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Male Performer Chat: Size Matters
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Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!?
I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.
I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice."
Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*
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Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!?
I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice."
Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today..... Quote
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tickler_puck
1/21/18 @ 1:37pm
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Location: Baltimore, MD
Posts: 21
Slightly misleading subject....
Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!? I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.
I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice." Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*
Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
I'm 10" if I measure from my SPINE! Sometimes I wonder if this isn't a F4F measuring standard.
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Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!?
I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice."
Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
I'm 10" if I measure from my SPINE! Sometimes I wonder if this isn't a F4F measuring standard.
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Slightly misleading subject....
... barely popping out of their hand when they jerk.
Bless your heart, they can't help it; they just have big hands.
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... barely popping out of their hand when they jerk.
Bless your heart, they can't help it; they just have big hands.
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freneticallycalm
1/22/18 @ 10:10am
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
I share this frustration. I'm not concerned about their farm back home. I said "Cock size" not "Rooster size."
We need to get a hashtag #UseMeasuringTape started on Twitter!
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We need to get a hashtag #UseMeasuringTape started on Twitter!
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Slightly misleading subject....
Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!? I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.
I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice." Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*
Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
Ask support f4f, may be they will help and will fix BIO of man who like to lie about his size
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Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!?
I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice."
Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
Ask support f4f, may be they will help and will fix BIO of man who like to lie about his size
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I can always count on the comedians to appear and give me a laugh!
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ronnie-uk
1/22/18 @ 10:42pm
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Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381
I can always count on the comedians to appear and give me a laugh!
I liked the fun replies too, Z-Money, but I think I understand your comment. This is a fairly important issue for the Flirt4Free site, and not to be dismissed lightly. We don't want this to escalate to the point where "everyone does it".
If performers tell lies about their cock sizes it raises questions about whether the performers are honest and can be trusted. That reduces the chances of a performer building up a loyal fan base.
Also, it can be very awkward and embarrassing for performers in party chat when they reveal their so-called "monster" cock and get a number of hostile comments. This can be unpleasant for all, and spoils the mood of the party.
The performers might also get a number of negative (one star) reviews.
On a lighter note, it has been suggested in the past that the site needs an Official Measurer of Cocks. I even applied for the job myself, and was told that someone would "reach out to me". I'm still waiting...
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I liked the fun replies too, Z-Money, but I think I understand your comment. This is a fairly important issue for the Flirt4Free site, and not to be dismissed lightly. We don't want this to escalate to the point where "everyone does it".
If performers tell lies about their cock sizes it raises questions about whether the performers are honest and can be trusted. That reduces the chances of a performer building up a loyal fan base.
Also, it can be very awkward and embarrassing for performers in party chat when they reveal their so-called "monster" cock and get a number of hostile comments. This can be unpleasant for all, and spoils the mood of the party.
The performers might also get a number of negative (one star) reviews.
On a lighter note, it has been suggested in the past that the site needs an Official Measurer of Cocks. I even applied for the job myself, and was told that someone would "reach out to me". I'm still waiting...
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I liked the fun replies too, Z-Money, but I think I understand your comment. This is a fairly important issue for the Flirt4Free site, and not to be dismissed lightly. We don't want this to escalate to the point where "everyone does it".
If performers tell lies about their cock sizes it raises questions about whether the performers are honest and can be trusted. That reduces the chances of a performer building up a loyal fan base.
Also, it can be very awkward and embarrassing for performers in party chat when they reveal their so-called "monster" cock and get a number of hostile comments. This can be unpleasant for all, and spoils the mood of the party.
The performers might also get a number of negative (one star) reviews.
On a lighter note, it has been suggested in the past that the site needs an Official Measurer of Cocks. I even applied for the job myself, and was told that someone would "reach out to me". I'm still waiting...
Whenever I have encountered this, I just leave the room immediately, for the reasons you mentioned. The funny thing is, the models that I have seen with this problem are relatively popular ones, so it appears the "fans" are either not reading the profile, don't care about the discrepancy, or like the model too much to bring it up. I'll give models the benefit of the doubt in thinking that they just didn't measure when they made their profiles and guestimated. I don't think it's uncommon for men to think they're bigger than they really are.
