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Male Performer Chat: What members don't want to see...
I think members sometimes like the big brother way of things. Just looking at what the models does in his room, even if he is chatting, watching tv, texting on their phone, eating, etc etc 
also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etc
I think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention. Quote
also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etcI think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention. Quote
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ronnie-uk
12/3/14 @ 11:13am
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it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something
Kian - while you are waiting you could look at the member profiles. They might give you some ideas for getting members interested.
I suggested that in a topic called "What Members Like To See":
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21629&num_posts=9
"What Members Like To See" appeared just before this topic "What members don't want to see". My lawyers (Sue Grabbit and Runne) are in touch with louisphillippe's lawyers about the copyright issues - hehe
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Kian - while you are waiting you could look at the member profiles. They might give you some ideas for getting members interested.
I suggested that in a topic called "What Members Like To See":
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21629&num_posts=9
"What Members Like To See" appeared just before this topic "What members don't want to see". My lawyers (Sue Grabbit and Runne) are in touch with louisphillippe's lawyers about the copyright issues - hehe
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I think members sometimes like the big brother way of things. Just looking at what the models does in his room, even if he is chatting, watching tv, texting on their phone, eating, etc etc also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etc
I think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
Generalizing all over the place...
If models has their own rules in their rooms, so does customers who pays the site.. if you cant deal with it.. simple... smart customers be like "k. next model..." and in this site with hot different guys its easy to find a replacement or a new "friend" that would gladly make customers feel comfortable in their room..
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also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etcI think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
Generalizing all over the place...
If models has their own rules in their rooms, so does customers who pays the site.. if you cant deal with it.. simple... smart customers be like "k. next model..." and in this site with hot different guys its easy to find a replacement or a new "friend" that would gladly make customers feel comfortable in their room..
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stinks
12/3/14 @ 11:44am
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Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039
I think members sometimes like the big brother way of things. Just looking at what the models does in his room, even if he is chatting, watching tv, texting on their phone, eating, etc etc also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etc
I think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
KIAN my feeling on hurt- with all the other horrible things said about models-you forgot the horrible thing I said about models and I put it in caps-merry Christmas KLAN and I will see you in your room -ps you can made it up to me by giving me my two front teeth for christmas
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also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etcI think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
KIAN my feeling on hurt- with all the other horrible things said about models-you forgot the horrible thing I said about models and I put it in caps-merry Christmas KLAN and I will see you in your room -ps you can made it up to me by giving me my two front teeth for christmas
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stinks
12/3/14 @ 12:19pm
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Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039
Kian - while you are waiting you could look at the member profiles. They might give you some ideas for getting members interested.
I suggested that in a topic called "What Members Like To See":
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21629&num_posts=9
My lawyers (Sue Grabbit and Runne) are in touch with louisphillippe's lawyers about the copyright issues - hehe
lol good one ronnie
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louisphillippe
12/3/14 @ 9:44pm
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KIAN my feeling on hurt- with all the other horrible things said about models-you forgot the horrible thing I said about models and I put it in caps-merry Christmas KLAN and I will see you in your room -ps you can made it up to me by giving me my two front teeth for christmas
Again STINKY!!! You are missing 4 front teeth and8 molars!!! Geeezzz!!!
and you could use some nice deodorant and room fresher too!!! J/K man!! ( don't send me Sue Grabbit Nrun PLEAZZZZ!!!
)
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Generalizing all over the place...
If models has their own rules in their rooms, so does customers who pays the site.. if you cant deal with it.. simple... smart customers be like "k. next model..." and in this site with hot different guys its easy to find a replacement or a new "friend" that would gladly make customers feel comfortable in their room..
Its not about having my own rules, its about not starring at a room where nobody wants to talk. I cant just stay focused in my room while nobody wants to say a word, so I am doing other things till someone decides to say hi. You know there are also plenty of members on this site, the same as performers. There will always be that new, down to earth, "friend" glad to talk with me while not trying to be a smart ass for no reason.
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KIAN my feeling on hurt- with all the other horrible things said about models-you forgot the horrible thing I said about models and I put it in caps-merry Christmas KLAN and I will see you in your room -ps you can made it up to me by giving me my two front teeth for christmas
That comment of mine shouldnt have been so harsh, probably my mood yesterday wasnt the best one
) I remember what Louis said at one moment about not getting online if you're not in a good mood Quote
Its not about having my own rules, its about not starring at a room where nobody wants to talk. I cant just stay focused in my room while nobody wants to say a word, so I am doing other things till someone decides to say hi. You know there are also plenty of members on this site, the same as performers. There will always be that new, down to earth, "friend" glad to talk with me while not trying to be a smart ass for no reason.
lols aint talkin bout what you do in your own room...
right.. there's plenty of members around, that models can be friends with.... for sure models want to gain "friends" as much as they can.. or else....
