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Party Or Group Chat...Which Do You Prefer?
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Male Performer Chat: Party Or Group Chat...Which Do You Prefer?
Billy Bangs
Created by: Billy Bangs

2/16/13 @ 11:04pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

I agree group chat is a great way to show off what you can do for your customer before they take you to a private
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Created by: phil_usa

3/16/13 @ 10:58am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...Bump for newer members and models :thumbsup
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toppgun
Created by: toppgun

3/16/13 @ 11:03am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Great White North
Posts: 278

For sure group chat as everyone pays their share of the show :twocents
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

3/16/13 @ 11:53am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

same here,group chat...so who`s up for a group chat? buhahah :drinkup go ahead guys,don`t be shy,im there and waitin ya :D :offtopic
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Created by: forgottenclone

3/16/13 @ 7:16pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult
Posts: 799

I like privates best, then maybe Group a close second.

Not a huge fan of Party Chat in general unless it's a model I already know will give it their best shot, (which in case I'll be one of those three or four guys who will carry a whole show). It does get the model additional traffic, but don't whine when the cars aren't all Mercedes..lol

From my experience on Flirt. It takes a really special kind of model/performer to make a Party Chat feel like a party instead of a high-pressured charity auction. The model needs to be able to FIRST correctly assess and gauge his room for enough willing, enthusiastic participants BEFORE starting a Party Chat, then be as engaging as possible in order to keep that high energy level tip-worthy. The tricky part is making the whole thing look easy, relaxed, natural and still be fun. Sounds impossible I know, but I've witnessed that first hand in many Party Chats and had some great experiences.

Unfortunately, nine out of ten times the average model incorrectly assumes that X-number of members=$$$ and that's not always the case. Then the model gets frustrated, loses momentum, or the few tipping members get impatient waaaaay before for the magical "WOOHOO goal" appears. That's the part I really hate about Party Chats, all risk and no guarantees, but even then, an experienced model will know how to gracefully and graciously end a party chat, exit stage left and regroup for another chat later without the drama and trauma.

My biggest Pet Peeve (Oy Vey, I have so many) about Group and Party Chats though? When models publicly gripe and blame members for failed shows. Just saying.
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chinmusic
Created by: chinmusic

3/16/13 @ 7:41pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: 19,627
Posts: 20,555

My biggest Pet Peeve (Oy Vey, I have so many) about Group and Party Chats though? When models publicly, gripe and blame members for failed shows. Just saying.



Agreed! Particularly party chats. (which I avoid). I think it takes a certain temperament. Some models recognize that this vehicle is not for them. Others, unfortunately, do not.
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Created by: ronnie-uk

3/17/13 @ 11:04pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381

I enjoyed the perfect Party Chat/Group Chat combination with the lovely Alam Bee yesterday.

Alam did a Party Chat and set the usual modest targets to "show cock" (about 100) and "go naked" (about 200). He set a target (about 500) for a cum show. I arrived at that point, and saw that he was going to be about 400 short. Lots of guys enjoying the show without paying. I didn't tip (unusually) or say anything as I was pretty sure what was coming next.

The party ended and, sure enough, Alam launched a "Cum on my Abs" Group Chat for 450. We pledged quickly, and Alam easily made his target. I think 3 latecomers made the total 600, and we gave some tips as well. Alam not only did a cum shot, but included a hot dildo show as well.


Alam's Party Chat:

http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/shows/6906969/


Alam's Group Chat:

http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/shows/6906983/


So good to see Party Chat and Group Chat used in this way. Everybody happy :)
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zyxwv098
Created by: zyxwv098

3/18/13 @ 2:14am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 883

I am possible not qualified to voice an opinion, as I have not participated in as many Party or Group Chats as other posters have, but I would say that I prefer Group Chats. For some of the few times I have dropped into rooms with Party Chats in progress, the models have been just lying or sitting there waiting for a tip goal to be reached. There was no real interaction between the models and the members, and no real tipping going on.

On the other hand, most of the Group Chats I have participated in have been high-energy, with the models actively engaging with the viewing audience, responding to comments, acknowledging some appropriate requests and ignoring the inappropriate ones. These were much more enjoyable and more satisfying.

This is a little off-topic, but with regards to one of louisphillippe's comments in February (post #100), I enjoy my private chats as well, but I use them almost exclusively for conversations rather than anything sexual. I prefer to participate in Group Chats for that kind of action. Even though the model may not be earning as much as a private show would bring in, it allows the model to set a reasonable time limit based on his knowledge of his own anatomy to do certain things. In a private show--and in a Party Chat--the whole thing gets tied to the amount of credits available and coming in, which may or may not purchase enough time to get things done. In that case, I do not mind sharing the experience in Group Chat because the likelihood of successful completion is higher.

