10/26/17 @ 5:58pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
I've never experienced this but I do recall going to a guys couple room last year and wanting to see them make out. We went to private but they were clearly straight (despite saying they were bi) since they refused to kiss, stroke each other or have any real action with each other. Show was ended immediately.
Again, I'd prefer if they were just honest with me instead of giving off this empty handed gesture. I mean, I'd be down for naked wrestling if they didn't want to be sexual active.
DUDE! I ran into that couple a day or two ago. They just kinda say there and were enamored by how cool they were, like "OMG! We just get to be here and take these fags' money!"
I was like "How are they even on this site?" Quote
10/26/17 @ 6:06pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
The question is really about customer and model dynamics. What kinds of customers does Flirt attract? Are they catering to that base?
OBVIOUSLY it matters if we're gay, bi or straight. Otherwise, there would be one category: models.
Instead there's Male - Female - Trans with a bunch of subcategories to cater to different tastes. It matters because human beings are vastly different in our preferences and dislikes ... and that is absolutely fucking fascinating.
The purpose is not to YUCK anyone else's YUMS. The purpose is to embrace diversity. I think it's great that other people are into stuff that makes my dick invert.
The purpose is NOT to be open to all people and fetishes. That's a denial of self. Furthermore, to act as if the height of sexual maturity is preferencelessness would be to actively reject and demean those who have a preference or any type of kink. That's a very odd form of sexual superciliousness (been wanting an excuse to use that expression FOREVER!)
Open-minded people want to explore a conversation about these differences because it's intriguing. For a company like Flirt, directing people toward their likes and away from their dislikes is the core of their business ... and therefore yours.
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10/26/17 @ 10:21pm
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Location: NY
Posts: 1,267
DUDE! I ran into that couple a day or two ago. They just kinda say there and were enamored by how cool they were, like "OMG! We just get to be here and take these fags' money!"
I was like "How are they even on this site?"
Oh dear, I hope they didn't actually say/utter that out loud I (try to be anyway) an open minded guy and know that not all guy couples here are sexually into each other but please don't deceive me - just opt to do other naked things then. Ironically after that show, I've felt more comfortable in straight couple rooms since they're a bit more open to catering to me. Unfortunately, I've had my own run with homophobia here and that's just a big no-no for me. I'm not surprised when/if it does happen but I can't tolerate it. If I see it, I just simply up move on out and take my business elsewhere.
Part of me is disappointed that admins haven't listed those slurs ('fags/faggots') on their list of banned words but I assume its because some users like being called/saying it through domination/submissive roles? That's fair and all though if that is what some users are into but I would just prefer if those kind of acts took place in private. Quote