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Female Performer Chat: Pay attention to the small things.
Please say a hi or a smiley when you enter a model room. All it takes is a few seconds of your time and nothing else isn't it? Few days ago, a Russian beauty here told me how bad she felt when members kept popping into her room but many remained silent, not uttering a single word to her. Also some months ago, when a similar situation happened with another model(she said there were nearly 100 odd people at the time), she simply broke down in front of cam. I was there and it felt terrible! A hi, thank you, smiley, festive wishes...all can lift the spirits so much.
Small things matter, and fun too
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Small things matter, and fun too
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I was there too - Autogreeter /receptionist talked 1st .
TOO creepy to get greeted before video even loads .
Left too - no need to talk to room receptionist auto generated greetings . Quote
TOO creepy to get greeted before video even loads .
Left too - no need to talk to room receptionist auto generated greetings . Quote
You can tell model it would be nice to say hello also?
And NOT that auto-bot greeting either!!!
I think it's not a personal greeting to me.
If a model takes the few seconds also to say hi I will most likely say hi back
Also most models on this site anymore will not even say a word too!!
Even if you are a VIP member???
And it seems most are here just for the buck tip for this tip for that lol
If you have no creds they will not say hi.
My 2 cents
Peace
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And NOT that auto-bot greeting either!!!
I think it's not a personal greeting to me.
If a model takes the few seconds also to say hi I will most likely say hi back
Also most models on this site anymore will not even say a word too!!
Even if you are a VIP member???
And it seems most are here just for the buck tip for this tip for that lol
If you have no creds they will not say hi.
My 2 cents
Peace
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Created by:
amanda_fucking_palmer
4/5/15 @ 6:21am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: yeah baby ... i'm faking it again
Posts: 1,793
-gestures through the meager contributions to this thread-
*same old same old whines and complaints*
*sigh*
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*same old same old whines and complaints*
*sigh*
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Hey there. I have to agree on all that you guys said. But i have a few things to add or to explain.
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer. Quote
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer. Quote
Thanks Julia, it's good to read a model's perspective too on this topic
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Hey there. I have to agree on all that you guys said. But i have a few things to add or to explain.
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
I do my best to greet everyone above basic regardless if they have credits or not because when pay day comes a calling, theyre coming for me, or may even leave a gift or tip because of that small interacton. My first day i was tipped for saying hi, I appreciate that. I do agree that models are responsible for chatter in their room. I will even say something like " have you ever been surrounded by 80 ppl and no one says anything" They usually laugh and respond in kind. If you're not good at being personable, social, or entertaining this isnt the job for you. If I'm feeling emotionally overwhelmed I don't log on that day. In dead times i talk in my different accents or workout or tease the guys about playing ookie at work. Be witty and spontaneous, you cant get too emotional over these things, i don't cry at work.
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There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
I do my best to greet everyone above basic regardless if they have credits or not because when pay day comes a calling, theyre coming for me, or may even leave a gift or tip because of that small interacton. My first day i was tipped for saying hi, I appreciate that. I do agree that models are responsible for chatter in their room. I will even say something like " have you ever been surrounded by 80 ppl and no one says anything" They usually laugh and respond in kind. If you're not good at being personable, social, or entertaining this isnt the job for you. If I'm feeling emotionally overwhelmed I don't log on that day. In dead times i talk in my different accents or workout or tease the guys about playing ookie at work. Be witty and spontaneous, you cant get too emotional over these things, i don't cry at work.
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I agree, whenever it is tip time, I am gonna remember the model who said hi & had a decent conversation(even if its short) with me...and give her a surprise visit 
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Please say a hi or a smiley when you enter a model room. All it takes is a few seconds of your time and nothing else isn't it? Few days ago, a Russian beauty here told me how bad she felt when members kept popping into her room but many remained silent, not uttering a single word to her. Also some months ago, when a similar situation happened with another model(she said there were nearly 100 odd people at the time), she simply broke down in front of cam. I was there and it felt terrible! A hi, thank you, smiley, festive wishes...all can lift the spirits so much.
Small things matter, and fun too
As a performer I try and greet all my members as they come in (ones the receptionist tells me about) and any members that take the time to talk to me whether VIP or basic, I value them all the same way, respect me and I will respect you! I am pretty laid back as it is and personable, but yes please at least let us know you are in the room, and get to know us, we don't really bite
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Small things matter, and fun too
As a performer I try and greet all my members as they come in (ones the receptionist tells me about) and any members that take the time to talk to me whether VIP or basic, I value them all the same way, respect me and I will respect you! I am pretty laid back as it is and personable, but yes please at least let us know you are in the room, and get to know us, we don't really bite
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Created by:
ourjeffie
4/29/15 @ 12:55am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Brisbane Australia, home of the 2032 Olympic Games
Posts: 44,949
As a performer I try and greet all my members as they come in
Not all members want to be greeted by the performer. I may not want other members to know I am in the room
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Hey there. I have to agree on all that you guys said. But i have a few things to add or to explain.
