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Female Performer Chat: Your best or worst private show experience
Hello everyone, 
So I'm still very new to this site and must say I am very impressed and quite amazed at how sweet and supportive all the customers here are.
I'm 23 and from Ukraine and South Africa (which is where I currently live) and its a total honour to be able to so closely interact with people from all over the globe!
I intend on keeping this short and to the point, so my question here is;
What has been your best or worst private show experience? What makes a good performance in your opinion and what would instantly put you off ever doing it again?
Quite curious to hear your views,
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So I'm still very new to this site and must say I am very impressed and quite amazed at how sweet and supportive all the customers here are.
I'm 23 and from Ukraine and South Africa (which is where I currently live) and its a total honour to be able to so closely interact with people from all over the globe!
I intend on keeping this short and to the point, so my question here is;
What has been your best or worst private show experience? What makes a good performance in your opinion and what would instantly put you off ever doing it again?
Quite curious to hear your views,
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Worst for me is when the girl just silently takes off her clothes and starts going at it - maybe talking to someone in the room or going on her phone.
Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though. Quote
Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though. Quote
Worst for me is when the girl just silently takes off her clothes and starts going at it - maybe talking to someone in the room or going on her phone.
Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though.
gosh ya i agree... i dont like when someone goes thru the motions and arent at all connected to their body...
i love mine and i treat it with love always Quote
Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though.
gosh ya i agree... i dont like when someone goes thru the motions and arent at all connected to their body...
i love mine and i treat it with love always Quote
Worst for me is when the girl just silently takes off her clothes and starts going at it - maybe talking to someone in the room or going on her phone.
Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though.
Hey, thanks for the reply, that is quite interesting and honestly encourages me more to talk to and get to know the guys on this site. I always assumed the guys here only ever go into private chats with performers to see them naked and for sex, but its quite refreshing to hear that some just want to get to know the girls here and develop real relationships.
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Best is a girl that asks the right questions, and tries to understand what makes me tick. I also like a girl who has self respect and has her own limits. Basically anything that feels real and not an act.
That's just me though.
Hey, thanks for the reply, that is quite interesting and honestly encourages me more to talk to and get to know the guys on this site. I always assumed the guys here only ever go into private chats with performers to see them naked and for sex, but its quite refreshing to hear that some just want to get to know the girls here and develop real relationships.
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Many good ones, best to keep them in memory
Worst shows....
- It was a 10min offer show and I told her you can do what you like(I expected maybe a singing or a tease), she said ok and began chatting with someone else online for the entire show!
- Just 2 of us joined a 5 min group show and all she did was lie on bed and talk about how sexy her dress looks and if we like her!
- Attended a phone call during the show
- Agreed for specific type of show but in pvt, did something else
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Worst shows....
- It was a 10min offer show and I told her you can do what you like(I expected maybe a singing or a tease), she said ok and began chatting with someone else online for the entire show!
- Just 2 of us joined a 5 min group show and all she did was lie on bed and talk about how sexy her dress looks and if we like her!
- Attended a phone call during the show
- Agreed for specific type of show but in pvt, did something else
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chrisdk
5/4/16 @ 11:09am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
Great topic, could talk endlessly about good and bad experiences on here ...- I had a group show on a beach once ... during sunset ... just walking around and chatting ... real sweet
- had (several) disco strip/dance private sessions with strobe lights, sooo cool and much fun; great to find someone with a similar taste in music ... aaaand craziness
- loved a performer who took the full 10 min you get to "think about accepting an offer" to prepare for the requested show. This commitment - selecting clothes, adjusting the cam or whatever was needed - was lovely and meant a lot to me
Worst? Easy too (Too easy?)
- once a performer made me cry by questioning my life-style and self esteem ... then said, "your vulnerability turns me on, come back into private to discover your sexual desires ..." as if I still had some after that
and yes, chatting and getting to know each other is important! You visit a fling only once, a good flirt several times and a friend ... as long as (s)he chooses to come here.