Again off-topic, and I apologize...with regards to an older post, I have noticed that some participants in Group Chat pledge more than once (sometimes 4 or more times) to help the Group Chat succeed--I have done it myself. Only after the goal has been met do certain members who have been in the room who were actively chatting with the model decide to pledge. Not that I necessarily regret the extra pledges I made, but I can see how some others might become frustrated and irritated with these late pledges, especially as not everyone can readily afford multiple pledges (they might be trying to save credits for private chats, tips, etc.).

Apologies for going off-topic.
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Created by: ronnie-uk

3/18/13 @ 2:49pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381

Again off-topic, and I apologize...with regards to an older post, I have noticed that some participants in Group Chat pledge more than once (sometimes 4 or more times) to help the Group Chat succeed--I have done it myself. Only after the goal has been met do certain members who have been in the room who were actively chatting with the model decide to pledge. Not that I necessarily regret the extra pledges I made, but I can see how some others might become frustrated and irritated with these late pledges, especially as not everyone can readily afford multiple pledges (they might be trying to save credits for private chats, tips, etc


Completely agree with this, zyxwv098

It is understandable that some members hold back in Party Chat. They don't want to tip early and then find that the model doesn't reach his target, or the party ends or he is taken off to private. There are no refunds in Party Chat.

However, Group Chat is totally different. There is no reason at all for holding back, as you get a refund if there is no show. I have experienced the annoying situation you describe lots of times, and it has been discussed in the separate Group Chat topic:


http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=12585&num_posts=97
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stinks
Created by: stinks

3/18/13 @ 11:57pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039

i like old school party like kenni did.
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Created by: phil_usa

3/19/13 @ 11:01am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...stinks, they are good only if you have the right model and enough members who are willing to tip. In Kenni's room there were always plenty of tippers and Kenni always put on a good show, so it worked well.. :)
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Ester M
Created by: Ester M

3/19/13 @ 11:28am (EST) |UTC - 5:00




...I'll get it started. Party chat works well for some performers, but I prefer Group Chat. I have attended many group chats and all of them have been great. :)

...My vote goes to Group Chat :thumbsup



GROUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Created by: bisporti23

3/19/13 @ 6:30pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Germany
Posts: 455

i like old school party like kenni did.



...these were the days, stinks.... :angel
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stinks
Created by: stinks

3/19/13 @ 8:12pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039




...stinks, they are good only if you have the right model and enough members who are willing to tip. In Kenni's room there were always plenty of tippers and Kenni always put on a good show, so it worked well.. :)

phil you are right we will never see a party like king or frank wolf did and it sucks.

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stinks
Created by: stinks

3/19/13 @ 8:15pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039



...these were the days, stinks.... :angel



yes
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Created by: phil_usa

5/25/13 @ 12:48pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...Bump For Newer Members And Performers :)
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Max Hughes
Created by: Max Hughes

5/25/13 @ 3:09pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

As this threads fairly old, I'm sure it's been said that both party and group have their uses and can be very model dependent. Ronnie and z make some very good points as well. It sounds like Alam got things warmed up with party chat and finished the show in group. This is how I like to use party and group in combination. Party turns into a preview, which is useful when it's bringing in members that haven't seen you before. Then, the real show takes place in group where everyone has contributed. I've had successful party chats involving workout shows, etc that lasted an hour plus, but it seems more gratifying for everyone when the sexiest of the sexual takes place in a group chat environment where everyone has had a part in making it happen.

What were the best parts of the party chats Kenni, King, and Frank Wolf did? I'm sure a lot of models would like to bring some old school flavor into their parties :winkwink
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Created by: phil_usa

5/25/13 @ 5:27pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Driving Down Thunder Road
Posts: 4,747




...A lot of charm and playful interaction. :) :angel
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Created by: bisporti23

5/25/13 @ 5:41pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Germany
Posts: 455


What were the best parts of the party chats Kenni King... did? I'm sure a lot of models would like to bring some old school flavor into their parties :winkwink


Its hard to describe in retroperspective....you got to be there...it was an unique combination of perfomance of King Kenni and the interaction between him and the members and between the members, which really crowded his room....everybody really had a blast all the time:angel....these were the days, indeed...(deep)sigh

Bisport
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stinks
Created by: stinks

5/26/13 @ 1:32am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039

As this threads fairly old, I'm sure it's been said that both party and group have their uses and can be very model dependent. Ronnie and z make some very good points as well. It sounds like Alam got things warmed up with party chat and finished the show in group. This is how I like to use party and group in combination. Party turns into a preview, which is useful when it's bringing in members that haven't seen you before. Then, the real show takes place in group where everyone has contributed. I've had successful party chats involving workout shows, etc that lasted an hour plus, but it seems more gratifying for everyone when the sexiest of the sexual takes place in a group chat environment where everyone has had a part in making it happen.

What were the best parts of the party chats Kenni, King, and Frank Wolf did? I'm sure a lot of models would like to bring some old school flavor into their parties :winkwink
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the best parts of party chats was king kenni and his friends like jjj,oily and bisport just to name a few.

:) :) :bowdown :bowdown :bowdown :bowdown
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