I was in with a model for many weeks but he is gone now, profile is taken off. Only thing I have still is my List so my personal Photo Gallery, so strangely enough his photo's still are on site. Twitter (as was launched by F4F when he started) he reacted to me after it happened. These last days however no longer, is that also removed? I wanted to give him my emailaddress so we could stay in touch. Quote

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I was in with a model for many weeks but he is gone now, profile is taken off. Only thing I have still is my List so my personal Photo Gallery, so strangely enough his photo's still are on site. Twitter (as was launched by F4F when he started) he reacted to me after it happened. These last days however no longer, is that also removed? I wanted to give him my emailaddress so we could stay in touch.

Vonny one has to realize this is a fantasy site and yes some type of relationship is often formed between the performer and the member. If in fact he had your twitter name it would be easy for him to reach out to you by setting up his own twitter. Sometimes you just have to let go and move on. Sounds like you had a great experience with this performer and something that should be cherished.

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Vonny one has to realize this is a fantasy site and yes some type of relationship is often formed between the performer and the member. If in fact he had your twitter name it would be easy for him to reach out to you by setting up his own twitter. Sometimes you just have to let go and move on. Sounds like you had a great experience with this performer and something that should be cherished.




I know I know gofish, I had that to heart, it's not like I am obsessing over it hahaha. He had already told me he was planning to leave, and we also talked staying in touch, yet I did not take it that seriously. Then I was away for a week and with return he was gone so I just feel a bit sorry for this. My fault. And that is why I asked these questions but they are still open. I mean, does he have access to anything F4F provided for him? If he has that Twitter no more he can not find me either.

Yet he still is in my List so not all is vaporised by F4F. That's why I asked about the Twitter. Anyway, just small questions, I know it was a fantasy, and it was fun. Actually this site has tought me this. Live in the now. I was always planning forward or looking back. This site is a bit like Snapchat haha. I can coop haha . It's life, and it's good life ;).



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I know I know gofish, I had that to heart, it's not like I am obsessing over it hahaha. He had already told me he was planning to leave, and we also talked staying in touch, yet I did not take it that seriously. Then I was away for a week and with return he was gone so I just feel a bit sorry for this. My fault. And that is why I asked these questions but they are still open. I mean, does he have access to anything F4F provided for him? If he has that Twitter no more he can not find me either.

Yet he still is in my List so not all is vaporised by F4F. That's why I asked about the Twitter. Anyway, just small questions, I know it was a fantasy, and it was fun. Actually this site has tought me this. Live in the now. I was always planning forward or looking back. This site is a bit like Snapchat haha. I can coop haha . It's life, and it's good life ;).






Vonny6 first awesome post. I really understand what you mean and yes it would have been nice if you were still able to keep in touch with him, but it is clear at least year heart was in the right place. It is often strange how one gets attached to certain performers and not in a sexual way. One can only hope that your friend is enjoyng a good life and perhaps remembers you for those special moments.

Warmest Wishes Gofish.

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Yes this is very true. And I reckognize many models would want a clean break from this place too. It's fun, but also a lot of disrespect you encounter. So I would also never mind him to keep a disconnect. You are right I know he would be thinking of me as another experience but all things combined being him I would go for a clean slate as well, simply to move on. So it's not that I mind, I just wondered about the specifics. Oh well, haha. Quote

I know you like the model and perhaps even fell...in love. The best ones that keep you coming back make a mental and emotional connection. And I will tell you that the F4F rules to keep private information and whereabouts separate are invaluable. Things are great, but this is a place to let your fantasies run wild. Outside of it, we are who we are. I learnt this the hard way. You may get some of their information. They may get you to communicate with them outside of F4F, it can be done. They may let you see part of their lives on camera via a webcam or some other method and you think you have a relationship. You are about to change your life to join them, maybe even thinking about wiring money. They may even give your a "private" so you think you are having sex with them and they may try to set up a method where you can wire them money. That method may be to their friend, perhaps a girl. It is very smooth and very enticing and you are made to feel like you are in love. Luckily for me, when we were playing together, I saw that he was not gay because he had a mirror behind him and he was jerking off to another computer and the porn had women, countless naked women and his girlfriend was scantily clad in the distance. I let him continue his show as I watched her interaction with him. I then shut off my computer and never communicated with him again. My advice. Stay and play in the fantasy here. Do not get lured or make a wild goose chase. F4F support has set up their rules to protect you also and probably from stawker clients. The model will lure you away because they don't want to give F4F their cut of the show price and tips. This one knew I could pay well by the private time I spent. So he worked me until I fell for it. Be careful. I'm usually a very smart guy and can make a decent amount of money but I wasn't gifted with looks and a body so I come here to play. I'm not saying you are exactly like me. But I let all the smarts and common sense out the window when I thought that I actually had a chance at an Adonis. Quote

Man, thanx a lot for your contribution here. But we are lightyears apart. For one, most of my adored models are clearly 100% straight. I have a Gaydar which is in perfect order, and besides you get the tonnes of hints when spending time together. I don't even get into that discussion. I just love the fact they are still open minded to gays. It looks like you were set up to romance that was never going to happen and that is disrespectful. So I feel for you.

I will tell you this story. A model did try this on me. Trying to picture such romance which ended in asking me to wire money because he would be thrown on the streets later on the day. Dainsel in distress. But this is in all the books, going on for centuries... millennia. Oldest trick in the world and I saw it as a roleplay we were doing allways. I saw right through it but played my part. I actually never confronted him about it. I was a bit disappointed when I found out where it was all heading. But then I thought, let's just keep the roleplay and have fun in that. I would never start wiring money so it was for me as if we were two actors in a play. For him, ofcourse, in this play the time came in the end to force the issue. So if I wouldn't wire money all would end for us, that was basically it. He said I was only there to get his attention. So in a dramatic way our play ended, while I always stayed in role. Ofcourse, I did check if he was allright the next days, just via the bio (the seconds you get then). And ofcourse he was. He was my first great model here. Actually a little bit earlier this month I had a quick visit to his room again as a little afterplay. It felt nice as he was glad to see me, and me him, but I knew the moment would stop there too. So the play was over then as I can't picture what the second act would be like. I'm not going to say his name as he would be in trouble but I know he has been playing many other users too. A big sign is when he started asking me all kinds of personal questions and my pictures, socials etcetera. Anyway, I couldn't blaim him for he is I know just a poor dude struggling, so I just let it all happen.

As for the vanished model I am talking about here, he for sure is 100% gay, but also, no romance in sight. I'm twice his age. I can't even picture how that would work haha. So I am not looking for that at all. Just to keep in touch as a panpal would be nice as we share common interests, and I do write with a lot of foreigners already about politics and news etc. So it would result from being a fan to being a friend, which is a word I do not even dare use with my current models. They need to give that to me if they want, and if not, I be their fan for as long as they want me haha. Quote