Hi everyone I have been a webcam model for +3 years, and just joined F4F recently. I have been enjoying so far, but i wish i could understand the members! Why the members in here are so quiet? They never talk or interact with me, it seems like they are all looking for a free show or something, or maybe i'm doing something wrong? I just wish i could understand why nobodyyy talks!! lol!!! sometimes i dont even care about tips, just having somebody to chat really helps with boredom, so what are members exactly looking for in here?! =) thanks y'all have a great day Quote

Hi everyone I have been a webcam model for +3 years, and just joined F4F recently. I have been enjoying so far, but i wish i could understand the members! Why the members in here are so quiet? They never talk or interact with me, it seems like they are all looking for a free show or something, or maybe i'm doing something wrong? I just wish i could understand why nobodyyy talks!! lol!!! sometimes i dont even care about tips, just having somebody to chat really helps with boredom, so what are members exactly looking for in here?! =) thanks y'all have a great day



sometimes i have the same feeling haha absoultely understand with you and waiting for feedback from users :c Quote

You’ll be waiting a long time for an age old question that has never been answered - or at least an answer that you’ll like/accept.

Search the forums and you’ll find NUMEROUS posts that have already asked the same thing:

https://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25558&num_posts=9

ht tps://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25503&num_posts=27

https://www.f lirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25436&num_posts=4

https://www.flirt4free.co m/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=24945

https://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?for um_id=5&thread_id=25117&num_posts=21

Anyway, I’ve always believed that you shouldn’t waste time on users who don’t want to to talk. Make small talk openly to see if a user will reply and if they do, build it up and go from there.

If they want something, they’ll ask for it and sometimes be very upfront about it. You control the direction of how active the room gets and how to approach requests . Quote

You’ll be waiting a long time for an age old question that has never been answered - or at least an answer that you’ll like/accept.

Search the forums and you’ll find NUMEROUS posts that have already asked the same thing:

https://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25558&num_posts=9

ht tps://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25503&num_posts=27

https://www.f lirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=25436&num_posts=4

https://www.flirt4free.co m/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=24945

https://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?for um_id=5&thread_id=25117&num_posts=21

Anyway, I’ve always believed that you shouldn’t waste time on users who don’t want to to talk. Make small talk openly to see if a user will reply and if they do, build it up and go from there.

If they want something, they’ll ask for it and sometimes be very upfront about it. You control the direction of how active the room gets and how to approach requests .





well, sorry, i did not read the whole forum, this is the only site that ppl are extremely silent so I thought it was very weird, I will read these you linked. Thanks. I have done only 28 hours online in this site, i'm pretty new, I need more time, but this is just my perspective from the site until now Quote

well, sorry, i did not read the whole forum, this is the only site that ppl are extremely silent so I thought it was very weird, I will read these you linked. Thanks. I have done only 28 hours online in this site, i'm pretty new, I need more time, but this is just my perspective from the site until now


Not really. You can look on another site, where the number of people watching a room might be more than 500, but only 10 of them are talking. It feels quieter here because nobody on flirt has 500 people watching.

Some people just don't like to talk, especially given the inane stuff that shows up on most websites, including this one.

To a lot of people "flirt for free" includes "observe for free."
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Your room, your way... get active and a ready/available keyboard... some people may like to sit and stare and wait for someone else.... throw a few lines out.... think about what will turn them on or hmmmm wanta comment on that... start discussing something and keep commenting on it lol maybe someone will jump in after a few simple comments from you on a safe topic and one thing lead to another... fun and easy going sometimes works...without to graphic throw some curves....you the model has to figure it out sometimes, boring or not - productive or not and you know some people just luv for ya to ' figure it out your prob'.... play strip poker somehow or game it to if... than you.... they play they gotta comment and you can chat along the way who knows... for it to be interesting to them you have to be interesting and provacative enough to achieve their wanting to physically do more than stare or move on. Quote