It also appears that some studios (I know of one) put a measurement without actually asking their new model about size. I discovered this when I noticed that every model from that studio had the same measurement!
AND it was the opposite of "you're smaller than you say." At least two models were bigger than listed and ended up having to change the profile.
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Among the stupid things customers ask is "how big is your cock?" They often ask when they are looking right at it. If you can see it, you can see how big it looks. This is a fantasy sex site. It does not matter how big the model says it is, nor does it matter how big it really is. What's important is how big it appears to be. If somebody's dick doesn't look big enough, why does it matter how big he says it is? Just move on to the next room.
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lol, models lie about EVERYTHING on their profiles. You think they are all gay? or have big cocks? or have the fantasies and fetishes they stipulate on their bios? Come on man, none of these models are honest about anything, they are just actors
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This is a fantasy sex site. It does not matter how big the model says it is, nor does it matter how big it really is.
Ok, you continue to enjoy fantasy phantom dick then...? The fantasy is the experience. A fake personality? Sure. Fake desire? Yeah, ok. But if the profile says what can be expected with them, then that's not delivered in private, that's what I'm talking about.
lol, models lie about EVERYTHING on their profiles. You think they are all gay? or have big cocks? or have the fantasies and fetishes they stipulate on their bios? Come on man, none of these models are honest about anything, they are just actors
We're talking about two different things here...
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Ok, you continue to enjoy fantasy phantom dick then...? The fantasy is the experience. A fake personality? Sure. Fake desire? Yeah, ok. But if the profile says what can be expected with them, then that's not delivered in private, that's what I'm talking about.
lol, models lie about EVERYTHING on their profiles. You think they are all gay? or have big cocks? or have the fantasies and fetishes they stipulate on their bios? Come on man, none of these models are honest about anything, they are just actors
We're talking about two different things here...
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Ok, you continue to enjoy fantasy phantom dick then...?
I didn't say anything about phantom dick (whatever that might be). The people who come to this site to jerk off are engaging in fantasy sex. 99% of these customers wouldn't ever be able to get their favorite model in bed, but in this fantasy world, they certainly fantasize about it...and jerk to their fantasy. If the model says his dick is 12 inches, but it looks like seven inches and you like the way his dick looks, why bother to agitate over facts?
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gofish
1/24/18 @ 2:39pm
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,792
Sort of in agreement with Carbon....if it is all about the size of the guys dick then perhaps the viewer needs to rethink why they are on the site. As for those errors on the BIO page well think they call that FUFFING or something a long those lines.
If the performer make you laugh and feel good no matter what the size is then he really did his job.
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If the performer make you laugh and feel good no matter what the size is then he really did his job.
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Sort of in agreement with Carbon....if it is all about the size of the guys dick then perhaps the viewer needs to rethink why they are on the site. As for those errors on the BIO page well think they call that FUFFING or something a long those lines.
If the performer make you laugh and feel good no matter what the size is then he really did his job.
You really didn't read what was written. This is entirely about "Don't p!ss on my leg and tell me it's raining" for me, and when what you're saying is blatantly false, it's more like "Don't p!ss on my leg and tell me I p!ssed myself."
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If the performer make you laugh and feel good no matter what the size is then he really did his job.
You really didn't read what was written. This is entirely about "Don't p!ss on my leg and tell me it's raining" for me, and when what you're saying is blatantly false, it's more like "Don't p!ss on my leg and tell me I p!ssed myself."
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Z has some of the best posts - I think you are addressing a larger issue - don’t assume any reality when you enter the site - many many models say many things - you can’t always distinguish fantasy and role play from reality and that includes measurements. D
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They might using cm
Slightly misleading subject....
Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!? I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.
I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice." Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*
Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
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Slightly misleading subject....
Not looking for debate on whether actual size matters for pleasure, but I'm getting more and more irked by the mismatch between how big guys are saying their dick is on their profile and reality. Do some countries measure from hole to hole or what!?
I look at the profile out of curiosity, but size won't prevent me from visiting a guy. I'm not a size queen, but I find it very annoying to see 18+ cm on a guy's profile only to discover that they're more like 12-14 and barely popping out of their hand when they jerk. If members see a size advertised on the profile and use that to base their decision on tipping for flashes or contributing to goals, etc, that's a problem.I just imagine the profile being created and models thinking "no one will notice."