Havin another model who acts/looks/smells like an ass is goin to be a good news for models in the other rooms....
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I think members sometimes like the big brother way of things. Just looking at what the models does in his room, even if he is chatting, watching tv, texting on their phone, eating, etc etc also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etc
I think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
I like to clarify that not all members are like that 'just maybe' you are the one who expects too much from every members. Quote
also members dont actually give attention to the performers, it gets awfully boring to be focused only on the room and wait for a member to say something. ) So while members dont talk I prefere doing other things like reading articles, answering on the forum topics, answering to my private messages, looking at other performers, etcI think members demand too much while returning waaay less. if you would want the attention mentioned in many replies to this topic, you should also give the same attention.
I like to clarify that not all members are like that 'just maybe' you are the one who expects too much from every members. Quote
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stinks
12/4/14 @ 11:45am
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Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039
Kian - while you are waiting you could look at the member profiles. They might give you some ideas for getting members interested.
I suggested that in a topic called "What Members Like To See":
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21629&num_posts=9
"What Members Like To See" appeared just before this topic "What members don't want to see". My lawyers (Sue Grabbit and Runne) are in touch with louisphillippe's lawyers about the copyright issues - hehe
Louis your layers has got me to be a expert witness on rules and etiquette on the forums and Ronnie expert witness on rules and etiquette will be sir ken.
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I will not go back to a model's room once I find that the model has a fan (member) who behaves as if he is the model's manager. An example would be me saying the model looks great only to be told by the "manager" that I should take the model private or tip.
There are models that allow this managing to go on because this "manager" may be their biggest tipper or the guy who takes the model on the most privates. I realize that a model can run his room however he pleases, but if I find a model with a "manager" I don't go back to the room. Please allow me to add that i do understand that there are instances in which models need help from a member. If a model can not understand English or if a new model is being tricked by some members, i admire when someone helps the model. What i don't like is when a member behaves as if he owns the model. Just my
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There are models that allow this managing to go on because this "manager" may be their biggest tipper or the guy who takes the model on the most privates. I realize that a model can run his room however he pleases, but if I find a model with a "manager" I don't go back to the room. Please allow me to add that i do understand that there are instances in which models need help from a member. If a model can not understand English or if a new model is being tricked by some members, i admire when someone helps the model. What i don't like is when a member behaves as if he owns the model. Just my
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I like to clarify that not all members are like that 'just maybe' you are the one who expects too much from every members.
As you know already I really dont ask for much, just for the members to be nice people. But when I read all this "don't do's" like:
- dont stay on a phone and text
- dont look at tv
- dont talk to anyone else next to you in the room
- etc
It makes me wonder what should a performer do in front of the camera when nobody in his room wants to talk, or all they say its "stand up baby, show me your ass/cock/legs/balls..."
I always asked the guys to chat, I started topics, I tried to get them to give at least simple answers to simple questions like "hi how are you?" "hey mate how have you been today?" "good day man, how are you?"
If this in your opinion is too much to ask from members, but they're right to ask us not to text on the phone, not to talk with people next to us, not to watch tv, then something must be wrong with me cause I dont get it.
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louisphillippe
12/4/14 @ 6:53pm
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If this in your opinion is too much to ask from members, but they're right to ask us not to text on the phone, not to talk with people next to us, not to watch tv, then something must be wrong with me cause I dont get it.
There are a couple of hundreds models every 3,4 or 5 hours.They are increasing every week because of the failing economies...
The faces,personalities,services and bodies change in every shift so models are many and members ( spending members) are fewer and fewer..
Economy affects members very hard too....also competition is wild in this field
some have chosen to make a living with...
There are models that are always super busy in privateand other types of paid chats here ( almost impossible to get a private with many
of them....
)Those are the 5 star models.
They are doing whatever is right and other models do not do... or have. If a model is too busy with "other more important things" than takingcare of the members coming by then...
I'm afraid we'll shuffle along toother models that have good manners and wants to put up with hardship of been civil,
agreeable and personable.
