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Male Performer Chat: Just a thought for both models and members
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gofish
8/9/20 @ 3:23pm
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Posts: 1,792
The site is and always will be something of a fantasy zone so best to tread carefully. There are a lot of good performers to be found on the site without a doubts, but some it seems are here for different reasons. When a performers sees a tip of any sort in the room there must be thought to how that tip came about. Some members on the site are blessed with the ability to flood a room where as others this will never be the case. Appreciate whatever might come your way and realize that members are people as well so working on their emotions is not a good path to take.
As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
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As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
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Great message Gofish, hope that people take it to heart to just come here and enjoy and leave it at that, No strings attached or expected. Period. Keep emotions out.
Y'all heard of social distancing...well here you keep an emotional distance. Or the big green monster will eat you alive. Quote
Y'all heard of social distancing...well here you keep an emotional distance. Or the big green monster will eat you alive. Quote
Created by:
gofish
8/10/20 @ 3:43am
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,792
Great message Gofish, hope that people take it to heart to just come here and enjoy and leave it at that, No strings attached or expected. Period. Keep emotions out.
Y'all heard of social distancing...well here you keep an emotional distance. Or the big green monster will eat you alive.
Hey Bobby thanks for taking the time to read and post your comment. Guess it would be called Flirt Distancing
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Y'all heard of social distancing...well here you keep an emotional distance. Or the big green monster will eat you alive.
Hey Bobby thanks for taking the time to read and post your comment. Guess it would be called Flirt Distancing
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The site is and always will be something of a fantasy zone so best to tread carefully. There are a lot of good performers to be found on the site without a doubts, but some it seems are here for different reasons. When a performers sees a tip of any sort in the room there must be thought to how that tip came about. Some members on the site are blessed with the ability to flood a room where as others this will never be the case. Appreciate whatever might come your way and realize that members are people as well so working on their emotions is not a good path to take.
As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
Thanks for being here Gofish and putting effort for models.
Hugs
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As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
Thanks for being here Gofish and putting effort for models.
Hugs
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Spent about 3 days in your room during your first FOTY contest, you cute Robert Smiley. You worked long, long hours and were so grateful for every credit. 
I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3
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I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3
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Spent about 3 days in your room, during your first FOTY contest, you cute Robert Smiley. You worked long, long hours and were so grateful for every credit. I recommend you as one of the best performers on site.
Thank you for this surprise and even bigger before i arrived here.
Have a great day and thanks for remebering nice moments
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I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. Thank you for this surprise and even bigger before i arrived here.
Have a great day and thanks for remebering nice moments
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Spent about 3 days in your room during your first FOTY contest, you cute Robert Smiley. You worked long, long hours and were so grateful for every credit. I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3
I second this. Robert is one of the sweetest guys on here.
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I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3I second this. Robert is one of the sweetest guys on here.
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I second this. Robert is one of the sweetest guys on here.
Thank you and must mentoin for all those who read that You are great guy who arrive sometimes in my room and show appreciation in special way too.
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notsure0315
10/19/20 @ 1:56pm
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Location: U S A
Posts: 212
During times I ve been viewer/customer/user/free coasting poorer times, i ve had some terrifically enjoyable times and terrifically horrific times that you appreciate and depreciate over time. Some exciting and some depressing, some eye opening with awesome hot enjoyment; some eye opening/closing with 'oh crud' and could there be a redo. Whichever was always with the belief that they would always balance out, get better, expand meet and greets and potential invites to 'check with me later' s; some and not much but what the hey, I m not a large quantity spender and the 'innest' most guy.... point is to each is own and not all are upper echelon, high rollers, highest techies, sexiest verbalizing, arrousal expertised, and capabilities deliverable guy. However in the long run it s supposed to be fun, safe, enjoyable, sexy, provacative, friendly, interesting, and safe whichever works goes.
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notsure0315
10/20/20 @ 9:26am
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Location: U S A
Posts: 212
GENERAL COMMENT: Probably fits for any/all sites, however respects and regards here at F4F: Models questions/replies are generally kind, funny, interesting etc, however you and your moderators at least be consistent and together on type: don t type one thing and snide comments opposite regardless sound off/on: and whoever some vocal coach is, slinking in/out of cam room is, can keep or retain comments to self. If your going to play it both ways at least say/type please leave....next time I may figure out how to use the abuse function. Thank you in advance for/to honest
Models; others...I still gotta lotsa to learn...! Quote
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gofish
10/20/20 @ 1:28pm
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NOTSURE0315 generally unlike other sites there is no monitor in the room with the performer. He or she controls the flow of the room. However some members might have a thought that they could be a monitor and do comment in open chat. While they might think they are supporting the performer it can often backfire. If one wishes to help a performer try whispering mere suggestions and please don't over do it. Everyone is in the chat room to try to have a good time. Hope that makes sense to those who read this.
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notsure0315
10/20/20 @ 2:23pm
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Location: U S A
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Thanks for the reply, however should have added that have seen Model type reply and no hands move except edging and something else not near a keyboard so various positive and neg assistance prevails. The initial point is that learned valuable lesson, when typed words and verbal comments opposite, I leave the room... most Models are 5 starred athletes as well and enjoyable to customer with/for. 
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notsure0315
10/20/20 @ 2:23pm
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Location: U S A
Posts: 212
Thanks for the reply, however should have added that have seen Model type reply and no hands move except edging and something else not near a keyboard so various positive and neg assistance prevails. The initial point is that learned valuable lesson, when typed words and verbal comments opposite, I leave the room... most Models are 5 starred athletes as well and enjoyable to customer with/for.