Check out the "Monster Cock" category and see how many actual monsters you find. Flirt's management of categories is another topic entirely. *eyeroll*Truth in advertising is important to me, I guess.....or maybe I'm just grouchy today.....
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chrisdk
3/16/18 @ 2:22pm
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
On a lighter note, it has been suggested in the past that the site needs an Official Measurer of Cocks. I even applied for the job myself, and was told that someone would "reach out to me". I'm still waiting...
WHAT?? Still waiting? Who's ass to I have to kick?? This is clearly your honour ronnie!
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WHAT?? Still waiting? Who's ass to I have to kick?? This is clearly your honour ronnie!
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Totally agree with you! I don't care what kinda cocks other people like. I like em big. And theres a reason they state cock size in the bio. Its not so that everyone should lie about it. If the model is small dicked but places himself in the monster cock category, then its nothing but a scam. If size doesn't matter, why is it stated in the bio? And why do so many model lie about it, and never the other way (saying its smaller than it really is)?
Worst and most extreme example Ive come across is Josh Palmer. Dont know if hes active here anymore, but he was seemingly doing very well. Hes got a great face and body, but an absolutely ridiculous dick. Worst part was he was so arrogant and cocky as well, claiming he had a 7-8 inch cock. He'd have a hard time getting to 4" lol
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Worst and most extreme example Ive come across is Josh Palmer. Dont know if hes active here anymore, but he was seemingly doing very well. Hes got a great face and body, but an absolutely ridiculous dick. Worst part was he was so arrogant and cocky as well, claiming he had a 7-8 inch cock. He'd have a hard time getting to 4" lol
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he was so arrogant and cocky as well
Redundancy, it's never used enough...actually it is because, well, that's what it means.
cocky means arrogant. Vick, it was bad enough form calling out the performer in his open room while he was in a show (on the occasion I observed) but doing it here, months later, for another audience; seems vindictive.
Why, because he stretched the truth? Nothing that hasn't happened here before and certainly not deserving a renewed attack. Hell, a lot of information in any models' bios is fabricated. They'll tell you so. If that is what annoyed you, visiting sites like this will only set you on edge.As for arrogant, I visited his room a few times and never found him to be. Maybe he was to you, because of how you spoke of him. Why did you visit him at all? If you like 'em big and he wasn't, why waste your time?
I'll give ya this. Your choice of words...using COCKY to describe someone less endowed. It seems a little off.
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Totally agree with you! I don't care what kinda cocks other people like. I like em big. And theres a reason they state cock size in the bio. Its not so that everyone should lie about it. If the model is small dicked but places himself in the monster cock category, then its nothing but a scam. If size doesn't matter, why is it stated in the bio? And why do so many model lie about it, and never the other way (saying its smaller than it really is)?
Worst and most extreme example Ive come across is Josh Palmer. Dont know if hes active here anymore, but he was seemingly doing very well. Hes got a great face and body, but an absolutely ridiculous dick. Worst part was he was so arrogant and cocky as well, claiming he had a 7-8 inch cock. He'd have a hard time getting to 4" lol
I read the first post in this thread and immediately thought of Josh Palmer as well
I was shocked by the size when I saw it first time also, but I decided to have a little fun with it instead. Was rather fun to do a bit of sph on him. Seems he doesn't like to have his lil "manhood" ridiculed so he cut the show short after about 5 minutes lol. Before anyone judge me, when he writes 19 cm in his bio and he struggles to make it half of that(!) he should expect it! Quote
Worst and most extreme example Ive come across is Josh Palmer. Dont know if hes active here anymore, but he was seemingly doing very well. Hes got a great face and body, but an absolutely ridiculous dick. Worst part was he was so arrogant and cocky as well, claiming he had a 7-8 inch cock. He'd have a hard time getting to 4" lol
I read the first post in this thread and immediately thought of Josh Palmer as well
I was shocked by the size when I saw it first time also, but I decided to have a little fun with it instead. Was rather fun to do a bit of sph on him. Seems he doesn't like to have his lil "manhood" ridiculed so he cut the show short after about 5 minutes lol. Before anyone judge me, when he writes 19 cm in his bio and he struggles to make it half of that(!) he should expect it! Quote
