I do not know if it only happens to me. But it confuses me and frustrates me a little bit when registered users enter the room, and you say hello and try your best. However, you do not receive at least a hello in return. Am I the crazy one for wanting a hello?. Or is it normal in the rooms? Quote

To you, talking may be normal. To someone else, not talking may be normal. They are your customers. If they don't want to talk to you, leave them alone and quit criticizing them for something as simple as not talking. I've seen customers cause lots of trouble. Those are the ones you should worry yourself about. Quote

Philip your question is valid. Though, yes, some people don't engage in conversation. If they don't speak I imagine they aren't spending credits. They aren't customers in the traditional sense. Though one day they might be, so try talking with them and if they don't reply, leave them to their silence. Quote

To you, talking may be normal. To someone else, not talking may be normal. They are your customers. If they don't want to talk to you, leave them alone and quit criticizing them for something as simple as not talking. I've seen customers cause lots of trouble. Those are the ones you should worry yourself about.



Totally agree with this. Sometimes I just want to kick back and watch a cute guy do his thing... without feeling like I need to readjust my position every few seconds to respond to a new message/whisper. Quote

Philip your question is valid. Though, yes, some people don't engage in conversation. If they don't speak I imagine they aren't spending credits. They aren't customers in the traditional sense. Though one day they might be, so try talking with them and if they don't reply, leave them to their silence.



I agree with half of this. Try talking with them and if they don't reply, leave them to their silence. Absolutely.

As for not being customers in the traditional sense (meaning probably not spending any credits), I wouldn't be so sure about that. I'm usually very quiet for some time when I'm checking out new models I don't yet know. I'll enter their room, and then immediately head over to their full bio and read everything. If I like what I see there, I like to see what they're like in their own elements before they know me, and it's usually much easier to do that if I could just keep my mouth shut for a while. Since this is like 90% of the users here anyway, they'll just assume that I'm another person who doesn't really like to talk which works for me. I don't believe that by not talking, I'm sending a message that I somehow don't like or won't ever tip a model, especially if I'm returning to their room on frequent repeat visits.

Since I spend the bulk of my time here in my favorites' rooms, I personally prefer to wait till I feel like the new person I'm checking out might genuinely become one of those favorites for whatever reason, and then I'll start to open up and talk more in the chat and eventually directly to the model. Once I add them to my favorites the tips and the shows tend to begin straightaway, but I'm generally very silent up until that point... pretty sure I'm not the only person who does this. Point is silent members might just be checking out a profile or if they're coming back frequently or on a regular schedule (if they're anything like me, at least) that could be a sign they like the model and are just figuring out how much - which will probably influence how much they tip *when* they do start tipping. Quote

As for not being customers in the traditional sense (meaning probably not spending any credits), I wouldn't be so sure about that. I'm usually very quiet for some time when I'm checking out new models I don't yet know. I'll enter their room, and then immediately head over to their full bio and read everything. If I like what I see there, I like to see what they're like in their own elements before they know me, and it's usually much easier to do that if I could just keep my mouth shut for a while. Since this is like 90% of the users here anyway, they'll just assume that I'm another person who doesn't really like to talk which works for me. I don't believe that by not talking, I'm sending a message that I somehow don't like or won't ever tip a model, especially if I'm returning to their room on frequent repeat visits.

Since I spend the bulk of my time here in my favorites' rooms, I personally prefer to wait till I feel like the new person I'm checking out might genuinely become one of those favorites for whatever reason, and then I'll start to open up and talk more in the chat and eventually directly to the model. Once I add them to my favorites the tips and the shows tend to begin straightaway, but I'm generally very silent up until that point... pretty sure I'm not the only person who does this. Point is silent members might just be checking out a profile or if they're coming back frequently or on a regular schedule (if they're anything like me, at least) that could be a sign they like the model and are just figuring out how much - which will probably influence how much they tip *when* they do start tipping.

Exactly! All that applies to my comment "Though one day they might be...." A customer that is. A person who pays for a service. Quote

Philip your question is valid. Though, yes, some people don't engage in conversation. If they don't speak I imagine they aren't spending credits. They aren't customers in the traditional sense. Though one day they might be, so try talking with them and if they don't reply, leave them to their silence.


You imagine? As advice, that's not worth much. I've bought and spent between a quarter of a million and a half million credits here. I almost never talk to strangers. I often go into a room, tip and leave, without saying anything. But the moment someone complains that I don't talk, I leave.
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MPV, you're right. I should not have imagined monetary involvement when the OP said he doesn't even get at least a hello.

HOWEVER...... if I were a cam performer and members were tipping but not saying hello, I wouldn't turn to the forums to comment on it . I'd say thank you and bank it. That's just me.
Your opinion is noted. Thank you. Have a Merry Christmas or live long and prosper. Quote

MPV, you're right. I should not have imagined monetary involvement when the OP said he doesn't even get at least a hello.

HOWEVER...... if I were a cam performer and members were tipping but not saying hello, I wouldn't turn to the forums to comment on it . I'd say thank you and bank it. That's just me.
Your opinion is noted. Thank you. Have a Merry Christmas or live long and prosper.


My entire point. Say thank you and bank it.
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Exactly! All that applies to my comment "Though one day they might be...." A customer that is. A person who pays for a service.



My bad, I completely glossed over the part about their potential to become more 'traditional' customers there. Quote

Try to put yourself on their place, you opened F4F and want to find model with who you want to interact, then you click on first one and there with 70-80% chance will get auto "Hello" message. How much time will you spend if you will answer to every msj if you will click on 10-15 rooms before you will find model what you like Quote