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
Thanks for khaki keeping it real!!!
This is not an industry for the timid. I'm glad to know my Tough skin will be of good use. I didn't feel the need to get upset when I had silence in the room. I used it as an opportunity to introduce myself to those who just entered. I'm new to the site but I am experienced in the art of seduction. Even if it's about nothing, I try to always say something in my most soothing seductive voice. It's hard to keep quiet when your audience finds your voice to be soothing.
Ava Anderson
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There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
Thanks for khaki keeping it real!!!
This is not an industry for the timid. I'm glad to know my Tough skin will be of good use. I didn't feel the need to get upset when I had silence in the room. I used it as an opportunity to introduce myself to those who just entered. I'm new to the site but I am experienced in the art of seduction. Even if it's about nothing, I try to always say something in my most soothing seductive voice. It's hard to keep quiet when your audience finds your voice to be soothing.
Ava Anderson
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Hey there. I have to agree on all that you guys said. But i have a few things to add or to explain.
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
This this this this this! And on top of that, I really dislike to type if I don't have to anyway so I might be saying my "Hi's" out loud, and it could still be super awkward and uninteresting when I don't get ANY answers for a really long time. Or worse, you guys can't even hear my hello and never even know I said it
if you sent me a message, it would be a really quick process for me to figure out from there that you can hear me, and then I could start typing to you. And it's bumming me out because I don't want visitors to feel like they can't be engaged in conversation with me when I'm nothing but excited to make new friends (or talk to that guy who keeps visiting me and has never talked! lol).
There IS one thing I slightly disagree with in this post though, and that's the part about it being a model's fault if no one is talking. Sometimes there are just those days where it's slow no matter what. A lot of times when it's quiet in my room for an extended period, I'll start talking anyway (about my day, about something random I'm interested in, movies, asking questions etc.) to attempt to get someone (ANYONE!!) interested in talking too. Plenty of times it works, but just as often, it doesn't. The same thing happens when I'm just smiling and lookin' cheery. It's honestly so exhausting because it's frustrating and doesn't encourage us to even KEEP UP the good attitude, let alone try to make it better. THIS is the point when it's squarely on the shoulders of the members.
But it does make sense that this happens sometimes. Other reasons for not being chatty could be a shy guy, broken computer, or that his hands are busy ;) Pure statistics says that once in awhile, models will have too many of these guys. So ladies, instead of getting worked up and/or having a meltdown, just keep up the cheer and try different ways of grabbing attention. Yes, it's def a pain in the butt after you've gotten all dressed up and are giving so much energy to F4F. But it's temporary! Pure statistics also say that when you're being boring and rude, you'll still have some visitors who try to talk to you.
SO MEMBERS, if you don't have any real reason you haven't said something in a model's room, just say ANYTHING! Especially if it's quiet in the room, she will definitely appreciate it. Quote
There are flawed models and flawed member, we are people afterall.
If some people look for chat i guess is important for you to just hover over a model's room and see how active she is, if she is talking, if she actually understands the chat, if she is engaged in a conversation.
I apreciate and ecourage anyone that sais hi in my room or that is interested in having a plesant conversation, but i avoid being the one who sais hi to every new member in my room even if he is a VIP. I only say special hi's to people that have been active in my room before. Look how a chat would sound if i would have to do that:
-hi virgil
-hi sam
-hi carl
-hi mimi
-hi momo
It gets repetitive and boring since as a model you have the usual 3 questions to asnwer at -age, location, and hru.
I liek to make my room interesting and havign actual conversations, so if anyone talks is encouraged to develop the conversation past the lvl of hru.
From my point of view i don;t think that a model should have a meltdown if the people in the room are not talking, is her job to make them interested, if they don;t talk it means that is her fault and that she is the one that seemed not interested in doing so, or maybe she just looked bored or looked like she is busy.
There are certain things a model can do to make her room chatty. If any of the models that read this have problems in getting the room going, i welcome you to ask your questions, i will gladly answer.
This this this this this! And on top of that, I really dislike to type if I don't have to anyway so I might be saying my "Hi's" out loud, and it could still be super awkward and uninteresting when I don't get ANY answers for a really long time. Or worse, you guys can't even hear my hello and never even know I said it
if you sent me a message, it would be a really quick process for me to figure out from there that you can hear me, and then I could start typing to you. And it's bumming me out because I don't want visitors to feel like they can't be engaged in conversation with me when I'm nothing but excited to make new friends (or talk to that guy who keeps visiting me and has never talked! lol).There IS one thing I slightly disagree with in this post though, and that's the part about it being a model's fault if no one is talking. Sometimes there are just those days where it's slow no matter what. A lot of times when it's quiet in my room for an extended period, I'll start talking anyway (about my day, about something random I'm interested in, movies, asking questions etc.) to attempt to get someone (ANYONE!!) interested in talking too. Plenty of times it works, but just as often, it doesn't. The same thing happens when I'm just smiling and lookin' cheery. It's honestly so exhausting because it's frustrating and doesn't encourage us to even KEEP UP the good attitude, let alone try to make it better. THIS is the point when it's squarely on the shoulders of the members.
