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Male Performer Chat: what do you do when you miss a guy very very much and he has left here
Maybe he's trying to say goodbye. Based on his forum posts, I have zero interest in going to check him out.
I totally agree.
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Hello Guys!
What do you do when you very very much miss a guy and he has left flirt forever?
Any good ideas for me?
xoxo
It’s hard. Just be glad it happened and Cherish the good memories you built together! Give it time to heal your wound and go have some fun!
People will say try not to get emotionally involved, easier said than done.
- Aiden
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What do you do when you very very much miss a guy and he has left flirt forever?
Any good ideas for me?
xoxo
It’s hard. Just be glad it happened and Cherish the good memories you built together! Give it time to heal your wound and go have some fun!
People will say try not to get emotionally involved, easier said than done.
- Aiden
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Trying not to become too emotionally invested does not mean the absence of emotion but means that if you as a member notice yourself experiencing an emotional response toward a model to keep yourself in check and manage your emotions correctly. Part of having the right perspective means coming to the realization that you are just paying for a service provided by the model and that part of the models job is to try to Make you feel like you have made a connection whether it is emotional or common interest to cause to want to spend credits with them. At the end of the day we all pick who we want and spend with whom we want. All of us have emotions and it really just comes down to managing them by having a realistic perspective. It’s a psychological game that you have to know how to play and learn to master.
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you can come see me if you want, maybe I can help you.
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Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and good ideas!!! The Profile Page was closed, do you know if he can return and re-open the same Profile Donatello Profile from before?
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You are obsessing over a fantasy. That is emotionally unhelpful to you. You might consider professional counseling.
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Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and good ideas!!! The Profile Page was closed, do you know if he can return and re-open the same Profile Donatello Profile from before?
I’m not sure how things work on the models end but since he is gone just put him out of your mind. If you have him added to your favorites list of models you’ll see his profile reappear on the active models section when he decided to return but keep in mind he may never return again. I have seen some of my favorited models reactivate their profiles that were previously closed on the site before and to be honest by the time they reactivated there model account and I saw them again I just had no interest whatsoever to see them any further. If you see him again you see him again if you don’t you just don’t. Don’t think about that model too much because you will miss out on another model that could be so much better! I know I definitely found some models now that are way way better in how they interact with users and conduct business in their room I’m happy that I didn’t stick with one model all the time. Look around see what else is new on the site consider him old news and search out some new fresh faces!
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I’m not sure how things work on the models end but since he is gone just put him out of your mind. If you have him added to your favorites list of models you’ll see his profile reappear on the active models section when he decided to return but keep in mind he may never return again. I have seen some of my favorited models reactivate their profiles that were previously closed on the site before and to be honest by the time they reactivated there model account and I saw them again I just had no interest whatsoever to see them any further. If you see him again you see him again if you don’t you just don’t. Don’t think about that model too much because you will miss out on another model that could be so much better! I know I definitely found some models now that are way way better in how they interact with users and conduct business in their room I’m happy that I didn’t stick with one model all the time. Look around see what else is new on the site consider him old news and search out some new fresh faces!
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In my earliest days on site there was a model who whispered to everyone in the room. You never knew if he had 100 people in there or 5 people or just you. When I came in, he always said the same thing. Hey mister how is Boston? This was a really sweet boy wow so cute too and so smart and nice. Sex was special and I thought it was special also but I was new and admit I was naive. I felt something for this guy and he said he felt something too. I know I was stupid so this one time he forgot to whisper, and in the middle of our chat that seemed very intimate at the time he wrote, Hey mister how is Florida? and something about that really hit me. Yes I knew there were other guys but this hit me in a way I never forgot and everything changed in my behavior after that. You have to keep everything on the surface. if you are looking for love or romance they will try to give it to you but you are looking in the wrong place
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It's been a wild ride here for me. Keep an eye on your spending, the yearning dick and lonely heart can get carried away with your money. All these performers are here to make money and you are the ATM. When I couldn't pay for something my very own son needed, as three credit cards were maxed out, I knew I had a problem. Now admin is threatening to "purge" all those thousands of dollars I spent on my private shows because, they're simply out of VOD room or so they say. That's the thanks we get. So I'm a single no longer attractive parent in his later years, up to my neck in debt, horny and desperate and I have nothing to show for it, no recordings of the fun I tried to have. And the performers, I tried to chase down here are either gone or have no time for me. That's the thanks we get here.
