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Male Performer Chat: What is it about a performer on the site that attracts you?

Created by: gofish

12/9/15 @ 2:37pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Not sure if this might have been asked before and yes it does seem like something of a loaded question.
Imagine for most members and viewers it would be the image thing...
Hot hunk
awesome muscles
attractive face
very impressive equipment (think you know what I mean)
the list just goes on.

As one can see there is a fair number of male performers on the site who will knock your socks off with there looks, but having said that I sort of think many overlook some performers who have other special qualities going for them. Who are able to open doors to hidden fantasies if you take the time to check them out.

Each performer on the site has something special going for them, but it merely takes a moment of your time as a member and viewer to find that something special. There is something sad about seeing a performer giving it his all and just so few willing to say something. Think it is up to members to offer some form of encouragement to performers if merely to say that they are appreciated.

Would be interested in the type of feedback this thread might get.

Well that I guess is my message for the day :thumbsup

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Created by: chrisdk

12/9/15 @ 4:05pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I find a positive atmosphere in a performers room very important, which is made not only by the performer, but also by his visitors, so guys: be kind to one another :drinkup

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If he manages to be my buddy in open chat and my wildest dream in private I am never leaving
:angel

. However, what keeps me coming back are not the privates, but the certainty, to be remembered and made feel special.

Great topic, gofish! :thumbsup

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Created by: chrisdk

12/15/15 @ 4:12am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I like this topic a lot and would love people to share their opinion.
So here another point I find attractive besides the looks and the "image thing" - dirty talking abilities

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I mean, if I can close my eyes (!) during private and his voice and the things he says with increasing intensity bring me down to my knees ... OMG. :bowdown

*hoarsely* :angel

so yeah ... a voice can resonate with you in a way that enhance the looks even further :thumbsup

And ... don't you just love reading a PM with his sweet voice in your ear?

Oh and lol, all those cute accents :orglaugh

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Created by: midnightvoiceco

12/15/15 @ 11:29am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Since we, as men, are mostly very visual, it's something unique about the performer that attracts me. Visually, his intro/profile picture is what opens the door. Once inside, it's discovering that the uniqueness of his appearance is matched by the uniqueness of his personality and demeanor. The more successful performers are very engaging and inviting to the customers coming in to their room, and that's a huge attraction to me -- a guy who's very personable and inviting once you enter the room, and I'm not referring to the canned messages welcoming one in and soliciting some sort of action by the customer automatically. If the performer welcomes me by name, that's a huge attraction. It shows that he's paying attention, and giving attention. And in return he receives attention.

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Created by: twixel

12/15/15 @ 2:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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The initial attraction I guess would be the pea cocking in the profile pic. did the performer take time to generate a pic that says come in and see me.
Once I pop in to see the performer, is it an automated response or do they say "Hi", also is there conversation going happening with the performer and audience? Does the performer take interest in me as well, questions can go back and forth creating a conversation.
I look for interaction and fun, I can sit and stare at a wall in my own home I come into the rooms to interact with others and enjoy some time to escape reality a little and just be myself.
So the break down to the questions would be:
1: initial profile pic - is it eye catching to say come see me
2: is the performer interacting with audience
3: is the performer having fun or sitting there staring at their phone.
4: not constantly asking to go private or asking for tips but appreciative of the random tips or power boosts.

:winkwink

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Created by: Rocco Wilson

12/15/15 @ 2:55pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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I'm glad someone comes in to enjoy the conversation, because I have more of that than what the OP mentioned, i.e. muscles and whatnot. ' :thumbsup

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Created by: Faustian B

12/15/15 @ 6:19pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Created by: Faustian B

12/15/15 @ 6:20pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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I find a positive atmosphere in a performers room very important, which is made not only by the performer, but also by his visitors, so guys: be kind to one another :drinkup

.
If he manages to be my buddy in open chat and my wildest dream in private I am never leaving
:angel

. However, what keeps me coming back are not the privates, but the certainty, to be remembered and made feel special.

Great topic, gofish! :thumbsup

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Created by: Faustian B

12/15/15 @ 6:21pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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I like this topic a lot and would love people to share their opinion.
So here another point I find attractive besides the looks and the "image thing" - dirty talking abilities

.

I mean, if I can close my eyes (!) during private and his voice and the things he says with increasing intensity bring me down to my knees ... OMG. :bowdown

*hoarsely* :angel

so yeah ... a voice can resonate with you in a way that enhance the looks even further :thumbsup

And ... don't you just love reading a PM with his sweet voice in your ear?

Oh and lol, all those cute accents :orglaugh

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Created by: ronnie-uk

12/18/15 @ 10:51am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Since we, as men, are mostly very visual, it's something unique about the performer that attracts me. Visually, his intro/profile picture is what opens the door.

The initial attraction I guess would be the pea cocking in the profile pic. did the performer take time to generate a pic that says come in and see me.

I agree with these comments by midnightvoiceco and Twixel :thumbsup

I think that profile pics are hugely important. There are often 150 performers online at the same time, all trying to attract members to their room.

One performer's profile pic I find irresistible. Any time I see him do group chat I go straight to his room...

There are other sexy performers, included in my favourites, who started to use boring, unsexy bio pics. I found that I stopped visiting them. That may sound a bit harsh, but with so many other performers to choose from that is the way it seems to work for me (and possibly for the thousands of members who never post in the forums).

A good topic by RyanVV about profile pics here (but with some changed/missing profile page links):

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=20335&num_posts=1 1

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Created by: midnightvoiceco

12/18/15 @ 1:25pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Conversely, once one enters the room and finds that the performer looks nothing like the profile/intro pic (either due to photo shopping and/or significant changes), it can be a disappointment. I usually try to give the performer some time to see what his personality or uniqueness is all about. If there's nothing there that appeals to me, time to move on.

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Created by: deaftn

12/19/15 @ 1:43am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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the hat or cap he wears

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12/19/15 @ 11:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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