I personaly feelt that I like boys , becouse ... as I grew up , my mom and dad broke up ...I chosed to stay with him of course ;and after a while he started to get a lot of male friends , they were always comeing home , we had lot`s and lot`s of fun like guys :D Somehow he started at first to like boys becouse , he thought that my mom was the only women that he could ever love , so he chose not to go with other womens , but instead he started seeing diffrent friends.. He always took care , until i grew up to hid the fact that he likes boys .
But as I grew it was starting to get more and more obvious ;
So here we were one night , me and dad and his friend called Tom ; Tom was like 38 years old , and in somehow i always liked watching him when he was swiming without his chlotes :D , Beautifull body !!
We were at a camp fire at a river , dad went to the car and then Tom moved closer to me , and grabed me "friendly" into his arms .. OMG
I instantaneous though of his hot body and my cock was up .. Dad came , and started yelling " Leave him alone Tom" and Tom said , "Come on isn`t obvious ? He likes it , I did u a favour " dad said again " No he is not" ....
Then I stood up to move from there , and dad saw that my cock was up , and he apologised to Tom . That`s when i and also my dad knew than I was gay .. since then and until now we have lot`s and lot`s of fun with friends . My world is perfect !!!!!
I`m anxious to hear your stories guys !!!!! Come on !!
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3/14/12 @ 12:44am
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Location: East Central Wisconsin
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P.S. Wether you were raised by your mother or father effected your being gay? Realy? Quote
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very interesting and opening.
you can judge me if you want but when I was 13 I saw an ad for burberry where the guys were closer than friends would stay side-by-side.
After that I kept fantasizing about them being closer...
and then naked...
and then kissing...
and then I got my first full blown boner...
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3/14/12 @ 5:18am
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Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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don't think it was his intent that you had a choice to be gay in the matter at all.
Only ignorant people believe it's a choice.
Do heterosexuals have a choice to be straight ? No !!!
Do Bi-sexuals have a choice to be Bi? No!!! again Quote
"Oh I need a cute gay today, lets look what we have listed under the 'B's here in my drawer... aaaah, perfect. Bryan will do today"
No. Sexuality is not decided at birth either, and to think you are born with a foot fetish is naive. But to also attribute sexual preference solely to being raised is just as equally ignorant, for asking a "straight" man to be gay is just as impossible. It isn't something you choose, nor is it something you are taunt, nor is it something you are born with. Sexuality is an ever changing journey that EVERYONE goes through, regardless of social stigmas and labels, like "gay". If you only like cock, and you have one, great. You fit nicely into that filing cabinet. But good luck getting everyone else in there so neatly. Quote
I think this pretty much hits the nail on the head. I know my own sexuality has changed over the years. In addition to acknowledging both sexes, some fetishes I've grown out of and some fetishes I've grown into as well.
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Sorry if I am but I thought this was a good place to say this. Quote
3/14/12 @ 11:31am
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Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
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...I seem to recall being attracted to boys in the 5th grade!! However, I did not act on this attraction until I was in the 8th grade. There was no doubt after that, I knew I was definately gay after that wonderful day in my life. He was a good friend of mine and we stayed good friends for many years until he moved to San Diego after he was in the Navy. There is still a warm spot in my heart for him and there always will be.
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...I seem to recall being attracted to boys in the 5th grade!! However, I did not act on this attraction until I was in the 8th grade. There was no doubt after that, I knew I was definately gay after that wonderful day in my life. He was a good friend of mine and we stayed good friends for many years until he moved to San Diego after he was in the Navy. There is still a warm spot in my heart for him and there always will be.
Same for me, Phil. Looking back I always think "How the hell did I (and everyone else) not know?"
Then when I finally came out I, of course, got the "It's just a phase" talk. No, phases don't generally start as soon as you hit the earliest days of adolescence and lie dormant until you're of age to express them properly. A phase would be that period of a year when I was about 12 during which I thought I liked country music.
For me the time where I put my feelings with the concept of "gay" took place when I was looking at an issue of my mother's Cosmopolitan Magazine (Yeah, somehow I still hadn't figured it out at that point, talk about dense ). There was a Calvin Klein ad with a BEAUTIFUL model that had just the slightest hint of pubic hair showing above he's perfectly formed package. Insta-boner. Within the year my parents were finding some very interesting Google search suggestions in our family's web browser
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3/14/12 @ 10:14pm
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Location: London, UK
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For a few years I tried to push the 10%, and look out for girls that I liked. When I was 19 I had my first office job in London. I was rather attracted to one particular girl on the other side of the building, but didn't make any moves.
The following year, after I left that office, I met a guy I was very attracted to. We went to bed together. We had already swopped first names, but while we were in bed we swopped surnames too. His surname was the same as the girl in the office. He was her brother! I was delighted things turned out that way Quote
For a few years I tried to push the 10%, and look out for girls that I liked. When I was 19 I had my first office job in London. I was rather attracted to one particular girl on the other side of the building, but didn't make any moves.
The following year, after I left that office, I met a guy I was very attracted to. We went to bed together. We had already swopped first names, but while we were in bed we swopped surnames too. His surname was the same as the girl in the office. He was her brother! I was delighted things turned out that way
And you haven't sold the rights to this story to a film studio yet?! Talk about a perfect romantic comedy...
Awesome stories, guys.
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