I learned early in my life that the one that pays for a service is incommand..
and it is bad manners to bite the hand that pets you... This site provides a service...and you have chosen to provide such service. The conclusion and morale are up to you...
it is called COMMON SENSE!! 
Anyhow...
... Just my No offense to anyone
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As you know already I really dont ask for much, just for the members to be nice people. But when I read all this "don't do's" like:
- dont stay on a phone and text
- dont look at tv
- dont talk to anyone else next to you in the room
- etc
It makes me wonder what should a performer do in front of the camera when nobody in his room wants to talk, or all they say its "stand up baby, show me your ass/cock/legs/balls..."
I always asked the guys to chat, I started topics, I tried to get them to give at least simple answers to simple questions like "hi how are you?" "hey mate how have you been today?" "good day man, how are you?"
If this in your opinion is too much to ask from members, but they're right to ask us not to text on the phone, not to talk with people next to us, not to watch tv, then something must be wrong with me cause I dont get it.
I think we need to distinguish between two different issues here, "what members don't want to see" and "what should models do in a quiet room".
I would suggest that the whole "what members don't want to see" applies to when the members ARE talking to the model. If the model is not responding because he is on his phone or doing something else, then the members are going to get frustrated and leave. If they are trying to get the model's attention and the model is totally preoccupied, it becomes a huge turn-off.
On the other hand, if the room is quiet, and no one is talking despite the model's efforts at engaging members in conversation, I think it is fine for the model to be watching television, etc., provided that if someone DOES speak up, the model redirects his attention from whatever he was doing back to the member(s) and the chat. Quote
I will not go back to a model's room once I find that the model has a fan (member) who behaves as if he is the model's manager. An example would be me saying the model looks great only to be told by the "manager" that I should take the model private or tip.
There are models that allow this managing to go on because this "manager" may be their biggest tipper or the guy who takes the model on the most privates. I realize that a model can run his room however he pleases, but if I find a model with a "manager" I don't go back to the room. Please allow me to add that i do understand that there are instances in which models need help from a member. If a model can not understand English or if a new model is being tricked by some members, i admire when someone helps the model. What i don't like is when a member behaves as if he owns the model. Just my
I felt the same way somehow in some rooms there is a member who interrupts the chat with the model like they own the room also instead of having one model to please that makes it two or sometimes three or more that I need to get along with so I wont look like a bad guy but I have no time for that better be quiet or go to other rooms. Quote
There are models that allow this managing to go on because this "manager" may be their biggest tipper or the guy who takes the model on the most privates. I realize that a model can run his room however he pleases, but if I find a model with a "manager" I don't go back to the room. Please allow me to add that i do understand that there are instances in which models need help from a member. If a model can not understand English or if a new model is being tricked by some members, i admire when someone helps the model. What i don't like is when a member behaves as if he owns the model. Just my
I felt the same way somehow in some rooms there is a member who interrupts the chat with the model like they own the room also instead of having one model to please that makes it two or sometimes three or more that I need to get along with so I wont look like a bad guy but I have no time for that better be quiet or go to other rooms. Quote
As you know already I really dont ask for much, just for the members to be nice people. But when I read all this "don't do's" like:
- dont stay on a phone and text
- dont look at tv
- dont talk to anyone else next to you in the room
- etc
It makes me wonder what should a performer do in front of the camera when nobody in his room wants to talk, or all they say its "stand up baby, show me your ass/cock/legs/balls..."
I always asked the guys to chat, I started topics, I tried to get them to give at least simple answers to simple questions like "hi how are you?" "hey mate how have you been today?" "good day man, how are you?"
If this in your opinion is too much to ask from members, but they're right to ask us not to text on the phone, not to talk with people next to us, not to watch tv, then something must be wrong with me cause I dont get it.
Members has their own take they can be quiet or be talkative as you want but it is going to be their choice you cannot force them to speak, give you continues compliments, give tips nor go pvt we are all different so better not stereotype us because not all the members in your room represents all the members of this site if you are experiencing this to every members in your room that probably needs some rethinking that the problem was maybe not with the members. Quote
Havin another model who acts/looks/smells like an ass is goin to be a good news for models in the other rooms....
Made me laugh but it does makes sense
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Model is texting or talking on the phone... Sometime it happened someone from family to search us,right?
Or maybe just a friend who need our help.
For example i use phone for music without use my laptop for that. So sometime i need change the song,right?
Just my point :D Quote
