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Male Performer Chat: NON-TALKERS what is with them
If I go into to a room and all I see is a model typing
I know that is a sign of a room with too much whispering and not a good open chat room so I go to the next room 
Not true elmo, performers might be on many websites at the same time, that's why i say that we need some understand. Members are talking to a single person .... performers are talking to all members. Quote
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gofish
9/7/15 @ 1:04am
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but more like two year agoYes Guys it was so much different back then. It is a shame that many of the newer members and performers could not see what it was like. No whispering back then and pretty much everyone was keen on talking. One can only wish that things will get better.
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chrisdk
9/7/15 @ 1:24am
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Yes Guys it was so much different back then. It is a shame that many of the newer members and performers could not see what it was like. No whispering back then and pretty much everyone was keen on talking. One can only wish that things will get better.
Great, NOW I wanna have the good ole times back ... no, no, no, I AM having lots of fun here ... just wish silent users would understand how much fun it is to not remain silent.
btw, I don't like those users much either, who ONLY talk to the model, ignoring other users, saying "hi", "great nickname, pal" etc. Quote
Great, NOW I wanna have the good ole times back ... no, no, no, I AM having lots of fun here ... just wish silent users would understand how much fun it is to not remain silent.
btw, I don't like those users much either, who ONLY talk to the model, ignoring other users, saying "hi", "great nickname, pal" etc.
ChrisDK, cut those users a little slack. They're the ones who are usually here for only one thing, and it isn't to socialize with the rest of the members in a room. They don't want to engage in polite conversation because it distracts them from the object of their attentions. By ignoring the rest of the room, these members are able to maintain the flimsy illusion of engaging one-on-one with the model.
Then again, they may also just feel uncomfortable talking about what everyone else is talking about because they have nothing to contribute (knowing nothing about the topic) or because they're just not interested in what's being discussed.
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gofish
9/7/15 @ 3:13am
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Great, NOW I wanna have the good ole times back ... no, no, no, I AM having lots of fun here ... just wish silent users would understand how much fun it is to not remain silent.
btw, I don't like those users much either, who ONLY talk to the model, ignoring other users, saying "hi", "great nickname, pal" etc.
Chris I am with you on that one. Sorry zyxwv098 have to disagree with you there, but I do understand what you mean. It is just that when other members acknowledge others in the room sort of gives things something of a party feeling if you get what I mean.
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Chris I am with you on that one. Sorry zyxwv098 have to disagree with you there, but I do understand what you mean. It is just that when other members acknowledge others in the room sort of gives things something of a party feeling if you get what I mean.
I understand that and acknowledge the point. But it should also be noted that not everyone enjoys that "party feeling" (myself, for example). Some prefer a more relaxed, less frenetic room that doesn't have dozens of voices clamoring for attention, with multiple side-conversations going on.
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Great, NOW I wanna have the good ole times back ... no, no, no, I AM having lots of fun here ... just wish silent users would understand how much fun it is to not remain silent.
btw, I don't like those users much either, who ONLY talk to the model, ignoring other users, saying "hi", "great nickname, pal" etc.
hi chris now you have been told hi by what many models on here call the most well knows silent member on the site
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A slight variation on this:
I really hate cross-chatting. Two members chatting to each other and ignoring the performer.
Just my
I am guilty
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I really hate cross-chatting. Two members chatting to each other and ignoring the performer.