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640509040147
10/21/20 @ 9:02am
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Location: NY
Posts: 1,265
However some members might have a thought that they could be a monitor and do comment in open chat. While they might think they are supporting the performer it can often backfire. If one wishes to help a performer try whispering mere suggestions and please don't over do it. Everyone is in the chat room to try to have a good time.
Here’s one of few times when I can agree with you Fish.
There was one model whose company I really enjoyed when I was first introduced to him and we even shared some fun shows together early on.
But then after a few regular visits, I noticed his Sugar Daddy take on this unofficial moderator role - pressuring and constantly spamming the room. This just made things unbearable and off putting for me to the point where I just hardly ever go back to that room now.
We can call this back firing or a liability but at the end of the day, so long as a model is making bank and keeping their number one fans happy, does it really matter what others think? So long as Flirt never actually inputs these official Moderator roles, I’m content. Quote
Here’s one of few times when I can agree with you Fish.
There was one model whose company I really enjoyed when I was first introduced to him and we even shared some fun shows together early on.
But then after a few regular visits, I noticed his Sugar Daddy take on this unofficial moderator role - pressuring and constantly spamming the room. This just made things unbearable and off putting for me to the point where I just hardly ever go back to that room now.
We can call this back firing or a liability but at the end of the day, so long as a model is making bank and keeping their number one fans happy, does it really matter what others think? So long as Flirt never actually inputs these official Moderator roles, I’m content. Quote
Thanks for the reply, however should have added that have seen Model type reply and no hands move except edging and something else not near a keyboard
This is probably an admin from a studio who is giving advice on how the site works to a new model. They usually also show how the 'party chat' works, the offers and usually the sound is off so this person can say what they are doing so the model understands this usually takes 5 to 10 minutes then they leave.
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This is probably an admin from a studio who is giving advice on how the site works to a new model. They usually also show how the 'party chat' works, the offers and usually the sound is off so this person can say what they are doing so the model understands this usually takes 5 to 10 minutes then they leave.
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some members need to understand that "meeting" is never going to happen, i dont know why they come to this site looking for this
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The site is and always will be something of a fantasy zone so best to tread carefully. There are a lot of good performers to be found on the site without a doubts, but some it seems are here for different reasons. When a performers sees a tip of any sort in the room there must be thought to how that tip came about. Some members on the site are blessed with the ability to flood a room where as others this will never be the case. Appreciate whatever might come your way and realize that members are people as well so working on their emotions is not a good path to take.
As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
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As for the members on the site sort of think it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not see the signs that perhaps danger is approaching. Just beware that any model of the site who sees a member beyond that of a person to enjoy company with will come back on them three fold.
Think this is an overall awesome site where everyone can connect merely to have a fun time and perhaps form the odd friendship, but beyond that it is a fantasy.
Hope this has not offended anyone, but for me as member I reach out to any member who has experienced a bad situation on the site to merely say sorry that you had to go through that. Likewise to any performer on the site who has had a bad experience with a viewer who might have gone too far sorry that you had to go through that as well.
Hope both members and performers on the site take the time to show each and everyone the respect that they are owed on this site.
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some members need to understand that "meeting" is never going to happen, i dont know why they come to this site looking for this
Ah...but Social Media has now blown this wide open and with the sharing of accounts by members and performers, in different forms, InstG, FB, What........App, Tw.....ter, there are meetings of sorts, members having gone to various studios, performers communicating with members outside of the site.
A lot of us never come here to meet someone, but more often than not, when a friendships are made, the boundaries are crossed.
I do not recommend it at all, and advice you to just to enjoy the moments here. I have had one performer try to get money from me outside of the site from his Social Media account and another very popular porn actor that turned out to be a the most racist bigot in his Social Media account postings. So one that was more about getting money from me outside of the site and the porn actor that was not exactly portraying the innocent Slovakian Youngster but demonstrating instead the vitriol of a skinhead.
Best to just have fun here and not traverse over to the unknown. You may not like each other (member and performers) outside of this site.
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Ah...but Social Media has now blown this wide open and with the sharing of accounts by members and performers, in different forms, InstG, FB, What........App, Tw.....ter, there are meetings of sorts, members having gone to various studios, performers communicating with members outside of the site.
A lot of us never come here to meet someone, but more often than not, when a friendships are made, the boundaries are crossed.
I do not recommend it at all, and advice you to just to enjoy the moments here. I have had one performer try to get money from me outside of the site from his Social Media account and another very popular porn actor that turned out to be a the most racist bigot in his Social Media account postings. So one that was more about getting money from me outside of the site and the porn actor that was not exactly portraying the innocent Slovakian Youngster but demonstrating instead the vitriol of a skinhead.
Best to just have fun here and not traverse over to the unknown. You may not like each other (member and performers) outside of this site.
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Created by:
gofish
11/22/20 @ 7:51pm
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,792
Spent about 3 days in your room during your first FOTY contest, you cute Robert Smiley. You worked long, long hours and were so grateful for every credit. I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3
Have to say miss seeing KFinches round on the site. Always found it to be pure joy to see her in a chat room and sort of think any performer on the site was luck to have her presents in their room. One real classy member who made any chat room she was in a room of pure enjoyment.
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I recommend you as one of the best performers on site. <3Have to say miss seeing KFinches round on the site. Always found it to be pure joy to see her in a chat room and sort of think any performer on the site was luck to have her presents in their room. One real classy member who made any chat room she was in a room of pure enjoyment.
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