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Male Performer Chat: Not the hole story
Created by:
freneticallycalm
3/9/18 @ 7:35am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
I'm going to vent. This probably isn't fair, it's just how I feel.
Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that? Quote
Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that? Quote
I'm going to vent. This probably isn't fair, it's just how I feel.
Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that?
May be this str8 guys are more gay than gay guys :D Quote
Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that?
May be this str8 guys are more gay than gay guys :D Quote
Actualy i am not showing it either, not quite sure why, but it makes me uncomfortable. i know that sucks, but we all got our own weird things going on. wouldn't you agree?
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It’s internalized homophobia, plain and simple.
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I'm going to vent. This probably isn't fair, it's just how I feel.
Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that?
i love holes :most models will show ass for a tip(
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Some gay models say they're tops. I accept that. However, if you want to see their holes either via tipping in Party Chat or in private, they have all these reservations.
Now, I understand if I had asked them to shove something up their butt. Why would they be resistant to modeling their ass and holes (especially when some of them are so damn pretty!)?
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I get LESS resistance from "straight guys" working with women as couples on the girls side of the site (I'm versatile and bisexual, so I kinda like to see it all).
What's up with that?
i love holes :most models will show ass for a tip(
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Actualy i am not showing it either, not quite sure why, but it makes me uncomfortable. i know that sucks, but we all got our own weird things going on. wouldn't you agree?
i will pass the word in the rooms so you will not need to put up with the tippers going in your room
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i will pass the word in the rooms so you will not need to put up with the tippers going in your room
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lol
i will pass the word in the rooms so you will not need to put up with the tippers going in your room
Hahahahahahahhaha, so considerate of you. Quote
To be clear, it's NOT a hygiene thing. It's a weird hang up.
I don't see the need for name calling. When I was young and hot enough to be a model, I did not want to show any number of body parts to old fat women. Is that a weird hangup, or is that my preference? A fantasy sex site like this involves choices on both sides of the camera. If I want to see a model reading a book, but the model I'm looking at doesn't want to read a book in public, I can just move on elsewhere without calling his choice a weird hangup.
Some people like to see sweaty hairy armpits. Some don't. It is neither weird nor a hangup to dislike showing my armpits or looking at yours.
Besides, maybe it IS a hygiene thing to them. Quote
I don't see the need for name calling. When I was young and hot enough to be a model, I did not want to show any number of body parts to old fat women. Is that a weird hangup, or is that my preference? A fantasy sex site like this involves choices on both sides of the camera. If I want to see a model reading a book, but the model I'm looking at doesn't want to read a book in public, I can just move on elsewhere without calling his choice a weird hangup.
Some people like to see sweaty hairy armpits. Some don't. It is neither weird nor a hangup to dislike showing my armpits or looking at yours.
Besides, maybe it IS a hygiene thing to them.
Calling something someone does "weird" is name calling?
"You can see all of me except X" is a hangup. You can call it preference if you want, but it's the same thing. The reason they don't/won't is something they are hung up on, usually being that they don't want to appear submissive or "THAT" gay. BUT, I have seen some NASTY NASTY holes on here, so please continue to hide them if that's the case.
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Merry Christmas people
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STOP THE MADNESS!!! 
I thought we were embracing each performers' individuality, letting them establish their own level of expression, not imposing upon them another's standards.
For every performer not showing their hole
there are probably a dozen who will. Find one, tip them, only after knowing they will show it, 
and be happy 
All is well.
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I thought we were embracing each performers' individuality, letting them establish their own level of expression, not imposing upon them another's standards. For every performer not showing their hole
there are probably a dozen who will. Find one, tip them, only after knowing they will show it, and be happy All is well.
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Merry Christmas people
This is the most sensible comment on this thread. And a very merry Christmas to you too, Danny! Quote
This is the most sensible comment on this thread. And a very merry Christmas to you too, Danny! Quote
Happy Easter guys, hope bunny is good to you!
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to all members and MODELS happy butthole's day!
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This is the most sensible comment on this thread. And a very merry Christmas to you too, Danny!
It isss, i am sensible, doesn t i ? Quote
Created by:
freneticallycalm
3/13/18 @ 3:58am
(EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
Actually i am not showing it either, not quite sure why, but it makes me uncomfortable. i know that sucks, but we all got our own weird things going on. wouldn't you agree?
Well thank you for being honest about it. Can you elaborate? What about it makes you "uncomfortable"?
Do you think it's some kind of "repressed homophobia" as others have said?
Do you think it's something else?
I'm asking sincerely and would love to know more about your view. Quote
Well thank you for being honest about it. Can you elaborate? What about it makes you "uncomfortable"?
Do you think it's some kind of "repressed homophobia" as others have said?
Do you think it's something else?
I'm asking sincerely and would love to know more about your view. Quote
