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Created by: Tom Lake

8/26/15 @ 11:18am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Hey im tlaikng to guys who might be my previous memers and for guy who never seen me too
When i see a member that was in private with me before and i remember him,its very sad if he will not even say hi.I will not tell here nicknames of guys i speaking about,if they read forum they know about who i talk.Please,dont make models stunned by this.Even if u dotn have credits to spend with you,its not only about private/tips(because u alwasy ahve free boosts!haha).If being serious,guys,speak with us.We are sitting and watching on ur names in chat.You are sitting and watching us,waiting for miracle or action,or i dotn know)But its impossible to make action,without dialog.If someone have soemthign to say about it - welcome :thumbsup

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Created by: aliusuk

8/26/15 @ 5:07pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I must confess I have sometimes done this. I feel I am misleading the model if I talk to him when I have no credits. But sometimes I really want to just look at one of my favorites. On occasion, I have got round the problem by using a different screen-name. But I am uncomfortable doing this.

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Created by: jbark032

8/26/15 @ 6:48pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Created by: Fulgencio Z

8/26/15 @ 9:39pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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I agree with alias UK I've done that too and a lot of times if I don't have the credits I don't feel like I should waste the model's time you know when he has other people interested but in the meantime I get to just watch and enjoy the beautiful sights. Certainly if the model says something to me I won't ignore them I mean I'm always up for talk but like I said I don't want to waste their time either.

I do not agree with you 2, even if you have no credits performers/models care about you, or at least some care and they are very happy when you come in their room and just say hello even if you would not tip or go private. I like that thing and keeping quite it's disrespectful for me . It's Flirt4FREE.

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Created by: chrisdk

8/27/15 @ 1:31am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I do not agree with you 2, even if you have no credits performers/models care about you, or at least some care and they are very happy when you come in their room and just say hello even if you would not tip or go private. I like that thing and keeping quite it's disrespectful for me . It's Flirt4FREE.

Unfortunately there are lots of models who ask you to go private after just a few words exchanged and ignore you when you admit you do not want to or can't spend anything right now. I usually tell new performers, I don't do privates on a "first date", that I want to get to know them and that's when I find out most about their character.

Ted, you've got a great personality, hang in there! You are a very sweet person in the best way possible and surely memorable compared to any quick fling.
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Created by: zyxwv098

8/27/15 @ 2:13am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I admit to generally remaining silent when I enter a room, even the room of a model whom I visit regularly. Sometimes it is because the model is obviously busy with something else, sometimes it is because the model is carrying on a conversation with another member (or members). I tend to wait until either the model acknowledges my presence (which sometimes does not happen if they are extremely busy) or there is a lull in conversation or a break in whatever the model is doing before greeting him. I feel it is more respectful and less distracting when a model needs to concentrate.

Perhaps I am mistaken in this belief, but as I am generally the same way in my offline life, I do not think I will be able to be more forward any time soon.

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Created by: Tom Lake

8/27/15 @ 3:20am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Ted, you've got a great personality, hang in there! You are a very sweet person in the best way possible and surely memorable compared to any quick fling.
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Ted??

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Created by: gofish

8/27/15 @ 3:23am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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I think Fulgencio got it right there.
There is nothing wrong in saying HELLO to any performer when you enter their chat room. It does not matter if you have credits or not as long as you as a member understand that no demands should be made of the performer. If the performer chooses to request that you go private and it is something you don't wish to do merely say not interested in a private just now. If the performer just ignores you from that point merely give his a goodbye greeting and leave.
It is performers like Fulgencio who make the site worth visiting and yes there are a few of them. It is always better to have a lot of people in the room willing to talk rather than none.
Just my opinion for what it is worth.

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Created by: chrisdk

8/27/15 @ 11:32am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Ted??

(*blush*) :orglaugh

TOM I meant Tom, I reeeeeeeaaaallly meant to say TOM, so sorry.
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Created by: deaftn

8/29/15 @ 2:19am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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i'm guilty too.

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Created by: jbark032

8/29/15 @ 2:40pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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i'm guilty too.

The flip side of this is the models that you try and try and try to talk to that never answer you not even to say hi

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Created by: Ted Long

8/29/15 @ 3:34pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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(*blush*)

TOM I meant Tom, I reeeeeeeaaaallly meant to say TOM, so sorry.
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Or maybe you were thinking about me haha jk... or am I?

I just want to say it is very frustrating when no one is speaking, like Fulgencio said, sorry if I spelt that wrong, we do care about our regular customers. If you don't have the money right now, then just tell me, don't just disappear on me, and not come to my room. Then my thought is that you aren't interested in me anymore, or I did something wrong. We might be performers, we might be here to make money, but the things that keep us going is the respectful, honest, and fun members that come in our room and make us feel important, in more ways than just money.

I definitely enjoy the company, in fact, I won't mention names, but a regular customer of mine who I saw at least once a day, suddenly disappeared. I was worried where they had went, so I shot a quick message to say hey and see how he was... Come to find out, he hasn't seen me because he is out of money. When I got that response I was felt sad because it's really not just about money, you grow to care about these individuals that you meet. A quick pop in my room to say hi and how are you? is great in my head, rather than trying to figure out where the person went.

Honesty is important guys, I'm not going to stop talking to you just because you don't have credits, and you know what, maybe one day you will have credits, and we will be able to connect on a deeper level, but until then lets just chat and have a good time. The important part is to keep the communication going, give me something to chat with you about, sexual or not!

Awesome responses from everyone, and GREAT topic, Tom!

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Created by: deaftn

8/30/15 @ 1:28am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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hmmmmm...maybe I need to visit Ted. He is well spoken

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Created by: Michel Kris

8/30/15 @ 8:28am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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agree with you man!

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Created by: gofish

8/30/15 @ 6:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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hmmmmm...maybe I need to visit Ted. He is well spoken

YES YOU DO MR DEAFNT ....JUST WONDERING WHY IT IS TAKING YOU SO LONG

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Created by: Tom Lake

8/31/15 @ 7:23am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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(*blush*)

TOM I meant Tom, I reeeeeeeaaaallly meant to say TOM, so sorry.
:bowdown

Hahaha)U own me then.Joke.Im not girl,so i wil lnot show u periods reaction on this lol

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