Well, just wanted to bring this up because I've been a little bit surprised about a few remarks in chat later.

I agree a 100% we're here to entertain and to have customers enjoy themselves, but just remember that we're still our own person.

For me, it has been really insane getting requests to cut my hair, even offers! I know I used to have it short, I know I met some guys like that, maybe they liked it, but time keeps going, we change.

I'm hoping we can all change together towards who we want to be, and not feel like some sort of Ken doll that you can dress up.

Like/love, or whatever, everybody for who they are. There's so many guys here... find one you like, don't try to change anyone.

Best to all! Quote

Well, just wanted to bring this up because I've been a little bit surprised about a few remarks in chat later.

I agree a 100% we're here to entertain and to have customers enjoy themselves, but just remember that we're still our own person.

For me, it has been really insane getting requests to cut my hair, even offers! I know I used to have it short, I know I met some guys like that, maybe they liked it, but time keeps going, we change.

I'm hoping we can all change together towards who we want to be, and not feel like some sort of Ken doll that you can dress up.

Like/love, or whatever, everybody for who they are. There's so many guys here... find one you like, don't try to change anyone.

Best to all!


Ricardo you will always get viewers wanting you to make changes as a sort of fantasy that they might have. You as the performer have to find a way to tease them into liking what they see. Don't worry about viewers who want to change you and accept the fact that everyone has a fantasy and it is up to them to accept who you are, what you and and how change is often referred to as moving on. Hope you get what I am saying.
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Ricardo you will always get viewers wanting you to make changes as a sort of fantasy that they might have. You as the performer have to find a way to tease them into liking what they see. Don't worry about viewers who want to change you and accept the fact that everyone has a fantasy and it is up to them to accept who you are, what you and and how change is often referred to as moving on. Hope you get what I am saying.



I get exactly what you're saying ;)
I'm all for becoming a fantasy, I also love embodying new roles.
There's just a little line to be drawn about how much we can change about ourselves before losing it or maybe, just waiting fot he right time to move on, as you say ;)

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