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loved a performer who took the full 10 min you get to "think about accepting an offer" to prepare for the requested show. This commitment - selecting clothes, adjusting the cam or whatever was needed - was lovely and meant a lot to meWhen I asked a model if she could do a certain flexible pose for pvt, she first said it'd be difficult but then asked if its ok she practises it a bit during break first and then let me know if she can go ahead for the show. That wowed me, and I instantly added her to favs
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chrisdk
5/4/16 @ 2:35pm
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
When I asked a model if she could do a certain flexible pose for pvt, she first said it'd be difficult but then asked if its ok she practises it a bit during break first and then let me know if she can go ahead for the show. That wowed me, and I instantly added her to favs
Honesty and personality goes far!
So be yourself, don't try to play an act ...
I also had a model ironing ... together with the chitchat it was too cute to be forgotten
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Had to share this exp-
Few days ago, I wanted a exclusive pvt but only within a certain cpm, so it took nearly 2hrs to find models who did and then I'd to ask them if they'd do a certain type of show and I also mailed pics to give them an idea. But one reason or the other it didn't happen.. either model would disappear into a show, go on break, would not reply, would not understand what I say, one was even sarcastic. By now I was tired and joined a model room with higher cpm just to chat. Although I wasn't keen for a show(due to the higher cpm), I still asked her anyway out of habit. She asked a few questions, I mailed her pics..then began much exchange of thought about the proposed show, she patiently answering all my questions even though she knew I may still not go pvt, she even did a little demo with her cam since I'd some doubts about its clarity. Throughout the chat, she was so friendly & funny that I just clicked pvt without second thought. And the show was absolutely worth it
Great attitude just makes your day!
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Few days ago, I wanted a exclusive pvt but only within a certain cpm, so it took nearly 2hrs to find models who did and then I'd to ask them if they'd do a certain type of show and I also mailed pics to give them an idea. But one reason or the other it didn't happen.. either model would disappear into a show, go on break, would not reply, would not understand what I say, one was even sarcastic. By now I was tired and joined a model room with higher cpm just to chat. Although I wasn't keen for a show(due to the higher cpm), I still asked her anyway out of habit. She asked a few questions, I mailed her pics..then began much exchange of thought about the proposed show, she patiently answering all my questions even though she knew I may still not go pvt, she even did a little demo with her cam since I'd some doubts about its clarity. Throughout the chat, she was so friendly & funny that I just clicked pvt without second thought. And the show was absolutely worth it
Great attitude just makes your day!
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It didn't occur to me earlier I could be a VIP user which'd help me to mail pics easily about the kind of shows I like. So I'd send URLs by mail and the models had to copy & paste the links on their browser to view the pics. Sometimes it worked and I'd have lovely pvts, sometimes the links wouldn't open. One got so impatient because the link didnt work despite few attempts(I asked her to try 2-3 times since it'd worked for few others) that she told me to F off. She was someone I really wanted to go on a show with because few months ago due to a glitch, the pvt failed and I wanted to make up for that with a long show. If only she knew! Patience is I think the most imp asset here for a performer.
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chrisdk
5/10/16 @ 12:38am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
Patience is I think the most imp asset here for a performer.
Because of many performers NOT willing to listen for a while to more specific show explanations and only doing "their" standard thing, I have become very picky in choosing people for prvt shows.
Recently, I was with a great performer for the first time. Asked which show type I liked, he wanted to know what about it I liked most, so we discussed some aspects of angles, light, movements etc. was REAL great. First of all, I think I got to know the model much better and second of all I felt much more comfortable in later prvt. Quote
Because of many performers NOT willing to listen for a while to more specific show explanations and only doing "their" standard thing, I have become very picky in choosing people for prvt shows.
Recently, I was with a great performer for the first time. Asked which show type I liked, he wanted to know what about it I liked most, so we discussed some aspects of angles, light, movements etc. was REAL great. First of all, I think I got to know the model much better and second of all I felt much more comfortable in later prvt. Quote
First of all, I think I got to know the model much better and second of all I felt much more comfortable in later prvt.
That's how I felt about the show few days ago. Although I'd a lesser cpm show in mind, I tossed it out because I felt so comfortable interacting with the performer.
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