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I am guilty
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ronnie-uk
9/8/15 @ 1:16pm
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LOL Elmo. I'm sure you are not as bad as you like to make out 
This is the kind of situation I was thinking of. Hot Russian performer doing party chat, and giving it his best shot. And 2 guys in his room are having a chat about the latest ball-game or the weather in Maryland ... Quote
This is the kind of situation I was thinking of. Hot Russian performer doing party chat, and giving it his best shot. And 2 guys in his room are having a chat about the latest ball-game or the weather in Maryland ... Quote
LOL Elmo. I'm sure you are not as bad as you like to make out
This is the kind of situation I was thinking of. Hot Russian performer doing party chat, and giving it his best shot. And 2 guys in his room are having a chat about the latest ball-game or the weather in Maryland ...
no I would not do that in party chat but what you say first time sound like a good open chat room to me
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This is the kind of situation I was thinking of. Hot Russian performer doing party chat, and giving it his best shot. And 2 guys in his room are having a chat about the latest ball-game or the weather in Maryland ...
no I would not do that in party chat but what you say first time sound like a good open chat room to me
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I did tell some members who cane in to TIM's party chat (the new king) and most members and TIM did not know what we were talking about but as long as the new tipper is happy who care to guys who do not know the king is a model who was on here a long time ago
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to guys who do not know the king is a model who was on here a long time ago
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I'm with gofish on this one. It's so frustrating when nobody talks. I make sure to say hi to everyone and barely anybody responds yet they still stay in the room. I definitely wish more people would chat, so you don't get that awkward silence of nobody chatting; however, I do understand that that is what people do it's just annoying.
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I have a model friend that wants to switch fro m working for a studio, to working directly for F4F. He is unsure how to do this. Can anybody help point him in the right direction. He is in Colombia and really is a good guy and the studio is not treating him well. I really want to help him out. Thanks for any help you can offer...
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I understand that 10 years ago the landscape was different. Now, smartphones have taken over, and it's not only performers distracted. It is just the way our ever evolving world works.
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gofish
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I understand that 10 years ago the landscape was different. Now, smartphones have taken over, and it's not only performers distracted. It is just the way our ever evolving world works.
Daniel Almonte sometimes change is not for the better. Seems to the case with flirt, but thankful there are several performers and members on the site to make it an overall great site. Perhaps one day it will evolve back to the way it used to be.
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Daniel Almonte sometimes change is not for the better. Seems to the case with flirt, but thankful there are several performers and members on the site to make it an overall great site. Perhaps one day it will evolve back to the way it used to be.
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It's not the model's job (nor those in the room) to provide you with a social life. If I go into a room and don't feel like I have anything to say, I'm not going to blab away just to see my words appear on the screen. It's really no one's business whether someone chooses to talk or not.
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gofish
10/17/17 @ 8:33pm
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It's not the model's job (nor those in the room) to provide you with a social life. If I go into a room and don't feel like I have anything to say, I'm not going to blab away just to see my words appear on the screen. It's really no one's business whether someone chooses to talk or not.
gloababatrana this is not a matter of providing anyone with a social life. Merely out of respect to the performer any viewer member or otherwise should have the common sense to at best say HELLO. How is any performer to know how he or she is doing if no one talks?
These are CHATROOMS with the key part being chat. It is fine if no one wishes to talk, but why are they even in the room in the first place.
My comment was not meant to offend you or any one else and hope you will reconsider your comment.
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gloababatrana this is not a matter of providing anyone with a social life. Merely out of respect to the performer any viewer member or otherwise should have the common sense to at best say HELLO. How is any performer to know how he or she is doing if no one talks?
These are CHATROOMS with the key part being chat. It is fine if no one wishes to talk, but why are they even in the room in the first place.
My comment was not meant to offend you or any one else and hope you will reconsider your comment.
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Daniel Almonte sometimes change is not for the better. Seems to the case with flirt, but thankful there are several performers and members on the site to make it an overall great site. Perhaps one day it will evolve back to the way it used to be.
True!! things didn't change for the better... and NO!! it would never revert to the times we loved I'm afraid
Performers are no longer interested in a long lastingfriendly relationship with the viewers
just a quick buck anda hurried "thanks good bye" sort of deal...
Back then you needed the customer/friends 
now they only need a phone,an ugly Muslim terrorist beard, maybe a piercing,a an OHMYBOD and some tacky inexplicable tattoos!!
:Just my
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