
and the ban button was invented to be used!!
my sincerely regards...*bows*and throws some water balooons on her way out
I have never begged a model or even be rude to other customers. And I just received earlier why I was banned. The tipper emailed the model and told her that if I was not told to leave he would take his credits to other model. I dont blame anyone but the tipper. She has been a friend of mine for 5 years and it was just a shock to get a ban. That is all. Maybe i should of worded the topic different. It sucks now because I can't write her and tell her i understand why she did it and i dont take it personally..it was only business. )))
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shame shame shame...(inserts a ''facepalm''emoticon')
My dear ..there is a ''Tip/Ban'' thing,.that Mandy created long time ago...and that helps moodles.Some guys never heard of manners and when a member care ,i doing a tip/ban thing.Because that why the guys are in a room to help ,right?or are they for the freebies?!?!?!Mistery ..shock!!!..Anyway...if u been dealing with that type of tiip,mean u need to see what is wrong with your attitude as a member because I don't know if u could deal a 6 hours shift with a guy or 20 that ask the same''show bobs..open pussy bb''thing...
and the ban button was invented to be used!!
my sincerely regards...*bows*and throws some water balooons on her way out
I have never begged a model or even be rude to other customers. And I just received earlier why I was banned. The tipper emailed the model and told her that if I was not told to leave he would take his credits to other model. I dont blame anyone but the tipper. She has been a friend of mine for 5 years and it was just a shock to get a ban. That is all. Maybe i should of worded the topic different. It sucks now because I can't write her and tell her i understand why she did it and i dont take it personally..it was only business. )))
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I have never begged a model or even be rude to other customers. And I just received earlier why I was banned. The tipper emailed the model and told her that if I was not told to leave he would take his credits to other model. I dont blame anyone but the tipper. She has been a friend of mine for 5 years and it was just a shock to get a ban. That is all. Maybe i should of worded the topic different. )))
hmmm..friends u say..Will a friend ban u just because a guy was tipping ?that is something between u and her...but when I have Friends..i value them even they spend or not..and they will always win even someone is telling me that he is not gonna tip..but maybe that is my opinion..but I was serious about the tip/ban...
I have no idea how others are managing OTHERS..But that's no friendship dear
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I agree. I need to find new "friends" who value my worth. You are very smart and sweet. thank you for your words. 
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I have never begged a model or even be rude to other customers. And I just received earlier why I was banned. The tipper emailed the model and told her that if I was not told to leave he would take his credits to other model. I dont blame anyone but the tipper. She has been a friend of mine for 5 years and it was just a shock to get a ban. That is all. Maybe i should of worded the topic different. It sucks now because I can't write her and tell her i understand why she did it and i dont take it personally..it was only business. )))
Pinks are good at faking friendship, especially with blues. So this alleged friend was never a friend to begin with. Quote
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derek99
10/2/14 @ 11:14pm
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Location: Living, and stranded on an island in Canada
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There shouldn't ever be a misuse of the ban button. It should only be used, when it is necessary to do so. Even if a person tips once, and is rude, and disrespectful to anyone after, especially the model, then the ban button should be used on that person.
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dudley_do_ride
10/3/14 @ 1:17am
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Location: hain't Pochipsie son
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Cardinal's guard: You sir are nothing but a slovenly drunkard and unworthy to lick His Emminence's boots.
Athos: I am amazed you have the courage to challenge me all by your little self. Why don't you go fetch some of your brother guards to make it interesting?
Cardinal's guard: Draw!!! Hai ha hoooo heee hut
Athos: Notice.. boy... how level I keep my drink as I wound you.. Haaa!
Model: Ban! *BANNNNNN BANNITY BANNITY BAN BAN BAN *
*sigh*
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suggs
10/3/14 @ 1:52am
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Boo fuckin hoo. You got banned. So you run crying to the forums.
Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No. Quote
Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No. Quote
I did try emailing her to find out why I was banned. When you get banned you cant email them. You don't know me so don't try judging me. It was the first thing i did after I got banned. I tried to email her to see if it was an accident or to find out what I did wrong. I am on the forum because maybe should would read it and she could email me why since i cant contact her. I never mentioned her nick in here because I dont want to give her a bad reputation.
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Boo fuckin hoo. You got banned. So you run crying to the forums.
Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No.
Would you tell that to a pink if she was banned by a blue model and she cries about it, knowing how extremely sensitive pinks can get? I bet not...
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Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No.
Would you tell that to a pink if she was banned by a blue model and she cries about it, knowing how extremely sensitive pinks can get? I bet not...
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suggs
10/3/14 @ 4:31am
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Location: Left of centre
Posts: 6,768
Would you tell that to a pink if she was banned by a blue model and she cries about it, knowing how extremely sensitive pinks can get? I bet not...
I'd omit the part about growing balls as I know that is genetically impossible ( At least without serious genetic mutation / gene splicing and surgery ). Quote
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amanda_fucking_palmer
10/3/14 @ 8:17am
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I did try emailing her to find out why I was banned. When you get banned you cant email them. You don't know me so don't try judging me. It was the first thing i did after I got banned. I tried to email her to see if it was an accident or to find out what I did wrong. I am on the forum because maybe should would read it and she could email me why since i cant contact her. I never mentioned her nick in here because I dont want to give her a bad reputation.
Twitter Commentary - cut and pasta'd
"Only the syllables will judge you!"
*blue ermin loop the ban goes round like the wheel of the bus ... all over town http://www.flirt4free.com/forums *
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Twitter Commentary - cut and pasta'd
"Only the syllables will judge you!"
*blue ermin loop the ban goes round like the wheel of the bus ... all over town http://www.flirt4free.com/forums *
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not.noir
10/18/14 @ 11:11am
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Location: <---over there --->
. for the love of God ... .
*blue ermin loop the Hammer descends http://www.flirt4free.com/forums * Quote
*blue ermin loop the Hammer descends http://www.flirt4free.com/forums * Quote
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ravi_g
10/20/14 @ 10:49am
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Location: Sunrise City
Posts: 111
hmmm..friends u say..Will a friend ban u just because a guy was tipping ?that is something between u and her...but when I have Friends..i value them even they spend or not..and they will always win even someone is telling me that he is not gonna tip..but maybe that is my opinion..but I was serious about the tip/ban...
I have no idea how others are managing OTHERS..But that's no friendship dear
*hacho*
Friendship has no value here...until u tip the model...If u tip u r a good friend... Forget about friendship...no matter how best customer u r for that model.....model still go ahead and ban us...even she getting tipped by a rude customer saying some bullshit about us.... This I have seen with most of the models..though not with all models
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Boo fuckin hoo. You got banned. So you run crying to the forums.
Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No.
Lmao.....suggs you make me laugh so much.....But I agree. OMG the amount of crazy stuff that happens ALL the time, you cannot cry about everything :P models make mistakes too.....
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Grow a spine and balls. It happens, learn to deal with it.
Did you mail the model and ask why the ban happened? Give them chance.to explain? I'm going to suspect the answers to those questions are No and No.
Lmao.....suggs you make me laugh so much.....But I agree. OMG the amount of crazy stuff that happens ALL the time, you cannot cry about everything :P models make mistakes too.....
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I don't like to ban anyone, but I will ignore those who talk too much.. talkers don't buy "usually". You have to keep in mind We are here to make money Not friends. Sounds harsh, but that's the truth.
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