Good morning everyone.
Italianlooner12 here, an Italian user of this site (unfortunately) for almost ten years; some of you remember me for my fetish that is the one for the bubbles made with bubblegum.

Know that some of you, especially the models, are not happy with my behavior which, at times, is not very suitable for a good "customer" and am sorry for that.

However, the subject of this post is another and it reflects a thought that I have elaborated in the last (wretched, for everyone) three years on the "quality" of the models: my fetishism, bubblegum bubbles, is a very innocent paraphilia and simple that, barring desperate cases, everyone can easily satisfy; despite this, the only "category" able to satisfy my requests is that of the Latinos who, Slavic the more "recalcitrant", do their utmost to go to the shop/supermarket to buy tires and, during the entertainment, are willing to talk and get to know each other better to avoid - fortunately - being sex machines or objects; naturally they also have some "shortcomings": one above all is the almost incapacity to speak English which, in my subsequent luck, led me to learn the Spanish language autodidactically; I also add the "spasmodic" request for tips with the reviled phrase "dame tips" repeated every minute.

But the other categories?
don't want to be racist (although, in many respects, am) but, as an Italian, would like to have only encounters/shows with models of white ethnicity: European, Russian, American: this is practically impossible; impossible not only because, compared to the Latins, the "Caucasian" models are not prodigal in going immediately to buy bubble gum but because, if it goes well, they don't understand what you write in English and if it goes wrong, they pay no heed to you; starting from the fact that in the "European Man" category three quarters of the models are from Eastern Europe (therefore Slavic), one already starts with the enterprise of making oneself understood: most of them do not understand what one writes if it is beyond out of the words "fuck, cum, handjob" and when you manage to make people understand what you are asking, in most cases, they make you wait hours for the bubblegum to arrive which, invariably, either don't arrive or are normal chewing- gum with which the models, funabolistically, try to make bubbles to convince you that they are bubblegum; Estonians, Latvians and Lithuanians are the "worst": they don't listen to you and when you try to talk to them they answer you in Cyrillic. Similar but different situation with the Romanians or the Czechs: the first prodigals but only with (heavy) advance payment (in the past a model asked me for 7,000 tips just to buy bubblegum) without even knowing if the model is capable of making bubbles; the latter, strong in being the "BelAmi boys", almost never answer (especially if they are in a couple), delude you for days about "buying bubble gum for tomorrow" (and meanwhile weeks go by) and after a while they stop giving you straight line or they start asking for tips so exaggerated that, for an ejaculate, it's not worth it.

This discussion of mine, free from wanting to offend anyone, just wants to "make you participate" in the lowering, in my opinion, of the quality of the models and the inability to have a relationship/approach with them.

Have you ever had similar problems? Quote

I have had shows with all the categories you have mentioned (Latinos, Americans, and Europeans) and have very little issues in communicating in English with them all. Sounds like you are looking for something pretty specific and if you pop into a room and expect the model to drop everyone else to run and get what you want for minimal credits, then I can see issues happening.
My recommendation, get to know the models and give them an idea of what you are looking for in a show, message them a detail of what you would like to happen in a show and make them an offer. They can then respond making sure they understand your wishes and whether or not they accept your offer or send a counter offer. Once settled then schedule the show and enjoy.
Build the relationship with a model, they get to know you well enough to keep gum available for spontaneous shows.
Again, just a recommendation from my experiences. I have had a few shows that have taken a couple weeks of pre-planning. Quote

I have had shows with all the categories you have mentioned (Latinos, Americans, and Europeans) and have very little issues in communicating in English with them all. Sounds like you are looking for something pretty specific and if you pop into a room and expect the model to drop everyone else to run and get what you want for minimal credits, then I can see issues happening.
My recommendation, get to know the models and give them an idea of what you are looking for in a show, message them a detail of what you would like to happen in a show and make them an offer. They can then respond making sure they understand your wishes and whether or not they accept your offer or send a counter offer. Once settled then schedule the show and enjoy.
Build the relationship with a model, they get to know you well enough to keep gum available for spontaneous shows.
Again, just a recommendation from my experiences. I have had a few shows that have taken a couple weeks of pre-planning.



Excellent advice! I have the same experience as you when communicating in English with (Latinos, Americans, British, Australians, South Africans, Europeans….etc). Never had a problem with my request not being fulfilled even with latinos and Europeans that use a translator. I also preplanned private shows and scheduled some privates using flirtmail. I had mine scheduled a week or two in advance with some American and latino models and they showed up online for the day and time chosen. I agree with you It’s all about building a relationship! Mine is based on trust that I’ll give them an agreed credit amount when it’s all said and done. Also once they know that I’m a nice person that makes them feel comfortable in private and open chat they are happy to perform my specific fetish request for me. I noticed the ones that work outside of a studio broadcasting on their own are more open to flexible schedule choices. I never think of doing any of this scheduling ahead with a belami model because of my bad experiences with them but that’s just my personal experience. Excellent recommendation too by the way! Quote

"I don't want to be racist, but let me post something totally racist." Quote

I would just move on! 😉 Quote