But it does make sense that this happens sometimes. Other reasons for not being chatty could be a shy guy, broken computer, or that his hands are busy ;) Pure statistics says that once in awhile, models will have too many of these guys. So ladies, instead of getting worked up and/or having a meltdown, just keep up the cheer and try different ways of grabbing attention. Yes, it's def a pain in the butt after you've gotten all dressed up and are giving so much energy to F4F. But it's temporary! Pure statistics also say that when you're being boring and rude, you'll still have some visitors who try to talk to you.
SO MEMBERS, if you don't have any real reason you haven't said something in a model's room, just say ANYTHING! Especially if it's quiet in the room, she will definitely appreciate it. Quote
Females will break down and fret over just about anything.
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This this this this this! And on top of that, I really dislike to type if I don't have to anyway so I might be saying my "Hi's" out loud, and it could still be super awkward and uninteresting when I don't get ANY answers for a really long time. Or worse, you guys can't even hear my hello and never even know I said it
if you sent me a message, it would be a really quick process for me to figure out from there that you can hear me, and then I could start typing to you. And it's bumming me out because I don't want visitors to feel like they can't be engaged in conversation with me when I'm nothing but excited to make new friends (or talk to that guy who keeps visiting me and has never talked! lol).There IS one thing I slightly disagree with in this post though, and that's the part about it being a model's fault if no one is talking. Sometimes there are just those days where it's slow no matter what. A lot of times when it's quiet in my room for an extended period, I'll start talking anyway (about my day, about something random I'm interested in, movies, asking questions etc.) to attempt to get someone (ANYONE!!) interested in talking too. Plenty of times it works, but just as often, it doesn't. The same thing happens when I'm just smiling and lookin' cheery. It's honestly so exhausting because it's frustrating and doesn't encourage us to even KEEP UP the good attitude, let alone try to make it better. THIS is the point when it's squarely on the shoulders of the members.
But it does make sense that this happens sometimes. Other reasons for not being chatty could be a shy guy, broken computer, or that his hands are busy ;) Pure statistics says that once in awhile, models will have too many of these guys. So ladies, instead of getting worked up and/or having a meltdown, just keep up the cheer and try different ways of grabbing attention. Yes, it's def a pain in the butt after you've gotten all dressed up and are giving so much energy to F4F. But it's temporary! Pure statistics also say that when you're being boring and rude, you'll still have some visitors who try to talk to you.
SO MEMBERS, if you don't have any real reason you haven't said something in a model's room, just say ANYTHING! Especially if it's quiet in the room, she will definitely appreciate it.
But some of models get selective when anyone comes in. As far as fault goes, models don't like to claim fault on anything. Well, most pinks don't.
But if a member says anything, the model will take it the wrong way and go bonkers. But pinks will go bonkers over anything, knowing them. Sometimes they act that way because they want to.
The important thing for y'all is to not be or act greedy. Quote
But some of models get selective when anyone comes in. As far as fault goes, models don't like to claim fault on anything. Well, most pinks don't.
But if a member says anything, the model will take it the wrong way and go bonkers. But pinks will go bonkers over anything, knowing them. Sometimes they act that way because they want to.
The important thing for y'all is to not be or act greedy.
Hey, it doesn't have to be a fault thing my friend.
I can obviously only speak for myself, but I have never gone bonkers over a member saying anything. When I'm treated respectfully, I show respect too. And I think most of the models here would agree with me, no? Quote
Hey, it doesn't have to be a fault thing my friend.
I can obviously only speak for myself, but I have never gone bonkers over a member saying anything. When I'm treated respectfully, I show respect too. And I think most of the models here would agree with me, no?
that was way nicer than she had to be about it mrmos, and if /that/ doesn't make you see that there are alot of nice models out there....
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I AM NEW HERE.
i just want to say hi and start researching about this frums.
as i realized as new i can see many people loves squirt and anal shows. i am sure about the small things can Works to match and get to know to the other person better, but i am sure we should act normally, just being what we are and how we are.
i hope i can do a good perform in here and hopefully get some friends or many maybe.
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i just want to say hi and start researching about this frums.
as i realized as new i can see many people loves squirt and anal shows. i am sure about the small things can Works to match and get to know to the other person better, but i am sure we should act normally, just being what we are and how we are.
i hope i can do a good perform in here and hopefully get some friends or many maybe.
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