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It's been a wild ride here for me. Keep an eye on your spending, the yearning dick and lonely heart can get carried away with your money. All these performers are here to make money and you are the ATM. When I couldn't pay for something my very own son needed, as three credit cards were maxed out, I knew I had a problem. Now admin is threatening to "purge" all those thousands of dollars I spent on my private shows because, they're simply out of VOD room or so they say. That's the thanks we get. So I'm a single no longer attractive parent in his later years, up to my neck in debt, horny and desperate and I have nothing to show for it, no recordings of the fun I tried to have. And the performers, I tried to chase down here are either gone or have no time for me. That's the thanks we get here.
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It's been a wild ride here for me. Keep an eye on your spending, the yearning dick and lonely heart can get carried away with your money. All these performers are here to make money and you are the ATM. When I couldn't pay for something my very own son needed, as three credit cards were maxed out, I knew I had a problem. Now admin is threatening to "purge" all those thousands of dollars I spent on my private shows because, they're simply out of VOD room or so they say. That's the thanks we get. So I'm a single no longer attractive parent in his later years, up to my neck in debt, horny and desperate and I have nothing to show for it, no recordings of the fun I tried to have. And the performers, I tried to chase down here are either gone or have no time for me. That's the thanks we get here.
This is an addiction, and like all addictions, it enslaves us. Be grateful when Flirt inadvertently does anything that results in waking us up to that reality.
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This is an addiction, and like all addictions, it enslaves us. Be grateful when Flirt inadvertently does anything that results in waking us up to that reality.
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This is an addiction, and like all addictions, it enslaves us. Be grateful when Flirt inadvertently does anything that results in waking us up to that reality.
True. There are several Flirt forums about the addictive nature of participating on this site. We just need to be aware of how strong the addiction can be. If we start to feel out of control, it's probably time to stop logging on, at least temporarily. That's the only way I can control the pull of pleasing these sexy guys.
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I really appreciate everyone's sincere and heartfelt comments and positive insights.
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Ask VSMEDIA, send email note, check fan page, research inet, ask friends off friends page,maybe ask another model that may know him, and generally be creative with out 'chasing ' him around world. A lot of Models take off for break and will let you know by returning , remember users are users! to many customers and dont feel a mega obligation or connection enough to inform. Hopefully one of these various etc and not dire, sick, or dead.
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Ask VSMEDIA, send email note, check fan page, research inet, ask friends off friends page,maybe ask another model that may know him, and generally be creative with out 'chasing ' him around world. A lot of Models take off for break and will let you know by returning , remember users are users! to many customers and dont feel a mega obligation or connection enough to inform. Hopefully one of these various etc and not dire, sick, or dead.This all just prolongs the obsession. It's a much better idea to just try and let go of him.
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Thank you for your kind responses after all this time. It is true I still miss him. I do not watch porn so to have have met Donatello Taylor with great conversations and very low credit cum shows was special time hard to emulate so found be nice to find him. xoxo
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Thank you for your kind responses after all this time. It is true I still miss him. I do not watch porn so to have have met Donatello Taylor with great conversations and very low credit cum shows was special time hard to emulate so found be nice to find him. xoxo
I hope you do!
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I hope you do!
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Thank you for your kind responses after all this time. It is true I still miss him. I do not watch porn so to have have met Donatello Taylor with great conversations and very low credit cum shows was special time hard to emulate so found be nice to find him. xoxo
It's been almost 6 months since this thread began. Are you STILL obsessing over a model who obviously didn't care to keep in touch with you? It's time you got help with this beyond what people in a forum thread can offer. Not trying to be mean or anything, but there's clearly something very wrong here, something a professional is best equipped to help with.
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It's been almost 6 months since this thread began. Are you STILL obsessing over a model who obviously didn't care to keep in touch with you? It's time you got help with this beyond what people in a forum thread can offer. Not trying to be mean or anything, but there's clearly something very wrong here, something a professional is best equipped to help with.
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You're not going to find him if he doesn't want you to. Sounds like he doesn't or he would have told you how to find him or reached out to contact you before disappearing.
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You're not going to find him if he doesn't want you to. Sounds like he doesn't or he would have told you how to find him or reached out to contact you before disappearing.
I was going to say the same thing. If you respect and care about a performer, you let him go to live his life away from this site. No one wants to be investigated and have intrusions into their private lives. Enjoy the memories and login once in a while to see if he returns. They sometimes do.
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I was going to say the same thing. If you respect and care about a performer, you let him go to live his life away from this site. No one wants to be investigated and have intrusions into their private lives. Enjoy the memories and login once in a while to see if he returns. They sometimes do.
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