Sorry guys .. just want to rant for a second. I was in a models room this morning, and a user came in speaking his native language (Spanish) and the model put down the keyboard, stopped responding to the open chat room, and held a 20 minute minimum conversation with this one user and ignored the rest of the room. I was considering going private with the model when this happened.

If you want to have that kind of conversation, have the user take you private.

/Rant Off

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Would you have felt the same way if the new arrival had spoken to the model in English, or using whisper texts you could not see? If not, sounds like you just feel left out because you did not understand their conversation.

I know what you mean. My favorite model is in Colombia, and regularly gets Spanish speaking users in his room, and carries on conversations with them. Yeah, it does make me feel left out, but it is obviously not meant for me, and that is fine.

What is NOT fine is a model actually ignoring others TRYING to talk to him, to give attention solely to one user, regardless of the language. If you were not trying to talk to him (or if you were just being polite and waiting for them to finish), then I can't blame the model for not stopping the conversation to talk to you, You should have initiated a conversation.

Also, realize that models are here to make money, and if a high number or VIP user comes in the room, it is only that need that makes it logical for them to get most of the model's attention. But I agree no user - even guests - should be ignored, if they are asking real questions to initiate a conversation (Not just repetitious posts to "show" something in open. LOL) Quote

GrayBear .. I agree with what you said. What irritated me was that I was in the middle of a conversation with the model, when the Level 6 Green badge came in and started out in Spanish. What irritated me was when the model put the keyboard to the side and started to only speak and respond to the one user, not even finishing our conversation. I know I'm probably being petty, but was just venting how i feel.

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GrayBear .. I agree with what you said. What irritated me was that I was in the middle of a conversation with the model, when the Level 6 Green badge came in and started out in Spanish. What irritated me was when the model put the keyboard to the side and started to only speak and respond to the one user, not even finishing our conversation. I know I'm probably being petty, but was just venting how i feel.


Ah... that makes a bit more sense to me. It wasn't a matter of the different language, per se, but the fact that the model dropped conversation with you to speak to the new person.

It is not unusual for models to favor high number (or VIP, like us) users when they enter a room. What is even more likely is if the model has seen the user before, and rememebrs that he is a big tipper. Unfortunately, in any business where the workers are paid strictly in tips, you can't blame them for trying to butter up the ones MOST likely to tip generously.

My favorite model is just the opposite, I have seen him ignore big number users, to speak to a guest or single digit user, or a user that he (and I) know hardly ever tips. Why? Because he LIKES them. Damm good reason to speak to someone, don'tcha think?

But that doesn't excuse him being rude to you. I would have whisper-texted him something like "I see you are too busy to speak to me anymore? Too bad, I was hoping to spend a lot of time - and likely money - here. Take care." In the very least, he'll have something to think about. If he is smart, he will sent you a private mail message apologizing.


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With being bored with current chat aside, (from experience) the Models are usually adept enough to carry on more than one conversation. However if they rudely don't ask ya to wait a moment or seem willing to lose potentialities (believing you decided not to ask/state/ even wtf circumstances) one has to either ignore, ask, complain, and/or go private and see how long the 'other' conversation lasts and if it does leave and ask for your credits back, don t go back, look at the abuse button carefully (suggest always to email VSMEDIA first before severe consequences on the abuse button) and don t go back after telling him, whoever about financial loss... remember until that private button pushed ANYBODY id financial source of tips and if time spent with another custmer may/gets manyyyy tips....you may have been prioritzed. That and rudely treated maybe as well......speaking from experience.....after tipping half an hour fairly well, a PM came up , a second later Model went to private, exclusive and well you know...substance talks and whichever oes, however $$$$ loudest and most seductive of all. Quote