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20-Point Member Guide from a Model's Perspective
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Male Performer Chat: 20-Point Member Guide from a Model's Perspective
bottom359
Created by: bottom359

8/30/12 @ 3:00pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: NY
Posts: 2

adam,

your posting appears to be alot of common sense and mutual courtsey at first reading. its actually a good guide for sombody new to f4f and disrepecting fools. f4f should think about a "suggeted behavior guide" (im sure marketing can come up with a better name) to read upon joining the site. thx for your toughtfulness.
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Adam Foxx
Created by: Adam Foxx

8/30/12 @ 9:05pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

thxx... I 'm a new kid on the site and I really enjoy reading these forums, because I can learn many things... thank you very much Adam, I hope to make a comment and then comment you as I was with the tips that apply.
thank you again.


Fue un placer que eres un hombre muy muy guapo. Estoy seguro de que todos los numeros maravillosos en este sitio web te van a encantar. Espero que usted tiene un monton de diversion de trabajar aqui y que tienen mucho exito. Todos los de mi mejor...Adam.

(My Spanish is not very good, so here is the English translation also. I hope you were able to understand me. :thumbsup )

It was my pleasure. You are a VERY VERY handsome man. I am certain that all of the wonderful members on this website are going to love you. I hope that you have a LOT of fun working here and that you are very successful. All my best...Adam.

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Adam Foxx
Created by: Adam Foxx

8/30/12 @ 9:05pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

adam,
thx for your toughtfulness.

Thank you 4 your kind words. :thumbsup --AF

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amicu
Created by: amicu

9/1/12 @ 12:43pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: In the F4F Archives, Sublevel 5, aisles 71-72
Posts: 1,088

Sticky? Pfff, I'd suggest every ban redirect to this thread.

Cannot overstate the praises earned here, well said Adam. :thumbsup
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voyeur96
Created by: voyeur96

9/16/12 @ 3:25am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 4

Thanks Adam for the "tips". I've used many of them to guide me through the site. This was my first time trying anything like this. I became a VIP Member and really wanted to enjoy everything that was offered. I do use VOD to see how the models will act with me if I was to take them private. I want to see how passionate the model is about what they are doing and offerring to a customer. I have been in situations where I entered live chat with a model and they look uninterested. So, I love to just have a converstation and flirt with him to get both of us in the mood. I love to see if there is chemistry. I've found some models to be really sweet and they will take the time to just be open, not rushing to just get paid. But there are others who seem really desperate. And once you tell him that you are in the mood, they want you to quickly take them private or they ignore you.

They should realize that it is not just about how hot they are on the outside but also how beautiful they are on the inside that makes one really want to enjoy private time with them. I don't want to tip or waste my time on someone that is sexy but rude. There are alot of performers with great bodies, so it comes down to personality that will make the difference and cause me to willingly give.
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goodguy13
Created by: goodguy13

10/1/12 @ 3:29am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: USA South
Posts: 91

Sticky? Pfff, I'd suggest every ban redirect to this thread.



Actually, that's not a bad idea. :thumbsup
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Eduardo Diaz
Created by: Eduardo Diaz

10/18/12 @ 2:46am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

bump
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Brad Goldick
Created by: Brad Goldick

10/25/12 @ 1:21pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

hi adam hope mujy're right, I want to thank you for the good advice you just gave to me as a new model is a very good guide to follow and make each member to have a great experience with me, this is the idea that as much as the model and the member are fully satisfied, I just read this will be helpful thanks again and hopefully see you soon.
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Created by: bisporti23

11/4/12 @ 1:29pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Germany
Posts: 455

This guide needed a BUMP.

Just coming out of a group. The guy was new with all the consequences attached to it. The pledge-goal was a 1000...the topic:"Welcome"..so no promises were made. He reached the goal, but admittedly the show was..well..his first time.

Some guys really got upset and showed it, but in a way that made me wonder, if the term "guest" might be the right word.

In my perception it was not a intended "ripp-off", he was just new and a bit insecure.
Isnt it possible to give some leeway to new guys (the biggest contributor to the group just did that, btw)?

Bisport

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Sam Mitch
Created by: Sam Mitch

11/10/12 @ 12:26pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Adam Thank you so much for your post. I am a new model on this site and your post has made me realize some of the mistakes i have made being a new model on here. I am the type of guy that hates to hurt peoples feelings so i tend to give in a lot. Unfortunately this has hurt me in a lot of ways because there have been a lot of members that have taken advantage of me knowing that i am new to the site. You have clarified a lot of questions that i have had about this site. Thanks to your post i feel that i can become a pretty successful model on here and again i cannot stress this enough THANK YOU!!!! I will be putting your thoughts on here to work in my own room and I wil let you know how it all works out. Sincerely Sam_Mitch. Performer
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Kuldeep
Created by: Kuldeep

11/12/12 @ 5:20am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Thanks so much Adam :bowdown :bulb
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Maxxie Hamilton
Created by: Maxxie Hamilton

11/16/12 @ 3:12pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Very useful! I remember reading this post when I started being a model lol!

Thx Adam!
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Adam Foxx
Created by: Adam Foxx

11/16/12 @ 5:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Thank you guys. Have a great time camming (models) and viewing (members). :thumbsup --AF
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Awesome Adolf
Created by: Awesome Adolf

12/4/12 @ 5:59pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Nice guide
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Anais Sun
Created by: Anais Sun

12/19/12 @ 8:49am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

PSPlease feel free to add to this list, based on your experiences. This thread is NOT to air grievances, disrespect models, disrespect other members or to disrespect VS/Flirt4Free. PLEASE keep this threat respectful, kind and productive.
:winkwink


Hello Adam, do you mind if l post your topic in female performer forum ? Thank you in advance.
Anais.
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Desmond Desrives
Created by: Desmond Desrives

12/22/12 @ 7:15pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

This is important guys.. Take the time to read it :)
:jerkoff
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Shane Alexander
Created by: Shane Alexander

12/23/12 @ 5:54pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

thank you great tips :twocents
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Created by: forgottenclone

2/5/13 @ 4:02pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult
Posts: 799

This used to be a permanent sticky on the forum, but it somehow got "unsticky-ed". Still a lot of great information for new members and new models. Sooooo BUMP!
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Created by: ronnie-uk

4/19/13 @ 4:41pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381

Bumping this very helpful topic, which used to be a sticky thread.

Hope some of the newer models will note this comment by Hall of Fame star Adam Foxx (copied from post #3):



I have heard from countless members that it's actually a turn-off to them when models promote themselves constantly on the Male Performer Chat thread boards. I have been told repeatedly that it adds NOTHING of value to these threads. Doing so ONCE IN A BLUE MOON is one thing (especially if you have been gone for a long period of time or have something of value to add), but posting 3-7 times a week that, "I'm online!!! Come see me!!! Take me private!!!" is pretty lame. Also highjacking another thread to promote yourself is lame also.


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Created by: bisporti23

4/19/13 @ 5:37pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Germany
Posts: 455


Bumping this very helpful topic....


:thumbsup , Ronnie, (right as always :winkwink )
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